Have you lost that lovin’ feeling? Oh, oh that lovin’ feeling! Bring back the flowing juices, cuz they’re gone, gone, gone. Hot little topic today! Want to take a guess at which of the Two Gals is juicy and which one is dried up? You know how it goes… Sitting in a tree. K-I-S-S-I-N-G. First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage. Don’t worry, no baby making over here. How many of us have heard that being “In Love” is short-lived? There’s a difference between being “in love” and loving someone. You need both to keep the juiciness flowing! Real life stuff happens. Projection. Blame. Fear. One day you can’t get enough of the juice and the next day you’re ready to throw the juice back in their faces! Just where does the breakdown happen? What’s the common denominator when you’re IN LOVE? What’s the one thing that happens and instantly kills the loving and/or dries you up? Listen as the gals explore the secret to bring back that lovin’ feeling, how to remain easy + flexible, and how to keep the insurrections low so that the erections will stay high! Have you lost that lovin’ feeling? Listen as the Gals explore how to bring it back! Oh, oh that lovin’ feeling! Juices flowing! Can’t wait! Hot little topic today! 1:21- IN Love relationship and it’s juicy deliciousness vs I Love you, you’re my best friend, and I love hanging out with you. When the romance and deliciousness can get lost. 2:31. It’s gone! Where’d it go? The lie is you can’t get it back, once it’s gone, it’s gone. Diff between being in Love and loving someone. In love, we have to be close, do things with them, and touch them. 3.07 KK in a juicy phase right now. 3.24. Old thinking- juiciness only lasts for a short while and then all the juice goes out. 3.50-Nursery Rhyme- KK and RHRN sitting in a tree. 4.08 You’ve got to have the loving feeling to stay in love! 4.20 Sometimes it does happen that you lose it, grab it back, you don’t have to go. 4.41 KK and RHRN a moment of looking at you, “I hate you.” 5.06- Past; wouldn’t know why she was having that reaction. Game over. Projecting and blaming leading to less love. 5.47- How do you go from being in love one day to wanting to punch him in the face the next day. 6.01- Realized she had gone silent on something, some behavior, some pattern. More she wasn’t speaking up, blame started to creep in from Mr. RHRN. 7.38- On one side RHRN is judging her for not enforcing “requests” to kids and on the flip side, RHRN is benefitting from her not saying anything when he doesn’t follow through on his actions. 7.54- Let’s pick it apart. Where is the breakdown? It’s in the “In Love.” 8.15- Second judgement comes into the frame, almost always kills “In Loving.” KK, “My pussy dries up.” 8.58- Minute he stepped into judging her, she felt like respect waned and he wasn’t in the “In Love” space. 9.10- Defense swings back to retaliate. F**k it. 9.30- Hallmarks of being in love: generosity, abundance, creativity, possibility, laughter, joy, surrendered, cool, easy, flexible. Easy & Flexible are the fun part. Moment one goes away, it all goes away. We step out of love. 10.24- Don’t ever say, “are you on your period?” Goes downhill when KK behavior towards him changed. 11.08- When you’re in love, the common denominator is acceptance. 1 1.33 Love is patient, kind, and spacious. Even if it’s you judging yourself. 1 2.38- Middle ground of how to love herself enough by not getting taken advantage of AND still feel patient and kind. Difference between judgement and reflecting something so that you can live a better life. 14.17- It’s the little things that erode the “In Love.” 14.38- Alison Armstrong, “I want to be in love with everyone in my life, everyday.” In Lo