John interviews Mike Goldstein, a dating expert with over a decade of experience. Mike shares his personal journey of struggling with dating in his younger years and how he became passionate about helping others create healthy and fulfilling relationships. He discusses his unique dating strategies, including his 50-12-1 system, which focuses on sending well-crafted messages and being discerning in choosing potential partners. Mike also emphasises the importance of self-love and what to prioritise in a relationship. KEY TAKEAWAYS Focus on building a healthy single life and enjoying yourself before entering into a relationship. Be discerning in your choices and don't settle for less than what you truly want and deserve. Use online dating strategically and efficiently, sending a higher volume of well-crafted messages to increase your chances of finding a compatible partner. Prioritise compatibility and connection over superficial qualities like physical appearance. Have no shame in pursuing what you want and taking the necessary steps to find a fulfilling and lasting relationship. BEST MOMENTS "I've had 15 people married and countless more life partnerships, you know, folks don't always want to get married. But of the 15 marriages, we have zero divorces."  "I want women who, you know, has a good job, has family friends, like has things going for her, has finances totally taken care of. Then give me a shout." "I want ladies, I want you to have no shame in what you're trying to accomplish. It's so powerful. I have no shame. If I want something, like it's a salesman mindset of no shame."  "I had to learn that, you know, we're equal and women deserve respect."  "I've never in the 10 professional years I've been doing this had someone say that they'd be okay with 75%. I was actually in shock." Links:  https://www.ezdatingcoach.com/ Free gift: https://ezdatingcoach.activehosted.com/f/3?HIDDEN_FIELD=Me www.johnkennycoaching.com The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com) To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/johnkennycoaching LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching Insta – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/ Twitter – https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ Clubhouse - @relationshipguy I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach. Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.