Episodes
Join Rusty and Heather on this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast as they kick off their exciting Summer Shorts series and unveil a thrilling contest for their listeners. In this episode, Rusty and Heather share the details of their upcoming Summer Shorts series, where they'll be addressing listener-submitted questions about marriage, relationships, and everything in between. Listeners are invited to submit their questions through theredeemedmarriage.com for a chance to have...
Published 04/29/24
Recognizing and addressing red flags in your marriage is a sensitive topic. It can be even more delicate when the warning signs are coming from within yourself. Rusty and Heather explore what it means to listen to that inner check in your spirit that signals there could be potential danger ahead. Gain insights from Heather's personal reflection on how she ignored the warning signs in her own life that led her down the path to infidelity. Website - The Redeemed Marriage
Published 04/22/24
Published 04/22/24
Join Rusty and Heather as they discuss the sensitive topic of addressing red flags in your marriage. Drawing from their own story of unfaithfulness, they offer invaluable guidance on how and when to approach your spouse when you notice warning signs that leave you feeling uneasy. In this candid discussion, Heather shares her journey of dealing with red flags that ultimately led to infidelity. Together, they explore the dangers of both addressing and ignoring these warning signs, highlighting...
Published 04/15/24
What are the warning signs of a potential affair? What red flags should you look for in your own life and marriage that could lead to betrayal? Rusty and Heather discuss the various paths that can lead toward crossing a dangerous line in your marriage. By sharing details of her own path to betrayal, Heather answers the question: "How did I get to a place where I was capable of being unfaithful?" Learn some of the dangerous steps, boundaries to put in place, and hear Heather's passionate plea...
Published 04/08/24
In this week's episode, Rusty and Heather answer a question that many couples ask: "Is there hope for my marriage?" Drawing from their personal journey of overcoming infidelity and rebuilding their relationship, Rusty and Heather share their story of the miraculous transformation that occurred. Listen in on their reflective journey, as they relate their story of despair to the hopelessness of Good Friday. They recount the pain, brokenness, and doubts that once clouded their marriage,...
Published 04/01/24
Join Rusty and Heather on today's episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast as Heather bravely shares three profound insights she gained about her pre-infidelity self in the wake of her journey towards healing and redemption. Through vulnerability and introspection, Heather sheds light on the transformative power of self-discovery and personal growth after facing the challenges of infidelity. Tune in to gain valuable wisdom and hope for your own journey towards restoration and renewal in your...
Published 03/25/24
Join Rusty and Heather for a discussion filled with hope and practical advice. Drawing from their own journey of overcoming infidelity, they share five essential strategies to fight for your marriage: praying against the enemy, preparing with a solid plan to address challenges, actively performing and practicing the plan, maintaining a positive mindset amidst difficulties, and persevering through the ups and downs with unwavering determination. Tune in for heartfelt insights and actionable...
Published 03/18/24
Rusty and Heather discuss the unseen battles that rage within the minds of both the betrayed and the betrayer. They shed light on the demons of doubt, fear, and guilt that flood the mind after marriage trauma. This episode explores the haunting questions that linger in the aftermath of betrayal. Rusty and Heather tackle the heart-wrenching quest for answers, the painful process of piecing together shattered trust, and the relentless struggle against triggers that threaten to reopen...
Published 03/11/24
This week Rusty and Heather invite you to join in on their live teaching with their Monthly Marriage Mentoring Community. The topic is "Becoming An Expert On Your Spouse." You will come away with 20 questions that might help you determine how well you really know your spouse. Through the discussion, you will certainly learn more about Rusty and Heather in an "up close and personal" kind of way! The Redeemed Marriage Website - https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/
Published 03/04/24
After their journey through infidelity, Rusty and Heather could not go back to the way things were. They needed a new marriage. They have identified five areas that were completely transformed after the betrayal, and they discuss 3 of these on this episode. Some of the greatest changes happened in the areas of spiritual and physical intimacy. Learn what changed, how God made things new, and how they are having the most fun they have ever had in their marriage. Website:...
Published 02/26/24
After infidelity nearly destroyed Rusty and Heather's marriage, they knew they could not go back to the way their marriage was before the betrayal. Their marriage obviously wasn't working. The only way to survive and thrive was to create a new marriage. Their journey to a brand new marriage involved transforming 5 areas of marriage. This week they discuss the first two steps on the road to the marriage you've always wanted. Website: https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/
Published 02/19/24
So many disappointments and conflicts in marriage are a result of unmet expectations. Romance is not an exception. Romantic expectations are often not discussed, and they can even change throughout the years and seasons of marriage. Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of communication around the subject of romance, and they invite you into a real-time discussion about their own personal expectations surrounding romance. Website - https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/
Published 02/12/24
This week we are joined by Trey and Lea Morgan, authors of "10 Ways To A Stronger Marriage." They are marriage ministry trailblazers that encourage countless couples through their books, podcast, and workshops. On this episode, Trey and Lea discuss their passion for strengthening marriages, and also the top takeaways of their popular book. Trey and Lea Morgan's Website
Published 02/05/24
Like them or not, cell phones play an incredible role in our lives. In fact, most people cannot live without their cell phone. For all of the good that comes along with having the world in the palm of our hands, cell phones can also become a threat to our marriages. In this episode, Rusty and Heather discuss ways that cell phones can harm your marriage, but also how they can enhance your marriage. Listen in on practical advice for navigating the use of cell phones in your marriage.
Published 01/29/24
If we are honest, we can all admit that our marriages need prayer. Whether your marriage is in a state of desperation, or you just desire growth in your marriage, turning to God is a great place to start. As you pray, remember that you don't have to enter the spiritual battle alone. There is no shame in asking other believers to pray for you and with you. Rusty and Heather want to intercede on your behalf. Visit theredeemedmarriage.com to sign up for their February prayer list and allow them...
Published 01/22/24
Rusty and Heather have learned from their mistakes, particularly the ones that led to infidelity in 2011. In this episode they warn couples of the dangers of selfishness, expecting your spouse to read your mind, ignoring your spiritual growth, and no longer having fun together. These mistakes, among others, can lead to devastating problems in marriage. So, Rusty and Heather remind us to also avoid the mistake of giving up on the miracle God can do in your marriage in 2024. Visit our...
Published 01/15/24
Rusty and Heather know a thing or two about making mistakes in marriage. In this episode, they discuss what they wish they could go back and tell themselves at the beginning of 2011 before an affair almost destroyed their marriage. Unsafe communication space, inattentiveness, and unrealistic expectations are just a few marriage mistakes that you should avoid in 2024. Take advantage of The Redeemed Marriage resources by following us on our social media channels: Facebook Instagram YouTube Sign...
Published 01/08/24
Rusty and Heather wrap up their popular Christmas movie series discussing "Family Man." In marriage, it's easy to look around and think "the grass is greener" somewhere else. Chances are, the life you always wanted is the life you are living. Sometimes you just need a shift in perspective. Website - https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/ NEW Survey - https://form.jotform.com/233415831856157 
Published 12/18/23
Much like the movie "Christmas With The Kranks," Christmas often creates chaos and stress in marriages. Rusty and Heather discuss how busyness creeps into their own marriage and share practical ways to introduce peace into your holiday season. Learn how to be a team this Christmas season in ways that will carry on throughout the next year. Website - https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/
Published 12/11/23
Back by popular demand is the Christmas movie series. Throughout the month of December, Rusty and Heather discuss crucial marriage lessons that they have learned from their favorite holiday movies. Unmet expectations seem to be a theme around most marriages during the holiday season, and it is certainly a theme in the classic Christmas movie "Jingle All the Way." Learn how to combat unmet expectations, and also how to have a little "adult" fun with this hilarious Christmas movie. 12 Dates of...
Published 12/04/23
It is not always easy to be thankful for your spouse and your marriage. Having an attitude of gratitude toward marriage is sometimes challenging. Rusty and Heather share some practical "do's and don'ts" of a thankful marriage. Learn how to improve your marriage by being thankful for your spouse. Website: https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRedeemedMarriage/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theredeemedmarriage/ YouTube:...
Published 11/27/23
Join Rusty and Heather in this powerful episode as they discuss the initial steps of rebuilding a relationship when trust has been shattered.  In this episode, Rusty and Heather introduce the 4 S's - Stop, Sever, Secrets, and Sand - a practical guide for couples navigating the difficult journey of rebuilding trust. Discover the importance of putting a stop to harmful behaviors, severing ties with destructive patterns, fostering transparency with a commitment to no more secrets, and drawing a...
Published 11/20/23
In this episode, Rusty and Heather dive into a topic that's often overlooked but holds immense significance in the health of any marriage: self-care. Join them as they discuss the connection between self-care and becoming a better spouse. This episode includes ten practical suggestions that can breathe new life into your relationship. Rusty and Heather will guide you through actionable steps that promote both individual and marital growth. Life's demands can be overwhelming, and as spouses,...
Published 11/13/23
The kiss is such an important part of culture. Everyone remembers their first kiss, and every marriage ceremony concludes with the kissing of the bride. Once married, kissing can certainly be a part of foreplay that leads to physical intimacy. But there are so many other benefits of kissing. Unfortunately, kissing more often seems to decline through the married years. Rusty and Heather share a fun list of 10 benefits of kissing and why couples should continue to take advantage of this...
Published 11/06/23