𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐫 𝐧𝐨𝐭, 𝐰𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐚𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝, 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝, 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐯𝐞, 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞, 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐜𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐮𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝, 𝐟𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝, 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐦𝐞𝐝 & 𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬. And if this is currently you at the moment, take these points into consideration & hopefully they can help you with your current situation.