Episodes
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Published 04/29/24
Welcome to Swinger University! In this episode, hosts Ed and Phoebe dive into the world of vulvas, challenging societal norms and embracing the diversity of colors and shapes. As vulvas gain more visibility, the Ed & Phoebe discuss the influence of media, including porn and social media, on shaping unrealistic standards. Join the conversation as they explore the reasons behind the pink vulva stereotype and the impact it has on individuals' confidence and self-perception. Discover the...
Published 12/13/23
🌙✨ Welcome to Swinger University, the Slumber Party edition! Join Ed and Phoebe as they unravel the secrets of female sleep orgasms, taking you on a dreamy adventure that'll leave you wondering, "Did that just happen in my sleep?" 🌙✨ 🛌 In this episode, the hosts of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe, dive into the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, sexual health, and sex education with an intellectual and sexy twist. Grab your pillows and join the conversation as they explore the...
Published 11/29/23
Dive into the complexities of the swinging lifestyle as we explore the controversial topic of "Taking one for the team". How do you solve the four-way connection problem? In this eye-opening episode, we share personal experiences and survey insights from a wide spectrum of lifestylers, unraveling the intricacies of consent, boundaries, and the art of saying 'no' or 'yes' in the swinging community.  Key Topics: Team 'No': Unyielding standards, the evolution of preferences, and the power of...
Published 11/15/23
There's a less than glamorous side of the Swinger lifestyle. We explore 10 common challenges Swingers face, from juggling everyday life to dealing with rude people. Discover practical solutions to enhance your Swinger journey and ensure a smoother, more enjoyable experience. Highlights:  Balancing "vanilla life" with Swinger adventures.Coping with career demands and unconventional work schedules.Managing hormonal fluctuations and periods in the Swinger world.Unprogramming social conditioning...
Published 11/01/23
Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the intriguing world of Locktober, a unique and captivating chastity challenge! In this episode, we discuss this self-initiated kink with Mr. Red an author of erotic stories, and an active participant in Locktober. We discuss its fascinating impact on his relationship and his personal experiences.  Join us as we explore the following topics:  How Mr. Red got started in chastity and swingingStories from some of his experiences with the...
Published 10/18/23
🌟 Step into the exhilarating world of the Folsom Street Fair with Swinger University. Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they take you on a journey through this celebration of sexual liberation and openness, where self-expression knows no bounds. From public displays of affection to kink demonstrations, this episode dives deep into the heart of one of the world's most unique events. Explore the no-judgment atmosphere, connect with fellow attendees, and learn how this experience can empower...
Published 10/04/23
Join Ed and Phoebe in this enlightening episode as they delve into the intriguing world of ethical non-monogamy, exploring the depths of gossip in the swinger lifestyle. Learn about the nuances of good and bad gossip, how to handle negativity and bullying, and discover the power of effective communication within the community. 🔍 Key Topics & Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction: Ethical Non-Monogamy & Gossip 1:34 - What is Gossip, and Why Do We Do It? 7:12 - The Historical Significance...
Published 09/18/23
As we've matured our body chemistry has changed. Do men need testosterone replacement therapy? Phoebe discussed some women's issues in a previous episode about hormone replacement for Women. Gentlemen, today it's your turn to get the low down on low Testosterone.  OUTLINE:    I. Reasons:    I. Symptoms/Benefits:     I. Libido, body fat, muscle, mood, energy, bone density, and quality of erections    II. Testosterone's purpose     I. Hypogonadism     II. Less indication for "healthy" men    ...
Published 09/04/23
In recent years, testosterone therapy for women has gained popularity, fueled by self-styled menopause specialists on social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, as well as celebrity endorsements. The claims associated with this therapy are numerous, ranging from transforming libido to reducing brain fog, improving energy and mood, staving off dementia, enhancing bone strength, and maintaining muscle mass. However, it is essential to scrutinize these claims and evaluate the available...
Published 08/21/23
Menopause is a phase in a woman's life that brings about hormonal changes with potential effects on various aspects of health. These changes can impact skin tone, muscle mass, fat distribution, libido, mood swings, cholesterol levels, and the risk of heart disease. However, the historical narrative surrounding Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) has created misconceptions and fear, largely influenced by the miscommunication of the findings from the WHI study in 2002, which reported an increased...
Published 08/07/23
Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off?  How was it communicated to you?  What was your reaction?  Can you come back from this? Instead of brushing it off as no big deal, we are going to reveal my process and outline it in our blog so it may help you address a similar situation or any situation that involves consent and violations of consent.  We are proof that you can preserve the relationship and friendship if you so desire. OUTLINE:  What do you do...
Published 07/24/23
We discovered some surprising reactions to the "NO Kissing" Rule from Swingers. Since kissing can make or break a swinging encounter find out how the "NO Kissing" rule is a hot-button in the swinger lifestyle. To shed light on the matter, we combed through a survey involving 386 individuals, and the results were nothing short of intriguing. We discovered a wide range of opinions, showcasing both the positive and negative aspects of kissing.  So, if you'd like to understand more and have an...
Published 07/10/23
In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe recap the past few days of their vacation. They discuss their excursions to the waterfall and the fun they had taking sexy photos near the banyan trees. They also talk about the pole dance night at the resort, where they participated in a competition and Ed ended up winning. They share details about the routines and costumes, including Phoebe's revealing outfit. The hosts also mention the body shot roulette and their time...
Published 06/13/23
Welcome to day four of Ed and Phoebe's trip to Costa Rica. They are currently at Hotel Jaco in Jako, sitting outside the bar on a picnic table with a view of the ocean. They're enjoying their vacation and feeling relaxed. They talk about the previous day, which was a free day for the guests to do their own excursions. Many people went on a chocolate tour, where they learned about the process of making chocolate from cacao beans. Ed and Phoebe found it more interesting than expected. After the...
Published 06/07/23
In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe give a recap of their activities on Day 2 of their Costa Rica trip. They talk about their pool time, including pool games like a unique ring toss game involving a catcher and a gentleman throwing rings. They discuss the poolside pasties theme and the importance of consent, sharing insights on how to make consent sexy and navigate its nuances. They mention the evening's fancy, not formal theme and the lingerie party with a...
Published 06/06/23
In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, Ed and Phoebe share their experiences on day 1 of their Costa Rica Takeover. They talk about the orientation day, a unique speed dating event where participants match nuts and bolts, and their delicious dinner. They also discuss their bar-hopping adventure in town, including visits to the Own Bar and the Black Marlin. The hosts mention the lively atmosphere, dancing, and even their encounter with the local sex work industry. They conclude...
Published 06/04/23
Ed and Phoebe, the hosts of the Swinger University podcast, are in Costa Rica to celebrate their anniversary. They talk about their experiences in Costa Rica, including their visit to Arenal Volcano and the hot springs, excursions to waterfalls, and exploring the town of Jaco. They mention the affordable prices, family-friendly resorts, and the fun they had with a group of friends. They also tease some spicy details from a card game they played but mention that those details can only be found...
Published 06/04/23
In my 20’s I was nervous about getting tattoos so I decided to get piercings instead. At the time getting a Prince Albert Piercing sounded like it would feel really good, so I went for it! Do I still stand by my decision? OUTLINE:  What is a Prince Alert or PA? Genital piercingsDescribe the PAOrigin - Urban legends (chastity, hygiene) Most popular originBenefits Stimulation for both partnersCertain position work betterReverse PA for other positionsMileage may varyVisually appealing, if your...
Published 05/29/23
We explore two intriguing topics: why the heck "c**t" is so controversial, and why women feel the need to shave their pubic hair to look like children down there!  So get ready for a deep dive as we shed some light on their history and cultural significance.  SOURCES A Brief History Of The C-Word Cultural History of Pubic Hair How Hair Removal Becam A Beauty Standard History of Sex & Sexuality What's So Bad About the C-Word? When Did Women Start Shaving? The History of Female Hair...
Published 05/12/23
In this episode, we explore the benefits of moaning during sex and foreplay. Moaning is a natural sound that can create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partners, transport us to a place of heightened sensory pleasure, and drop us into our core sexual energy. It's also a form of communication that tells your partner what feels good and what doesn't, resulting in a more pleasurable experience for both partners. However, faking a moan can set up miscommunication in the bedroom, so...
Published 05/01/23
Do you want to know how to turn your sex life around in 10 days?!  We talk to our very sexy guest, Layla London, from The Curious Girl Diaries who invites you as a voyeur into her diary of sexual encounters.  Layla also opens up about her past experiences with crappy encounters and offers valuable insights on how to turn things around and create great sexual experiences through a vetting process. You will also want to hear how we discuss shame in the lifestyle and the importance of addressing...
Published 04/14/23
Compersion is learning to grow through other feelings, in order to get to that one. Join us as we speak with the actors and play writes from "Compersion". Nik and Mik use their autobiographical stories to create an intimate and steamy theatrical experience.  "Compersion" is an adult-only play that celebrates a healthy lifestyle in ethical nonmonogamy, where the characters explore real-life scenarios and participate in erotic intimacy scenes.  The guests get to enjoy a meet and greet with the...
Published 03/31/23
In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of BDSM and Dominance and Submission (DS) relationships with Dr. Tiffany "K". We explore the basics of BDSM and the different practices that fall under this umbrella term, including kink and fetish. You will find out how to get started in BDSM and hear us emphasize the need for open and honest communication (even if it's uncomfortable) when discovering new things together.  Join us in this episode as we learn and explore more about the...
Published 03/17/23