Topics: Victim mentality, why you lose your power in relationships, drama cycles, radical self-responsibility, self-ownership, healthy relationships, secure attachment, releasing anger & resentment, boundaries, ending blame Cue that moment when you realise that you're actually the problem *** This one ain't for the faint-hearted. If you're noticing the similarities in the way your relationships play (with friends, family, money & lovers) then YOU'RE the common denominator and this is your opportunity to wake up and clean up your side of the street. Look, blaming the other person is only serving one thing; your anger & pain. And, that is an important part of the process, but not at the expense of your power. If you're constantly a victim of "their" actions, then you're giving away your power and keeping yourself stuck in some pretty toxic patterning. I know. Because I've done it A LOT in my lifetime. And owning up to my 50% has allowed me to believe in and trust myself more than ever before. This episode is designed to spark self-awareness, everyone is unique and I recommend you see a professional to unpack how some of these tendencies may be playing out in your life. Blessings x Work with Laura Ellen: Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/lauraellen/discovery SELF SOURCED: www.laura-ellen.com/self-sourced Sensual Sex: www.laura-ellen.com/ss-mailing-list Lingam Loving: www.laura-ellen.com/lingam-loving YUM RETREAT: Wānaka 17th-21st Sept. www.laura-ellen.com/yum Discover DIY Online Courses: Website: www.laura-ellen.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_laura_ellen Donate to The Sexual Wellness Podcast: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KJLSUE4X7CCF8 If you’re loving the show and are excited to get this content in the ears of those who need it most, you can offer a one-off or monthly donation. Never necessary, always appreciated.