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“As someone who is also a survivor of a violent crime, I always find myself empathizing with the victims in true crime stories, and in most cases, despising the perpetrators. I have no idea what it feels like to lose a child or any loved one to violence and I hope I never do. I don’t know what it feels like to be injured to the degree that Yvette was. The man who attacked me was a different kind of criminal and a serial one at that; he didn’t kill me, but he certainly didn’t leave empty-handed. He was eventually killed by police, but even if he had lived and been convicted and incarcerated, I don’t know that I could have ever forgiven him - and certainly not face to face. Given the type of crime that it was, having any kind of contact at all seems out of the question. However, I was so happy for Sy and Ron - and even for George - that they were able to give and receive forgiveness with so much grace and love. The Snarrs are such lovely, loving, amazing people. And George’s letter was so moving and so completely and believably full of remorse. I so admire Sy’s empathy and humanity. We see so little of that these days.
I was so happy that it took the turn that it did for all three of them. On the other hand, I also understand and respect how Yvette feels about George; as an actual victim, this is not as easy for her. Her experience is very different from the Snarr’s and in so many way. Not everyone has the same path to recovery and peace. I was relieved that both parties still share respect and love for each other. Recovery from trauma often depends on facing the event in a way that may not seem possible or logical at first. it may not make any sense at all to the people around you. It is deeply personal and no one has the right to judge it because they are not you. They haven’t lived your experience. I believe that Yvette’s victim advocacy is her healing place. And the Snarrs discovered that forgiveness and love was theirs. Given the type of person he was, I’m sure Zach would whole-heartedly approve of their relationship with George; rather than a betrayal; it’s a tribute. (for the person who said it was a betrayal, your comment hurt the Snarrs the most. Shame on you; you obviously didn’t listen to this podcast. That wasn’t the kind of person that was.) I know that George doesn’t like to use his past as an excuse, but given everything he has been through, it is not surprising that he turned to violence - and it sounds like he has really grown in the years since. The human brain does not fully developed until you are 25; we do a lot of stupid things at 19. Although not many of us choose to murder people, sadly, that was the case for George and his adult brain now recognizes that all too clearly. I took an extraordinary step to find my peace. It had nothing to do with my attacker, but it made all the difference in my recovery. It involved facing a reminder of the crime and participating in a way I never imagined possible. No amount of therapy or time could have helped me as much as facing this fear did. It may not make sense to other people, but it certainly makes sense to me and that is all that matters. The anniversary of the crime now comes and goes - and I hardly notice. I am so happy for the Snarrs; they so deserve this peace, as does George’s mother. George doesn’t deserve it, per se - but he has certainly earned it. Thank you, all, for a truly amazing story. PS: for those who complained about ads – are you new to Podcasts or something? There’s a way to fast-forward. This one isn’t nearly as bad as some. How else do they earn money by bringing you content? Also - i’m an atheist. But there was nothing about the LDS talk or religion that bothered me. Different strokes, ya know? I felt like the Snarrs are real Christians. And we have so few of them these days. The only people I’ve encountered in my life who are truly good was not because of their religion or lack of it.”
Abro716 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/26/24
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“There are too many good examples of true crime podcasts. This one is boring, the narrator voice puts you to sleep. There are awkwardly place ads too. Just a poor effort.”
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United States of America ·
09/08/22
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“This is a fantastic podcast and story. I think it’s at a great time in our world. Thanks for this and I will be on the edge of my seat with anticipation. Love the bonus episode of grief!”
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United States of America ·
09/14/22
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“Loved the basic podcast. The premium shows just didn’t work. I like the reporter when she sticks to professional reporting of the facts. Loses me as soon as she starts talking about herself and interviewing experts - objectivity flew out the window.”
lindafbird via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
09/11/22
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