In this episode, I explore Relationship Anarchy as a valid alternative to conventional relationship models... including the importance of relinquishing our fantasies, so that we may realize our destiny. Enjoy!  Music credits: Sex Pistols, Zero 7, Mariah Carey, James Brown

In this mini-episode, I discuss the possibility that our souls may have a different gender than our physical bodies. Do our chromosomes determine our identity or is there something more? What can we do when we feel like we're born in the wrong body?  Musical credit: DJ S and Lou Reed - Walk on the Wild Side  

In this mini-episode, I explore the idea of different "frequencies" of orgasm... like the different notes on a musical scale. Enjoy! 

In this episode, I share reflections on some of my FAVOURITE love songs and poems. (I also have a moment of vulnerability listening to a classic Bee Gee's tune :)) A gift from my heart to yours. Enjoy!

In this episode, I break down the difference between guilt and shame and offer some suggestions for dealing with these feelings in a constructive way. I also look at the etymology of the word 'sin' and reclaim it as a way to align with our spiritual source WITHOUT the fear, judgement or eternal damnation of mainstream Christianity.  Music credits: Fats Domino, Evelyn Champagne King, INXS, The Police and Red Hot Chilli Peppers

In this episode, I welcome my good friend Amy Color to discuss her insights working with over 10,000 clients as an Intimacy Therapy Coach. Enjoy! 

In this final episode of Season 1 of the Find Your Bliss Podcast, I discuss the ART and PRACTICE of tantric sex. As well as pay tribute to my very first tantra teacher Light Miller. 3  Enjoy!  Music credit: SHASTRO - Tantric Heart

In this episode, it gets personal. I tell stories about my penis. And other interesting stuff for both men and women to know about the male sexual member. Including my favorite smoothie receipe for added sexual vigor AND a serious moment about male circumcision.   Music credit: Anugama

In this episode, I share personal stories about how facing our fears and our attitude about "negative" experiences can bring a sense of power to create our ideal outcome. Also, I offer a few suggestions for dealing with dark sexual desires (including age play and rape fantasies) as well as outlets for our more sadistic impulses. Enjoy! 

In this episode, I invite Aeriel Colleen Smith back to discuss her views on Tantra and how it's impacted her life. Music credits:  Deva Premal, James Randall Smith, Jai Uttal Please note: there were a few technical difficulties making this episode and the amount of reverb effect on Aeriel's voice was unintentional. :)   

In this episode, I discuss the spiritual path of tantra as understood from my own experience and perspective. We'll explore the origins of the word itself as well as some practices, some philosophy and I share the story of my kundalini awakening. [Please NOTE: this is NOT about sexual tantra specifically. I'll cover that in more detial soon!] Music credits: Jai Uttal, Shastro, James Smith, Deva Premal 

[TRIGGER WARNING] In this episode, I define the term shadow and discuss the benefits and lessons learned from doing shadow work. I explore sensitive topics including the distinction between embracing our dark/taboo impulses and acting on them as well as the moral implications of child sexual abuse.  Music credits: Meredith Brooks, George Thoroughgood, Chris Isaac and Jace Everett

After a short 2 week vacation, I'm back with the theme of Family, Tribe and Community UBUNTU! I share my personal experiences of the healing and creative power of the tribe.  Also, I delve into the meaning of the African term UBUNTU. Enjoy! Music credits: Sister Sledge - We Are Family • Phuzekhemisi: Ma Afrika

In this episode, I wax poetic on the deeper meanings of this auspicious holy day. Contemplating death, rebirth and planting seeds for a fruitful harvest on this, April Fool's Day/Easter special.  Special thanks to Bonobo and his music for providing an ample backdrop for todays sermon.  http://bonobomusic.com/

In this episode, I invite my friend Wendy Cobina De Mos to talk about her journey from Kundalini yoga to devotional Mantras and studying Tantra to launching the first Sacred Sexual Music Festival. Yes, that's her music in the background! More here: http://chantyourheartopen.com/

In this episode, we go deeper. I explain how to properly enter a woman and find & massage her G-SPOT, as well as my "Tit for Tat" rule and "Knock on the Door" technique. Plus a bit of anal. Enjoy! 

In PART 1 of this 2 part episode, I offer my TOP 5 tips, tricks and techniques for making sex more blissful. I discuss sublimating energy, my "10 second rule" and the Yin/Yang of intimate touch. 

This episode is all about Self Pleasure and Masturbation. I talk about using enhancements like porn, vibrators and cannabis as well as the pitfalls for both men and women AND how to use masturbation to become a better lover. Enjoy!

In this episode I talk about what Sacred Sex means, outline the benefits and reveal 5 STEPS anyone can take to bring more sacredness into their love making right now. 

In this episode, I discuss my process of creating a guided meditation focusing on self love, as well as embracing our darkness, our emotions and our sexuality as a path to wholeness. Download the original file (without introduction) here: www.skydancer.ca/podcast

In this episode I answer some frequently asked questions about my work as a Sexual Healer. I talk openly about what sexual healing is, how it works and why it's important for everybody, not just those who are survivors of abuse and trauma. 

In this special Valentine's Day episode, I have a candid conversation with my partner Aeriel about the origins of V-Day and how we REALLY feel about it. We also plant the seeds for a 100 person self pleasure ritual in Hawaii in 2021. Enjoy!

In this episode, I welcome back Aeriel Colleen Smith to discuss our shared wisdom and experience of navigating open relationships over the last 10 years. We discuss the origins of monogamous marriage and suggest a couple of books as resources for those considering an alternative relationship model. 

In this episode, I re-define the term 'trigger' and explain the ABC"s for dealing with emotional triggers in a way that brings deeper intimacy and healing in intimate relationships.