There are many great benefits that can come from winning. Unfortunately we often overlook some of the downfalls associated with winning, especially in relationships.  As a young kid growing up I developed a winning mindset, and slowly turned into a 'must win' type of person. Due to this must win mentality losing was considered a bad thing, and over the years I subconsciously developed mannerisms and habits that were harming my relationship. The most frequently occurring issue was the need to win ever argument or confrontation. In this episode I will describe all the characteristics of a must win person, and explain how extensive damage can emerge from conflicts if this is not properly dealt with. I will also share 10 key points on how to transform from a 'must win' person into a holistic winner, and how to win with your partner in a relationship.  Enjoy, Joel