Episodes
Published 02/05/24
This week, we're continuing our conversation on Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM). Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, Looking, Queer Eye, Will Ferrell, and more.  Info Discussed:  Pedro Pascal auditioned for ‘Looking’ & more surprising revelations from the HBO dramas’s 10-year anniversaryQueer Eye’s Bobby Berk spills tea on Tan France ‘situation’ and why he leftWill Ferrell navigates his best friend coming out as trans in new doc ‘Will & Harper’Pioneering Black LGBTQ+ Activist...
Published 02/05/24
More and more people are experimenting with non-monogamy in the gay community and beyond. But not a lot of advice is out there about opening up relationships, so we're unpacking ethical non-monogamy (or ENM) in greater detail in this week's episode, and next week we're continuing the conversation with a part 2. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, Lil Nas X apologizes, Maine becomes a trans refuge, Club Q, and more.  Info Discussed:  Lil Nas X divides the internet after issuing an...
Published 01/22/24
This week, we're celebrating our 50th episode! Then, we unpack a listener mail question that leads us into a discussion about deal breakers in a relationship. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, Lil Nas X returns, RuPaul's Drag Race Season 16, Kid Cudi, and more. Thank you for listening and supporting the show!  Info Discussed:  RuPaul wins 8th consecutive Emmy Award for Outstanding Reality TV HostWatch Lil Nas X serve glamour & kick Satan's ass in 'J Christ' videoRep. Robert...
Published 01/16/24
In our first episode of 2024, we’re talking about porn again! PornhubGay released its annual year in review, so we’re taking a closer look at the popular search terms and discussing the porn ya’ll watched last year. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, CNN's viral New Year's kiss, Lil Nas X, Florida being anti-trans again, and more!  Info Discussed:  A gay couple who were CNN’s first New Year’s kiss went viral. They continue to spread loveDuke Star Jared McCain Claps Back at 'Grown...
Published 01/08/24
This week, we’re exploring Grindr’s 2023 year end unwrapped. We’re analyzing Grindr’s data and learning where the highest percentage of tops, bottoms, verse, sides, and so much more are located. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, Pope Francis, Black Gay Conservatives, Michael Lucas, and more!  Info Discussed:  Pope Francis Approves Blessings for 'Irregular' Same-Sex CouplesBlack Gay Conservative Targeted With Homophobic Slurs at Right-Wing ConferenceLesbians make more money than...
Published 12/26/23
We're doing a pivot from our usual non-monogamous discussions and we're talking about monogamy in this week's episode. We're unpacking a study on relationship trends among gay men, specifically gay monogamous relationships. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment for this week, Grindr, Billie Eilish comes out, RuPaul's Drag Race season 16, and more!  Info Discussed RuPaul's Drag Race season 16 cast revealed: Meet the 14 new queensBillie Eilish wants reporters to leave her alone about her...
Published 12/11/23
This week, we're taking a look at our 2023 Spotify Unwrapped stat-by-stat. We've come along way and we're so happy you're listening! Our 'LGBTQs in the News' for this week includes, Lil Nas X, George Santos, Tiffany Pollard, and more. Info Discussed Beyoncé Released Her Renaissance Tour Film on World AIDS Day to Honor Her Uncle JohnnyLil Nas X Has Entered His Christian EraTiffany Pollard To Host OUTtv Reality Competition ‘Looking For A Third’The Pope Ate Pasta Alongside Trans Women at the...
Published 12/04/23
This week, we’re diving into a new research study discussing the decline of gay bars in America. In the ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, DaBaby, Marlon Wayans, Queer Eye, and more! Info Discussed:  DaBaby Says Backlash to AIDS Comments Was a 'Blessing in Disguise'Marlon Wayans Supports His Trans Child With 'Unconditional Love & Acceptance'Bobby Berk Is Leaving Queer Eye After Season 8George Santos Allegedly Spent Campaign Money on Sephora, Hermès, and OnlyFansJesús Ociel Baena Saucedo,...
Published 11/20/23
A listener question leads us into a discussion about Grindr's ethnicity filter and racial preferences in the gay community. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the news' segment we're discussing, the NYC Marathon, Jamaica, The Grammys, and more.  Info Discussed: Jamaican Supreme Court upholds colonial-era sodomy lawMeet Cal Calamia, the nonbinary runner who just won the New York City MarathonThis year’s Grammys noms feature the gayest showdown in Herstory and it’s pure Padam-oniumLGBTQ youth suicide...
Published 11/13/23
This week, we’re discussing a recent study out of the UK analyzing young people identifying as LGBTQ+ more so than ever. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ section, queer sports news, Omar Apollo & Pedro Pascal, Club Q update, and more!  Info Discussed:  Maebe A. Girl for Congress 2024Dwight Howard has essentially come out — and almost no one is talking about itChe Flores becomes NBA's first out nonbinary and transgender refereeNHL rescinds ban on rainbow-colored Pride tape, allowing...
Published 10/30/23
This week, a question from a listener leads us into a discussion about gay cuckolding. We're unpacking the sexual fantasy and learning all about it! Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, Jada Pinkett Smith, Pulse memorial, Drag Race, and more.  Info Discussed: The Expanding Phenomenon Of Cuckolding: Even Gay Men Are Getting Into ItThe City of Orlando plans to purchase Pulse nightclub site & finally turn it into a memorialAuthor of “Don’t Say Gay” law stole $150,000 in COVID funds....
Published 10/23/23
Chris and Gene discuss their obsessions of the week including Kim Petras's 'Problematique' album and senorita bread. In 'LGBTQs in the News' a new drag school coming to San Francisco, Troye Sivan, Madonna's 'Celebration' tour, and much more. Plus, a nasty question about kinks and a DM about dating someone in the closet with homophobic parents from our listeners.  Info Discussed:  Madonna’s beautiful tribute to friends who died of AIDS on Celebration Tour has fans in tearsTroye Sivan...
Published 10/16/23
This week, we’re discussing a new Pew Research Survey analyzing the acceptability of open marriages. We get into why the gay community is so much more open to open marriages. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, Doxy-PEP, Laphonza Butler, Wayne Brady, and more!  Info Discussed:  City council removes plus sign from LGBTQ+ Pride proclamation after deciding it promotes BDSMCDC recommends queer men & trans women take a morning after pill to prevent STIsLaphonza Butler Sworn in as First...
Published 10/09/23
We’re back-back-back-again! For real this time! Fresh off of a 9 month hiatus. This week, we’re answering the infamous question: “Where have y’all been?!” Plus, we have a jam packed list of 'LGBTQs in the News' to get into. We’re so happy to be back and hope you’ll be tuning in once again.  Info Discussed:  Beyonce in Final Talks to Release ‘Renaissance’ Concert Film Through AMC Theaters Omar Apollo is selling a vinyl with artwork of his penisSenator Scott Wiener Goes To Folsom & Shows...
Published 10/02/23
Cheating isn't just for the monogamous! Cheating is a common struggle within open relationships, so let's unpack it. In this episode of the podcast, we will discuss the different ways that cheating can manifest in open relationships, as well as how to foster communication and understanding. We hope that this episode will provide helpful advice and strategies for managing cheating in open relationships! Info Discussed:  Pope Francis clarifies earlier comments: Homosexuality ‘not a crime’Major...
Published 01/30/23
Every wonder what the LGBTQ+ acronym stands for?! Well on this week's episode we got you covered! We're analyzing each letter of the acronym and discussing our take on using queer as an umbrella term for the community. Plus, in 'LGBTQs in the News' we're talking Bad Bunny, Drag Brunches, George Takei, and more!  Info Discussed: Bad Bunny and Bridgerton Creator to Bring Queer YA Bestseller to NetflixGeorge Takei reveals the unexpected role Arnold Schwarzenegger played in his coming out...
Published 01/16/23
In our first episode of 2023, we’re back to talking about porn! PornhubGay released its annual year in review, so we’re taking a closer look at popular search terms and discussing the porn ya’ll watched last year. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment: Noah Schnapp comes out, RIP Edwin Chiloba, RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 15, and more!  Info Discussed: Noah Schnapp just came out as gay in the most laidback wayPolice in Kenya are investigating the death of young fashion designer and LGBTQ...
Published 01/09/23
It’s been awhile since we talked about Grindr, so this week we’re discussing the apps's year end unwrapped, and we give you an update on our current Grindr habits. Plus, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, we’re talking about pegging and RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 15. Listen now and enjoy! Info Discussed Rapper Lil’ Yachty couldn’t care less if people think he’s gay, and that is why we stanBarbados has officially decriminalized gay sex2023 declared the year of pegging by porn site: ‘A...
Published 12/26/22
This week, we continue to unpack common gay myths that gay men have about each other. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment we unpack the cancellation of Legendary, Brittney Griner, RuPaul's Drag Race, and more! Did you hear?! We have a holiday giveaway where we’re gifting a brand new pair of 2nd generation Apple AirPods. Visit our Instagram page to learn more! Info Discussed:  RuPaul's Drag Race moves to MTV for season 15 premiere dateHBO Max Cancels Queer Favorites Legendary and Los...
Published 12/13/22
Hey, Intermingle Fam! Did you hear?! We have a holiday giveaway where we’re gifting a brand new pair of 2nd generation Apple AirPods. Visit our Instagram page to learn more.  This week on the show, we’re keeping it light-hearted and discussing some common gay myths in the gay community. Plus, in ‘LGBTQs in the News’ we’re discussing David Archuleta again, gays donating blood, same-sex households, Omar Apollo, and more!  Info Discussed:  FDA considering a change to policy on gay men donating...
Published 12/05/22
We're still not over it. This week, we're going in on the anti-LGBTQ rhetoric running rampant in the wake of the Club Q shooting. Plus, in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, we discuss David Archuleta, Billy Porter, The World Cup, and more! Also, we have a very special announcement to ring in the holiday season. Thank you for listening!  Info Discussed:  LGBTQ folx and allies keep finding clever ways to defy Qatar’s ban of rainbow flags at the World CupQatar World Cup U-turns on rainbow ban...
Published 11/28/22
Hey Queers! We’re back with another episode and we’re unpacking colonized desires.  What are they? Why do we have them? And how can you get past them? Also, in our ‘LGBTQs in the News’ segment, we discuss the mass shooting at Club Q, Grammy nominations, Magic Johnson, and more.  Info Discussed:  BREAKING: Multiple dead after mass shooting at LGBTQ bar in ColoradoEntire internet tells Lauren Boebert to sit the f*ck down after she tweets about Colorado Springs shootingThe Grammy nominations...
Published 11/21/22
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Palm Springs Pride took us out! But we’re back and ready to discuss filth. We’re unpacking our experiences with gay porn, No Nut November, porn addiction and the effect it has on our community. Plus, this week in our 'LGBTQs in the News' segment, queerbaiting, Keke Palmer, the Rainbow Wave, Nikita Dragun, and more! Info Discussed:  Ryan Murphy thinks Netflix should have kept its LGBTQ tag on “Dahmer”Heartstopper’s Kit Connor comes out as bisexual, says he feels forced to do soMiss Argentina...
Published 11/14/22
We're back! This week on the show we’re discussing the gay bar scene. We’re sharing a brief history of gay bars, our first time at a gay club, and tips for the newbies entering the scene.  Info Discussed:  The Miss Universe Pageant Is Now Owned by a Trans Thai BusinesswomanByron Perkins, D1 Hampton University football player, comes out as gayRepublicans in Idaho Are Trying to Ban Drag PerformancesHouse Republicans Have Introduced a National “Don’t Say Gay” BillSame-Sex Marriage Is Now Legal...
Published 10/31/22