In this episode, I talk about slave as a Lover. When we think of the term "Lover," our minds conjure images of passion and romance. Yet, within BDSM relationships, this archetype takes many dimensions, including empathy, connection, innocent energy, vulnerability, and ego.   But it's not all light and love. In its darker aspect, the Lover can become the Addictor, the Disconnector, or the Nihilist.   Join me as I challenge stereotypes within the gay fetish scene, urging communication for...

Dive into the story of Michael. This episode takes you on his extraordinary journey through the complex world of FinDom (Financial Domination). Find out about Michael and his story as a submissive who later transitioned into a Dominant within the FindDom community, only to confront and overcome the alluring, addictive nature of this facet of the power exchange scene. And how now, in the end, he is discovering his authentic self.   Key Points of the Episode: An Unusual Beginning: Explore...

In this episode, I peel back the layers to uncover the often overlooked aspect of the Master/slave dynamic – the Master as a Lover. When we think of the Lover, our minds instinctively turn to thoughts of sex. However, within the realm of BDSM, particularly Master/slave relationships, the Lover archetype takes on a deeper meaning. It becomes a conduit for connection, a bridge between desires and the profound need for authentic human connection. In "Master as a Lover," we embark on a journey...

In this episode, we sit down with the enigmatic Sir Kaiju, delving into the journey that led him from the realm of submission to the commanding world of dominance and as an expert fister. The episode includes an informed primer on the intimate art of fisting without the influence of drugs, the importance of mindset in opening up to this unique experience, and how dominance intertwines with this visceral act, and why Sir Kaiju finds profound satisfaction as a Top doing this.   Discover the...

In this episode, we navigate the intricate dynamics of a BDSM slave, viewing their journey through the lens of the magician. Including the importance of openness to training and how critical growth and reflection are in order for a slave to be successful.Join me as we unravel the "Safety Officer" concept within, a guardian that protects and potentially obstructs our desires. We'll dive deep into the shadows cast by the Magician archetype, examining the powerful emotion of shame and its...

In this thought-provoking episode, I embark on a deeply personal journey with Nate, who shares their remarkable story of self-discovery and acceptance. Raised in a staunchly religious and conservative environment, Nate grappled with a secret, a truth about themselves that they were initially afraid to confront. Join me as I explore the moments of realisation, the weight of a conservative upbringing, and the profound spiritual awakening that ultimately led to the liberation of Nate’s...

In this thought-provoking episode, we peel back the curtains on the enigmatic interplay between the Master and the archetype of the Magician.   We cover how this can make the Master unique with the ability to transform the slave to new levels of submission, but also, when in the shadow, can turn the Master into an unfeeling manipulator who cares nothing for his slave.   BUY THE BOOK Get the BOOK about the Light and Shadow of the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW   FREE QUIZ Unleash...

Find out the importance of the role of slave as a warrior and how it helps the slave to serve well and to give up on materialism for the greater good of serving a Master. But also how in the shadow it can lead to a slave to destroy themselves. The warrior, often associated with courage, strength, and purpose, has long captivated our imaginations through epic tales and cinematic portrayals. But what happens when we explore the warrior archetype in the realm of BDSM, where power dynamics and...

Step into the alluring world of Master Richard, a realm where power, desire, and unyielding dominance intertwine.  Master Richard’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of self-realization. Discover the pivotal moment when he embraced his true nature as a Master and embarked on an extraordinary path of self-discovery. Delve into the captivating stories and intimate reflections as Master Richard shares the trials and triumphs of his journey. From his humble beginnings as a...

Join us in this thought-provoking episode of Master/slave Lifestyle as we explore the intriguing world of archetypes and delve into the warrior archetype in particular. In our exploration, we shed light on the profound connection between the warrior archetype and the role of a BDSM Master. Discover the essence of the warrior archetype as the embodiment of action, power, and purpose. We examine how the archetype represents integrity, as individuals who dedicate themselves to a higher cause and...

Discover the captivating story of slave charles, a man who defied societal expectations and discovered his true self at the age of 66. This episode takes you on an unforgettable exploration of charles' life, his struggle with identity, and his courageous decision to embrace his authentic self as a slave. Through heartfelt conversations, we delve into the depths of slave charles' experiences, unearthing the challenges he faced in acknowledging and accepting his true nature. Join us as we...

In this episode, I speak with a Master and Kink researcher - Dr Richard Sprott, about Kink identity. We delve into power exchange, community building, headspace, and the relationship between kink and sex. With 13 different dimensions and 4 super dimensions to explore, the episode offers a comprehensive look at what makes up the rich tapestry of kink identity and how this relates to Masters and slaves.   FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle...

Discover a Master’s journey from a performer to a Sacred Kink 24/7 Master. We will explore the depths of sacred kink and how it works. How the Master and slave found each other and pushed through their fears and boundaries, and how they live 24/7 without living with each other.  And how you could start to use sacred kink yourself.   FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW      BECOME A MASTER/SLAVE COURSE Do you feel unable to...

Listen to the fantastic story of Boss Benjaman and his Alpha Switch Alex talking about their polyamorous Master/slave household. They discuss the actual reality of the lifestyle, what they have done to make it successful, and the issues they have faced.   FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW      BECOME A MASTER/SLAVE COURSE Do you feel unable to take the next steps to find your Master or slave? With the new Master/slave...

In this episode, we speak to Thumper (from Denying Thumper) and find out about chastity and orgasm denial. We talk about why it can be such a turnon, how one experiences prolonged chastity and orgasm denial and the mindset needed for it. And why it can be such as joy to the person. Finally, find out how how to choose your first cock cage/chastity belt and how to go more serious and deeper into chastity.   FREE KINK 3D COCK CAGE Enter your email address into a prize draw to win a free...

Master Jim deeply talks about his 3 years TPE relationship with a slave - from how they found each other online to the slave flying across an ocean to move in and live with him, and finally, how the relationship ended. Find out about his learnings and his experience in this profoundly affecting interview.   FREE DOWNLOAD Get a FREE download of the next steps to take in the Master/slave Lifestyle - DOWNLOAD NOW      BECOME A MASTER/SLAVE COURSE Do you feel unable to take the next steps...

in this episode, we speak to both slave conrad and Alexander about their experiences with pain - how significant health issues stopped them from embracing their desires and how they moved through this to embrace and enjoy BDSM pain.     About the guests slave conrad is an owned slave, nurse, hypnotherapist, classical singer, a voice coach for singers and transmen and women, and is a writer of erotic fiction. You can contact him on NLleatherman on twitter and recon Alexander Hahne is a...

In this episode, we speak to Master Ghee - a Gay Leather Master who also won Mr. SF Eagle Leather 2022. In this episode, we speak of his journey to discover his identity as a Master, the joy he has in controlling a slave through its own pleasure and the fun of objectification.   Check out this course: Find a Master/slave in 7 Steps - from writing a profile to collaring: https://masterslavelifestyle.com/find   Links: Recon - https://www.recon.com/mastersirg Facebook -...

  In this episode, I speak with Dr Richard Sprott and Dr Anna Randall from TASHRA - The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance. In this episode, we discover how they merged the personal and business to focus on kink and BDSM.   We talk about how therapy has changed its view on BDSM and Master/slave relationships, and what to do if you are looking for a therapist. But also how we can use the skills we have learnt in BDSM and Master/slave to find the right therapist for us.   And...

In this episode, Sir Tyger Yoshi and his slave speak about their 3-year relationship. They detail how they found each other, and how by focussing on flow and building up things slowly, they found their way to a total power exchange relationship. Important note: This episode contains a brief mention of suicide; please be aware if this subject triggers you.   More info on the Master/slave Lifestyle Community: Join here: https://www.patreon.com/masterslavelifestyle Find out more here:...

Find out about Boi David’s story to embrace his authentic self as a submissive and Black Man/African American Man. Boi David is the Vice President of the International Level Association (ILA) and was the 2019 winner for Mr Atlanta Eagle. He defines himself as a submissive looking for a dominant to serve.    Check out the new Master/slave community here: http://masterslavelifestyle.com/community/       More information on boi David: Instagram: @becomingtheboy  Email:...

In this episode, we have Dominant Dan back on the show talking about his kinky, polyamorous family. Find out what makes it a family,  how it works, Dan's role as the dominant in caring for and looking after the family, and how blood is thicker than water when it comes to family.     Links: Recon link: As Master  Recon link: Pit of despair (for Bondage)  www.cagecommunity.com     Connect more with Master/slave Lifestyle Check out https://masterslavelifestyle.com for more...

In this episode, we talk to Master Cage from San Jose. Master Cage has been a Master and had a polyamorous kink family for 18 years. In this episode, we learn about his household and philosophy of slavery, including how important it is for the Master to mentor the slave and the importance of experiences to figure this out.      Links: Recon link: As Master  Recon link: Pit of despair (for Bondage)  www.cagecommunity.com     Connect more with Master/slave Lifestyle Check...

In this episode, I discuss Bootblacking with a boi known as BootBlackCub or Craig- who introduced the concept to the UK. Through our discussion on Bootblacking, we speak about the importance of community and giving to it, what you can get back, and the simple joy of a boi giving.   Support the podcast By joining Patreon, you will join the Master/slave community of MasterSlaveLifestyle.com, helping to support a special podcast and website. Find out more here:...