Episodes
OM028 The Power of The Block Chain with Griff Green Giveth.io In this mega podcast (more like an epic-pod) Lawrence Lanoff, Co-Founder of TokenAI.io and Griff Green, Founder of Giveth.io discuss all things blockchain and the nature of value. Our intention in this pod is to stimulate your mind and body around the deep ideas regarding Ether, Bitcoin, blockchain, Giveth and AI. It’s a huge discussion, covering a lot of ground. But, I promise you, if you have any interest in the crypto currency...
Published 10/24/17
Episode: The Delusion of Climate Change Denial Climate change is real. So is denial. What happens when we mix the worst of climate change with the worst of denial? President Trump and the head of the EPA.  Belief over science if how it is right now. And the narcissistic belief in belief is the huge challenge for the human brain. The biggest mistake we make is that we believe in our beliefs – not considering the possibility that we could be wrong. However, if we also believe in heaven, then...
Published 10/23/17
In this episode of The Optimized Mind – I ask a simple question: if, you know, “everybody’s f****d up” – which is the trite wisdom of religion and spirituality – then maybe f****d up isn’t actually a thing. In this first episode of season two of The Optimized Mind, I get curious about this idea. I get tired of cartoon explanations and justifications for s****y behaviors. Honestly, I’m not interested in calling you on “your s**t.” I don’t think there is such a thing. The reference point of...
Published 07/22/17
The Religious War Of Santa’s Underwear. The updating of existing models of reality with NEW models of reality- and updating these models when better ones come along – is essential for a functional society. However, this is NOT the world we are living in. People believe all kinds of things that are incorrect models – or as in the case of Santa’s underwear – are not even true at all. Yet, people are identified deeply with their beliefs – regardless of truth or factualness of those...
Published 02/13/17
            President Trump Has Not Lost His Critical Thinking Mind. He Never Developed One. He didn’t have to. How cults and religions influence the presidency in general and Trump specifically. In this episode, I offer my listeners a frame in which to understand the seemingly endless flow of nonsense that is and will continue to be the Presidency of Donald Trump. If you don’t understand this simple concept, you will never be able to figure out what our president will do...
Published 01/22/17
The World According To F**k   In my opinion – there’s a load of spiritual bait out there that captures our attention. It’s a waste of our time. Because, if you ask the incorrect question, it’s nearly impossible to arrive at the right answer. This is my short treatise on the world according to F**K.
Published 01/01/17
Why Do People Have Affairs?                   In this episode, Lawrence Lanoff and Karina Velasco have some straight talk about the myth of cheating. It’s a powerful episode that will help you organize your mind regarding how you think about love and relationships. Since Karina Mentioned it in the show, I’m also including a LINK to my sexual breathing youtube video. I hope this episode changes your mind a bit – regardless of what you believe.
Published 12/22/16
How Bin Laden Voted Trump From The Grave. Donald Trump Tapped into Our Deep Sense of Feeling Lost, Hopeless, Fearful & Uncertain So did Osama Bin Laden. In this edgy episode, I invite you to think differently about how we are where we are… and how something as simple as a tiny little conspiracy can be a slippery slope towards feeling completely helpless, angry, isolated and xenophobic. Though I refer to the “white guy” in this episode, it’s really more of a metaphor of entitled,...
Published 11/12/16
OM020 Guest Danny O’Neill – The Election Cycle In this episode I speak with sex positive pundit, entrepreneur and social activist, Danny O’Neill. My intention in this episode is to give the younger generation a perspective on this crazy election cycle.  I believe there is hope and I wanted to share that hope in a broader social perspective – all the way back to the 1960’s. I am an optimist and I believe in a better future… to a point. Are we at that point? That’s the point of my having...
Published 11/03/16
OM019 Guest Susan Bratton The Sexually Optimized Mind             This incredible episode is about pussy power. How to separate sex from sexual pleasure. The power of yoni pleasure. The power of a happy pussy. Understanding sex energy Discovering the bullseye touch technique.. What is the key to female orgasm? The Power of the smiling cock and the smiling pussy. Learning to close the want gap. This conversation is chock full of amazing gems for you… Giving your desires...
Published 10/15/16
Guest Cheryl Good Relax Your Ass And Other Spiritual Wisdom My friend and co-worker Cheryl Good talks about her sexual/spiritual evolution and her journey to a sexually empowered life. In this episode, we explore: vulnerability as a human currency the sweetness of power the spiritual secret of relaxing your ass we ask the big question: what do you want we explore living in flow state and breath as a way into release the secret of being kind to ourselves the reality of knowing that...
Published 09/22/16
The 4 Boxes for Women The 4 Boxes for Women is a concept that came to me as I’ve been digesting what it is like to be a female bodied human in 2016. It’s as complicated as ever. In some ways, we are more open as a society. Sex and sexual pressure is everywhere. But we don’t want our wives, sisters, girlfriends and daughters to fall prey to social-sexual pressure. “Our women” (whatever the specific group is) should be, and are, different. And all  our mythologies about women and our down...
Published 09/08/16
The Authenticity Delusion The Authentic self is a modern day delusion, a twisted, shame and blame based reality for a supposedly conscious new world. The delusion of authenticity comes from philosophy. According to Rousseau, authenticity is derived from the natural self whereas inauthenticity is a result of external influences. The existential philosopher, Martin Heidegger 1889 to 1976 said that authenticity is choosing the nature of one’s own existence and identity. Basically, Heidegger’s...
Published 08/25/16
YouTube Sex Educator Adina Rivers On Owning Your Own Pussy Life is short and to be lived.  This is the philosophy of Adina Rivers, who makes wild videos about sex, love & the love of life!  She sees her work as being an inspiration to become the greatest versions of ourselves… which also means she also shares all of her little secrets to magical sex, life-changing love and a life full of wonders and unicorns. You can find Adina’s YouTube channel HERE
Published 08/11/16
Why I Reserve The Right To Be Passionately Angry Anger is a form of power and passion. For me, it is boundary. My unwillingness to tolerate intolerable behavior.  To stand up for ourselves. To say NO out loud. I personally use the energy of anger to create space. To ask a powerful question: What do I want, right now? In our freedom, we can allow ourselves to ask this question. It’s our birthright is to discover what we want and pursue that. You create in your life all the time, so defining...
Published 07/21/16
The Symbolic Brain and Killing God In this episode , I’m going to tell you the story of how I killed god. It’s a personal story, but it was the beginning of my truly taking my life power back from EVERYBODY else who had laid claim to my life and my g******s.  Then, I’m going to let you hear the first half of a workshop that I call “The Symbolic Brain” that I just taught in June at Ecstatic Festival in Northern California. This material is so transformative, I decided to share it with my...
Published 07/07/16
Karina Velasco On The Suppression of Women and Psychological Clitorectomies PART 2 In this episode, Karina Velasco has an open discussion with me about cults, catholicism (the mega cult of The Pope), and what the true purpose of God is (trust me on this, you’ve never heard this idea before). We explore how spiritual disciplines are really forms of manipulation to constantly trigger dis-regulation in you. This way you constantly feel the feelings of blame, shame, guilt and fear. As well as...
Published 06/23/16
Karina Velasco On The Suppression of Women and Psychological Clitorectomies PART 1 In this episode, Karina Velasco has an open discussion with me about cults, catholicism (the mega cult of The Pope), and what the true purpose of God is (trust me on this, you’ve never heard this idea before). We explore how spiritual disciplines are really forms of manipulation to constantly trigger dis-regulation in you. This way you constantly feel the feelings of blame, shame, guilt and fear. As well as...
Published 06/09/16
A Meditation on Love, Transformation and Ecstasy In this episode, I want to give you a bit of a break before we go full on into the wildness of the next two episodes.  This podcast contains my meditation on Love, transformation and ecstasy. It’s from my archives and is one of my favorites. CTFO and enjoy!!!
Published 06/02/16
On Cults and One Taste Orgasmic Meditation For Everybody In this episode we begin by discussing that the world is NOT a mess, but rather is a reflection of an UNOPTIMIZED human brain. We take a look at politics for a moment – and how politics and the quest for the US Presidency is really an exploration of how our ancient brain actually works. Seeing clearly gives us the super power of actually understanding what life is really about. So much of what we will be talking about with Sex Cults...
Published 05/26/16
Loosing Your Virginity, Female Sexual Health and Will You Go To Hell In this episode, I look at the absurdity of sexual female suppression. We talk about why women are suppressed, how they are suppressed – and what the True meaning of hell is! This incredible, life changing podcast includes a live meditation on hell. As this podcast drops, I’m currently teaching in Mexico City. The level of brainwashing that is occurring in Mexican women makes me want to scream. Female sexual suppression...
Published 05/12/16
In this episode of The Optimized Mind, I give an overview of the 5 games. The 5 games may be one of the most powerful tools for life. So what are the 5 games? And how can understanding of the 5 games help you shortcut all spiritual, religious and new age thinking. Understanding the 5 games will ultimately allow you to break free of your drunken monkey mind. It’s an essential aspect of a life optimized for well being, health and happiness…
Published 04/28/16
 Where do we draw the line between religious, spiritual belief systems – and our pleasure? Part of navigating adulthood is trying to figure out myths from reality – especially when it comes to sex. In this inbetween-a-sode we take a harsh look at the religious games people play – though the lens of a current cult – and show how we’ve been sold the same stories, over and over again for the last 5,000 years or so.  In order to embrace pleasure, you have to be willing to embrace reality –...
Published 04/21/16
When you look in the mirror, are you happy with what you see? Or do you stare at yourself, pinching your fat away, lifting up your butt, pushing up your boobs, sucking in your stomach? Where did you get your ideas about your body and your sexuality? What is it that you believe about sex and your body? Where do those beliefs come from? In this episode, we explore, together where these beliefs come from and challenge you to take a hard look at what you believe. From sex to relationships to...
Published 04/13/16
This is a live meditation that I led in Calgary early this year. The meditation is intended to take you out of a state of self importance and narcissism – which is really a major cause or falling behind in our culture. Self centeredness is truly destructive to love, intimacy and sex. Sit back, relax and make your body super comfortable. Relax and let go.
Published 04/13/16