We talk with Coach Cara about the ins and outs of the illusive unicorn. When a couple decides to open up their relationship one of the most common initial fantasies is to bring in a 3rd female... often called a unicorn. In this podcast, three experienced consensual non-monogamists discuss the realities and difficulties of making this happen and how to handle it if it does.  Here's the questions we tackle...  What is a unicorn? How hard is it to find a unicorn? How do you attract a unicorn? How should men treat a unicorn? How should women treat a unicorn? How should a unicorn respond to couples? How to take care of a unicorn after play.