Episodes
The Patrick brothers talk about ideas to answer the question: What Is A Bid For Connection And How Do I Meet It In My Relationship? Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at [email protected] or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class...
Published 07/04/22
My guest today is my former therapist, Amy Andrus.  She is a licensed marriage and family therapist since 2000 & CSAT since 2013.  She’s taught courses at BYU & counseled many students at the Women’s Services and Resources Center, where her eyes were opened to the world of sexual addiction and trauma. Amy's life has been affected by sex addiction in a personal way. She knows the struggle, shame, and guilt the addict experiences. She has found it rewarding to facilitate individual...
Published 06/29/22
Caller James' Question: "As A Man In Recovery How Do I Integrate My Masculine and Feminine Parts?"   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at [email protected] or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This...
Published 06/27/22
Chelsie was married at 18 years old, had her 1st child at 21 & divorced at age 22 after discovering her husbands longterm affair.  She is now remarried with 4 more children, navigating coparenting, step siblings, half sibling, & being an interracial family.  She says "I don't know everything but I do know there can be a beautiful life after divorce." Find her at https://www.instagram.com/lifewiththedorts/ Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world...
Published 06/22/22
The Patrick brothers discuss How Can Trauma Be Good For Us.   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at [email protected] or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex addiction recovery and...
Published 06/20/22
Elise is married to a great guy, a mom of 2, teaching 20+ years of fitness & the last 17 years she has focused on yoga therapy, helping people in real life & virtually find healing & FUN.  She lives in Midway, Utah & will be at my retreat helping those women heal a little bit more.  You can find her at @utahyogaandwellness & @elisejonesyoga on instagram. Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after...
Published 06/15/22
Caller Tami's Question: "A couple of mths ago I'd responded to a podcast where you'd role played, mentioning that I felt the "betrayer" seemed they were portraying avoidant behavior likely to cause a betrayed to feel there's more secrecy. I am a huge proponent of the betrayed asking anything they want. It has helped me immensely (anxious type- I'll make up and fill holes if I don't know - which is usually worse than the truth!). Anyway, you'd asked about coming on - I'm completely open to it...
Published 06/13/22
Katy is a certified Breathwork Facilitator, NLP Practitioner, Hypnotherapist and trauma informed coach. She specializes in helping you transmute your pain into your greatest teacher so you can live alive and connected to your passions.  Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women...
Published 06/08/22
The Patrick brothers discuss answers to the question: What Are Some Seemingly Good Beliefs That Actually Harm Your Recovery?   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at [email protected] or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class...
Published 06/06/22
Cameron Browne is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor with 10+ years of experience practicing therapy.  He has a passion for helping people recover from trauma and believes that unresolved trauma is at the root of many mental health issues.  This passion for treating trauma has led him to become trained in several trauma-focused therapies.  He is trained in Neurofeedback, EMDR, and has advanced training in Accelerated Resolution Therapy. Cameron currently has a private practice in...
Published 06/01/22
Caller Beth's Question: "How do I process, heal, and trust my husband again after there has been a betrayal that has devastated our family and our lives? The betrayal is a camera that was found in our downstairs bathroom that is used by my daughter and her friends. We separated when the camera was discovered but are currently living together. He seemed remorseful for a while but now he is refusing to go to counseling with me and he is not taking action towards recovery."   Tyler...
Published 05/30/22
Caller Kathryn's Question: "Married 41 years. Separated 3.5. On New Year’s Day, he said he wanted to show me sobriety ( from fantasy and masturbation) and he was going to begin with a new CSAT and he wanted us to get together twice a week and start marriage counseling too. None of this has happened. I asked him in a text two weeks ago how his sobriety was going. He said he couldn’t say it was going well. His excuses for not moving back home are his resentment and his lack of sobriety. He has...
Published 05/23/22
Rebecca Burd is from Stuart, FL. Wife and Mom to 3 amazing (not so little) sons. She's a 30 year chronic Nero illness survivor. In 2001, she & her husband launched an anti bullying non-profit. They co-wrote Speak Life End Bullying the Musical, a contemporary musical featured in secondary schools across the country impacting 375,000 student. In 2021, they turned the live production into an on-demand film. Now the fight against bullying can happen in any school, anywhere, at any...
Published 05/18/22
Caller Rachel's Question: "I’ve been in Alanon since 2006, Sanon since 10/26/21. My husband has been sober for almost 4 years. We have been together off and on over 18 years. I’ve heard that addictions can come in three and I was warned early on that I had a long road with my husband. We’ve both grown independently but not together- it’s been really tragic- two people that are supposed to be professing christians and working programs? If God is in center, why arent we coming together? He told...
Published 05/16/22
Caller LuAnn's Question: "I am having difficulty in letting go. My husband of 7 years was “found out”. He has hooked up with men, online, and met 4 different people that have been admitted to me. I’ve forgiven; he acts like he doesn’t think he needs forgiveness. What is wrong with me that I can’t let go!?"   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work...
Published 05/09/22
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey...
Published 05/04/22
Becca is a mom of four little girls. She also works part time as an ICU nurse. She is passionate about women's health, and working to be healthy and thrive no matter what stage of life you're in. Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of...
Published 05/04/22
Caller Dave's Question: "I attempted to have an affair and was caught. My spouse and I have been working through my addiction recovery and her betrayal trauma recovery. At times she is triggered and talks to me about it to keep communication open and transparent. How do I keep from shaming myself for what I have done to her when she needs me to just listen."   Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery +...
Published 05/02/22
My guest today is my former therapist, Amy Andrus.  She is a licensed marriage and family therapist since 2000 & CSAT since 2013.  She’s taught courses at BYU & counseled many students at the Women’s Services and Resources Center, where her eyes were opened to the world of sexual addiction and trauma.  Amy's life has been affected by sex addiction in a personal way. She knows the struggle, shame, and guilt the addict experiences. She has found it rewarding to facilitate individual...
Published 04/27/22
Caller Adriene's Question: "This question is for your last podcast regarding what works and doesn’t work in betrayal trauma recovery. I do agree with everything that was said in there. However, as someone who has been through betrayal trauma, addiction with her spouse, and abuse with her spouse I just wish the abuse part could be validated a little bit more. I agree that the abuse model can keep us stuck so we need to change up the model a little bit. However, once I learned about abuse and...
Published 04/25/22
Monica lives in Jackson, WY with her husband and golden retriever, Lox. Her career began as a professional skier and action sports film producer. Prior to launching Marea she was a Marketing Director in the DTC ecommerce space and has worked with tens of ecommerce brands to help them grow through organic marketing channels. She launched Marea in 2020 after being a victim of her period for 17 years and experiencing the life changing benefits of nutrition. Monica is now on a mission to share...
Published 04/20/22
Pam's Question: Why does it feel like when I got better my partner got worse? We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video + Audio): https://open.spotify.com/show/6SDuQFy88qSD2ytuRP5oEB?si=b1082398a1bc4834 We would love to help answer your...
Published 04/18/22
Matthew is a serial entrepreneur who works with influencers and businesses who want to create professional online educational resources.  He has been fascinated with developing healthy wholeness in life by studying the roles human psychology, neuro-science, quantum physics, and personal development principles play in finding happiness. He owns several businesses focused on expanding emotional intelligence in corporations and helping entreprenuers attract the success they desire more naturally...
Published 04/13/22
With the recent ridiculous scene from the Oscars, Tyler and Brannon break down the absurdity and talk about where toxic masculinity was showcased instead of real masculinity.  We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video +...
Published 04/11/22
Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton, an award-winning researcher, a relationship coach at luvbites.co, and a podcast host at Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast. She recently gave a TEDx Talk titled Become Sexually Powerful that highlights her 5,000-participant study examining variables that predict sexual satisfaction, and her journey from a sexually anxious girl from Thailand to a sexually confident...
Published 04/06/22