Episodes
Today’s episode is a life update on Jessica B and her family. She will say that she has zero plans to add value to this episode - but she just couldn’t help herself!  Jessica B shared her 2 favorite parenting books (linked below) and why she loves them. She shares about an upcoming surgery that is triggering because 5 years ago, this same surgery wreaked havoc on their marriage. Plus, are you curious what Jess has been wearing for 3 days straight? We might as well call this episode a...
Published 12/15/21
Jessica and Anna Walsh, creator of Happy Mash, talk about the ins and outs of vibrators.  Regardless of your experience level with vibrators, this conversation has great information. Before Anna found Happy Mash, she passionately pursued women’s challenges and served as a police officer. Links: Happy Mash Happy Mash IG A Woman Charged Podcast One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time to do that, Jessica B...
Published 12/08/21
This is a fun, more intimate conversation with a little something for everyone! Jessica B. is feeling fairly grinchy this season and realized she needed to flip her self-talks around. Perhaps the same thoughts are on repeat in your head, too? Then Jessica B. talks about loud sex and the reasons you should let loose more often. The more we can normalize these aspects of sex, the less shame we will carry! Now, when it comes to setting boundaries during the holidays, Jessica B. has got...
Published 12/01/21
Jessica B. has a candid and upbeat conversation with Daniel Purcell host of Get Your Marriage On and co-founder of Intimately Us. One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time to do that, Jessica B will select favorite reviews from time to time to offer a Free Gift. To claim, listen to every episode and when you hear your review being read, click this link to claim your Free Gift! To connect more with Jessica B,...
Published 11/24/21
The polls are in and Jessica B. is using YOUR answers to shape today‘s conversation about masturbation. Bottom line: We need more awareness of what is healthy and acceptable sexually! In today‘s episode, Jessie B. discusses why so many have shame about self-pleasure and how to break free of that.  She also discloses her own c**t discovery journey! What did you love about this episode? Please rate and review! That is the BEST thank you!!! Links: Enhancement Gel Free Call One of the best...
Published 11/17/21
Let‘s talk trauma baby! Jessica B. is unpacking a little of what she is learning about trauma and the effects. Basically, we are all running on the hamster wheel of trauma. Does that sound disheartening?  It doesn‘t have to be! Getting through to the other side of trauma has so much freedom! So put your earbuds in and listen in! Jessica discussed the idea that yelling at kids can be as harmful as physical abuse. She learned this concept in The Babysitter: My Summers With a Serial...
Published 11/10/21
Masturbation is a favorite topic for Jessica B. Today she hopes to inspire you to think outside the confines of what you always took for granted as truth.   Two reasons you should consider masturbating are: 1) this is how you discover what you like and 2) you can then communicate this to your partner for a more erotic experience together! So grab your sweetie’s hand, go for a walk and listen in! Bonus points for the couple who discusses the topic together after listening! One of the...
Published 11/03/21
What you need to know about today‘s episode: • Free gift (you know who you are) • Hello, Libido! essential oil • Mr. Sexy interviews Jessica B. about the purpose behind her bitch t**s.  ◦ How it started and how it‘s going. ◦ The experiences of Safeway versus church ◦ The overall purpose One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time to do that, Jessica B will select favorite reviews from time to time to offer a...
Published 10/27/21
We are back!    •   What to expect moving forward: wed, bonus on Monday, recap Fri    •   Following blog    •   Brief current situation What to look for in a sex coach    1.  Connection         A.  Personality, faith, values, location, gender    2.  Certification         A.  Not certified, vet a lot         B.  SCU    3.  Reviews + Social         A.  Yelp, social comments         B.  Website My experience    •   6+ years PR    •   Sarah Klein past mentor, disclosure class...
Published 10/13/21
Jessica B is back behind the mic! She is sharing her best tips to keep you navigate your libido regardless of what‘s happening in your personal life. Here is a peek inside today‘s conversation... The most fun orgasm - ever! It‘s okay to cry - it doesn‘t have to be sad tears :( Oxytocin can decrease stress. Communicate with spouse needs and desires. Love is an action, less of a feeling. Create feelings by taking action. Vibrator, of course. Middle of the night urges. Sex games Libido...
Published 08/27/21
It is time to go for a walk with Jessica B. In today's episode, Jessica talks openly about struggles her family goes through and what we as Christians should do for each other. One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time to do that, Jessica B will select favorite reviews from time to time to offer a Free Gift. To claim, listen to every episode and when you hear your review being read, click this link to claim...
Published 07/28/21
Mr. Sexy has entered the room to share what led him into an abusive relationship and how he is still overcoming from those traumas. This is a fantastic episode to listen to with your spouse while showering together, getting ready for bed or road tripping. Jessica B does not disappoint with her moments of laughter, candid questions and the vulnerability between her and Mr. Sexy. If you are a regular listener you will enjoy all the references made through today's discussion. Links from...
Published 07/12/21
Jessica B first posted her ass to Instagram as an experiment. The response was more than she expected. She continued with this new piece of content and found many connections with women from the photos. At the same time, less savory comments are also a part of the deal, unfortunately. Listen to today's episode as Jessica breaks down now she navigates this grey area in her work. One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for...
Published 07/06/21
Jessica B is always encouraging you to take the sexy selfie. The problem is: but how? Boudoir photographer Alicia Swingle is sharing her best techniques to help you boost your sexy confidence in the privacy of your own bedroom. "Boudoir is for everyone," Alicia says. Listen in to discover if boudoir is something for you! Connect with Alicia: Alicia Swingle Photography Home Page Instagram One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank...
Published 07/02/21
How to know if you are in a sexually coercive relationship and what to do about it Has sex ever felt like an obligation? Have you ever had sex to avoid the ramifications of saying "no?", does your partner give you gifts with certain expectations of sex in return, or were you taught to “put out” if your date buys you dinner? If any of these scenarios sound a little bit familiar, today's episode is for you. 
In fact, Jessica B polled her Instagram audience in preparation for this epistle. She...
Published 06/30/21
On today's episode, Jessica B. interviews Karleigh Saunders about her work as confidence coach.  She passionately shares her story of abuse starting at the age of 12 and now that cycle of abuse carried into adulthood.  She can now look back and see all the red flags she couldn't see before.  She is a living representation that confidence is a skill and anybody can learn it.  So put on your big-girl panties because Karleigh is taking us to church in this episode!  Connect more with...
Published 06/27/21
You might be having obligatory sex if you're thinking about the guilt trip you will receive after You say no. Or if you're worried he will find an alternative. Or if you're simply having sex based on your Christian duties. We would love to know your thoughts on today's put cast episode One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time to do that, Jessica B will select favorite reviews from time to time to offer a...
Published 06/21/21
Today, author Sheila Gregoire is giving us an inside look at her most recent, biggest project, “The Great Sex Rescue.” She began this project in 2019 after reading the chapter on sex in a book called, “Love & Respect,” and was appalled at what she read. This lead to a survey of 20,000 women discussing what they were taught about sex and how it affects them in their marriages today. Sheila’s findings are WILD! She is going against much of Christian culture as she points out how the...
Published 06/18/21
Jessica B. tears the veil on an intimate conversation about mis-matched libido with her and Mr. Sexy. One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time to do that, Jessica B will select favorite reviews from time to time to offer a Free Gift. To claim, listen to every episode and when you hear your review being read, click this link to claim your Free Gift! To connect more with Jessica B, follow the links...
Published 06/14/21
Jessica B. has a wonderfully candid conversation with Danie and Christopher Hall as they discuss a rarely-discussed problem for men in the bedroom. Don’t worry, they don’t leave you hanging as they discuss together the #1 solution for overcoming a potentially detrimental problem in the bedroom. Connect more with Danie and Christopher on Facebook: Danie Christopher One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time...
Published 06/11/21
Jessica B is answering 2 questions today: Can you be a Christian and support the queer community? What sexual boundaries are you supposed to have as a Christian? One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time to do that, Jessica B will select favorite reviews from time to time to offer a Free Gift. To claim, listen to every episode and when you hear your review being read, click this link to claim your Free...
Published 06/04/21
You're in for a treat as Jessica B. Invites her friend, Holly Greystone, who is also co-creator of the Queernundrum Podcast to discuss all things queer and church. You are going to love the energy both women bring to the table today! This conversation is unique because Jessica B and Holly both grew up as Christians and went through discovering their Personal truths about sexuality and religion as adults. It's through friendship, open dialogue, and zero judgment that allows for this candid...
Published 05/28/21
Jessica B. re-caps her wonderful conversation with Kayla Adams ad dives deeper on the top ways women can ensure they eliminate painful sex! Discover with Jessica the top 3 things women can do today to enjoy their best sex life! Don't forget to take the Sexual Freedom Quiz! One of the best ways to support the work being done here is to rate and review the show. As a thank you for taking the time to do that, Jessica B will select favorite reviews from time to time to offer a Free Gift. To...
Published 05/17/21
Kayla Adams decided to become a sex therapist when she saw how many questions her friends about sex and how much shame negatively impacted so many people’s relationships. She grew up Jehovah’s Witness and her husband grew up Mormon so Kayla has a good understanding of sex-shame. In some cases, she has seen sex-shame show itself through painful sex. Kayla grew up in Salt Lake City, Utah and was always very aware that her blackness set her apart, and not in the best way. During college, Kayla...
Published 05/14/21