Ever worn the "ride or die" label in your relationship? You're not alone. In this episode, we're joined by Shanita Hubbard, author of "Ride or Die: A Feminist Manifesto For The Well-Being of Black Women," to dissect this common trope in Black romantic relationships. In this episode we discuss:  The Ride or Die archetype— where it started and how it’s been woven into Black culture How to decipher between being supportive vs self-sacrificing What our role is in actively dismantling the ride-or-die stereotype And much more! Connect with Shanita Hubbard and support her work here! This week’s gem: Hip Hop Piano Covers. Listen here on Spotify! Hit our Homegirl Hotline…we’d love to hear from you!  Call or Text us at (310) 363-1067 for advice, to share the things you’re proud of, or any gems you think we’d enjoy.  Watch video on Youtube Support us on Patreon | Get Bravado bonus content + special discounts! Shop our Merch here! Our Sponsors: * Check out Chime: chime.com/BRAVADO * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BRAVADO for a great deal: happymammoth.com * Check out NPR: npr.org * Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.rosettastone.com/ * Check out The Wonderful Company: https://www.wonderfulpistachios.com/ Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-black-girl-bravado1502/donations Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy