Should you be the most important person in your significant other's life? We all agree that great relationships don't happen by itself, they require constant work and effort. Does this involve prioritizing your partner before anything else: before Friends, before Family, before Children? If you met "the love of your life', does that mean that the majority of your time and attention must be devoted to him/her? Is it ok to tuck away some of your own goals and aspirations because something has to give?  We don't have the answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets... Host & Producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast host and co-producer: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’, Podcast guests: Robin Nestler, Geraldine Caldwell, live from North Carolina; Engineer & co-producer: Bumpy's Fun House; Co-producer: Anna Treyer-Simakova