Domestic violence is one of Australia's greatest shames. The statistics are shocking but even though we know this, the list of women dying at the hands of a current or former partner just keeps on growing.  Jerry Retford was an abusive husband, emotionally, mentally and physically. Today we find out what enabled Jerry to finally see his issues, seek help and turn his life and relationships around. CREDITS Host/Producer: Claire Murphy Executive Producer: Elle Beattie Audio Producer: Ian Camilleri Thanks to our special guests Jerry Retford and Andrew King from Relationships Australia. Relationships Australia - 1300 364 277 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732 Jerry and his wife have worked on a video series using their life experience to show how Mens Behavioural Change Programs work, you can check it out here https://vimeo.com/showcase/4484717 The Quicky is the easiest and most enjoyable way to get across the news every day. And it’s delivered straight to your ears in a daily podcast so you can listen whenever you want, wherever you are...at the gym, on the train, in the playground or at night while you're making dinner. The Quicky. Getting you up to speed. Daily. Want The Quicky in your ears every day?  Subscribe at mamamia.com.au/the-quicky or in your favourite podcast app. Love the show? Send us an email [email protected] or call the podphone 02 8999 9386.