We…are…BACK! So…..we know we’ve been MIA for a bit but we took most of 2021 off to get our lives in order. We’ve missed you guys and hope you’ve missed us too as the podcast has been like therapy for us and it’s time to get our butts back on that couch, so please join us for more laughs, reflections and stimulating debates (aka gist sessions). In today’s episode, we begin with our What I’m segment where we share the TV shows, books and music we’ve loved while we were away (BTW, the *other* Black British actress Shade was referring to was Naomie Harris, Mahershala Ali’s co star in Swan Song). In our main topic, we discuss the unraveling of the relationships between Meagan Good and Devon Franklin and the Ooni and Olori of Ife. Join us as we reflect on the pressures of social media, the impact of external gaze and the role that the commercialization of relationships may have played in their demise. We’re on social! Follow us and share your thoughts on current and future episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic Email @[email protected] Links to article referenced in episode and Rolake’s music recommendations: https://music.apple.com/us/album/sad-girlz-luv-money-feat-moliy-remix/1596135552?i=1596135564 https://music.apple.com/us/album/im-getting-ready-feat-nicki-minaj/1440881369?i=1440881575  https://www.insider.com/divorce-rate-changes-over-time-2019-1