Episodes
GET THE FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP210 What happens when you’re divorced and trying to date again at 50…in this case 53? You’ve been married for your 20’s, 30’s and 40’s and you have no life experience. How do you impress younger women? How do you impress older women? How do I please them in bed!? It may seem like there’s no hope. This is what we are answering today in today’s TSL Podcast. Where do we start and what do we do? In this podcast we reference a few things Instant...
Published 01/25/19
THE ART OF F*CKING FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP209Recorded on – Aug 15, 2018 on an MD Excellence Call The art of seduction is something we overlook. We over look it so much we walk around as sexually frustrated men confused looking for our identity in controlling and overly defining our masculinity without ever acting on it.Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach in Austin Texas, he is a BJJ and Wujifa practitioner as well as a Wim Hof Enthusiast. Sign up on MD Excellence &...
Published 08/16/18
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP208 Get involved in our groups This is a new series with Jim Symons (TSL Alumni, Amorati and man of the world). He’s talking here about the presence that every man and woman should have about sexuality. If you’re interested in coming on our calls and being a part of our groups checkout MD Excellence ( http://bit.ly/MDExcellence )  or TSL Online ( http://thesexuallife.com/tslonline ) Thanks for listening! Steve
Published 07/20/18
LUST FOR LIFE FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP208 Recorded on – July 4, 2018 Inside the mind of male fantasy there lies guilt, judgment and fear, all sugar coated with lust. We run from our fantasies. We think they will make us rapists and evil men and women, but we forget that we are human. We forget that sex is a huge part of how we communicate and even see ourselves.Sign up on MD Excellence & Get on the Calls http://bit.ly/MDExcellence Check out our Free...
Published 07/05/18
START THE CONVERSATION FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP207 Recorded on – May 2, 2018 on an MD Excellence Call How to start a conversation on a first date and use it to get laid. In this tutorial, Steve Mayeda takes small talk and turns it into an engine for getting laid. You will see how you can take a simple conversation on a first date and make it completely connect with someone and turn them on. This is a step by step guide for take notes! (time code – scroll...
Published 05/18/18
Going Through a Breakup [ LIKE A BOSS ] Join My Groups (Get the Free Stuff) – http://bit.ly/TSLP206 If you’re going through a breakup you might not like this dating advice for men, but it will work. Right now there are a few guys in my groups that are going through a breakup. They ask How Do I Get Over a BAD Breakup. The answer is simple…keep yourself busy surround yourself with good people and take a DEEP DIVE into the pain you feel. Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach in Austin, TX. Steve...
Published 05/04/18
WHAT’S UP MGTOW & RED PILL FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP205 Recorded on – Feb 24, 2018 What’s up people I am Steve Mayeda and if you don’t know me, well I have been making videos for a while now on Men’s Issues. Mainly dating and issues around men and women. I have made some videos on Men’s Rights, MGTOW and the Red Pill and I started to get some good interactions from the MGTOW community. So I wanted to make this video for those guys.   If you like...
Published 02/28/18
WATCH THE VIDEO – https://youtu.be/52Xvow6fEM0 FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP204 Recorded on – Feb 18, 2018 on an TSL LIVE We are in an interesting time where the divide of the sexes defines the sexes more than themselves. The sexual harassment, #metoo (Me Too) has been a flagship for women and feminism, but what it has left in its wake is Men’s Rights, the Red Pill, MGTOW and a culture of men that is angry and fighting back. How do we find the strength in masculinity...
Published 02/20/18
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP203 TSL Podcast 203 (Feb 2018) – Life Advice, How to Unfuck Your PUA Mind (mindset) & Why Master Yoda can’t f**k. In fact Master Yoda needs to unfuck his life…big time. Failure needs more than internet rants and empty life advice, on today’s TSL Podcast Steve Mayeda is talking about the dangers of being someone else while pursuing your goals. Watch The Failure & Implosion of the PUA Industry – https://youtu.be/EMKGbbpegFQ Check out the TSL...
Published 02/12/18
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP202 Jordan Peterson is all the rage, amongst men’s communities. He is seen as a hero intellectual of masculinity, the red pill, MIGTOW groups and all the rational males out there. He has replaced Rollo Tomassi as man’s hero nerd. But much like many of the things the Red Pill or MRAs or MGTOW say it is not that it is right or wrong but it is the culture it creates. Men complaining, looking online for their masculinity and not in their life. Steve Mayeda is a...
Published 02/06/18
SHAME & SEX FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP201 Recorded on – Jan 21, 2017 on a Live #MeToo and Other Movements & Causes like the Red Pill, MGTOW, Feminism and MRA philosophies are stuck in a war. All are tools for empowerment of the sexes and fighting some form of sexism yet they empower only by degrading power. Rather than focusing on themselves or the solution they focus on blame. Things like the Aziz Ansari debacle all the way to Harvey Weinstein are...
Published 01/30/18
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP200 Women want to F**k You! What’s your excuse for not having good sex? You need to unfuck your mind. We make a ton of excuses for not having the life (let alone sex life) we want. I am too Asian, not tall enough, not enough money and so on, but we don’t understand women and what they are looking for. This is what we as men need to learn. How to be a seducer. Steve Mayeda (21 convention & TSL Podcast) is a men’s coach specializing in dating, relationships...
Published 01/28/18
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP199 BUY ‘Militant Nice Guy’ by Terrence Terry – http://bit.ly/MilitantNiceGuy In today’s TSL Podcast (TSLP), Steve Mayeda (21 convention and Daily Awesome Podcast) talks about ‘No More Mr Nice Guy’ and how our perspective on dating, sex, relationships as well as most PUA advice is a little off. Most of it is right, but some of it is severely wrong. What men need to know is how to use their tools of masculinity rather than play to ANY image of what they think...
Published 01/24/18
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP198 SEX & FEMINISM – In today’s TSL Podcast, Steve Mayeda is talking about Being A Sexual Man in A Feminized World – Sexual Masculinity and Feminism. Steve Mayeda, 21 Convention and Daily Awesome Podcast is speaking to men about how the misinterpretation of the male, or masculine culture and feminine culture – feminism – can be lived out in a life of empowerment. Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach in Austin TX, he specializes in Dating, Sex, Relationships and...
Published 01/22/18
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP197 Recorded on – Jan 5, 2018 on a LIVE Broadcast In today’s TSL Podcast, Steve Mayeda (21 Convention & TSL Podcast) is talking about The Break Up…we have heard it over and over again ‘My ex is a Psycho’ and she very well may be, but what does that have to do with you? Is this more of an excuse for you to complain about your life/ Is this why you were damaged? I get it, there’s dangerous women out there, but the most dangerous men seem to go...
Published 01/21/18
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP196 PUA Shame & Just Be Yourself (Self-improvement) – How Toxic Masculinity can actually help you be a sexual man…you just need to know how to present yourself in the best way. Sadly men are ashamed to be themselves…because it is no fun, if we follow the mainstream. In today’s TSL Podcast Steve Mayeda breaks down the age old advice Be Yourself and makes sense of it all. Pro Male Steve Mayeda lives in Austin Texas and is a men’s coach. Dating, sex,...
Published 01/17/18
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP195 Today Steve Mayeda is talking about STDs, men do not talk about them and if we get one, we definitely don’t know how to talk about herpes, HPV, gonorrhea, chlamydia or HIV and AIDS. We hear, be honest and wear a condom, but nothing much beyond that. Definitely not specifically how to bring it up, what people will say when you bring it up and how to have a good sex life, minimizing risk of passing it and minimizing the risk to not get any more. This is...
Published 01/13/18
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP194 “Men’s perspective on pussy.” Today on the TSL Podcast Steve Mayeda talk about Sex Advice for the recovering PUA. Diving into how we get started with sex when we are meeting women. Getting sexual and having good sex is a huge part of life’s fulfillment. You may have seen Steve Mayeda 21 Convention, he’s a dating coach, life coach and he specializes in Sex, Addiction and Relationships. Sign up on MD Excellence & Get on the...
Published 01/09/18
RELATIONSHIPS ADVICE FOR SAVAGE MEN FREE STUFF LINK –http://bit.ly/TSLP193 Recorded on – Dec 20, 2017 on an MD Excellence Call On today’s TSL Podcast, Steve Mayeda is talking about being emotionally healthy & relationship advice for men & recovering PUAs. We dive into the myths of masculinity, the myth of the alpha male and how to be emotionally healthy and sexually healthy in a relationship. Sign up on MD Excellence & Get on the...
Published 01/07/18
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP192 Here Steve Mayeda breaks down sex, sex addiction and how PUA (Pick Up Artist Lifestyles) can conflict with true men’s development. Now more than ever men seeking dating advice or advice on masculinity are sexually confused. Sexuality speaks a language of war rather than connection. Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach in Austin Texas also a BJJ Enthusiast and retired PUA. He specializes in Dating, Sex, Relationships and Addiction. Sign up on MD Excellence...
Published 01/02/18
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP191 Steve Mayeda and the TSL Podcast 191 present A Sex – Less Life. Sexual Pleasure has been forgotten and feminism and men’s rights sexualisation have taken their place distorting the true meaning of sex. As Oscar Wilde said ‘Sex is everything except sex’ has we now have sex speaking for feminism, men’s rights, mgtow or the red pill. Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach specializing in Dating, Relationships, Sex and Addiction He lives in Austin Texas and is a...
Published 12/22/17
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP190 Here Steve Mayeda and TSL talk about how we see sex and a commodity, a tool of politics but not for what sex, gender and sexuality is. The Sexualisation of hysteria has turned into Feminism (3erd wave extremism) and Men’s Rights (The Red Pill, MGTOW and other Extremist factions). However, sexual objectification and harassment has forgotten the purpose of sex. We speak past each other with sex, pleasure, biology and what makes men and women so...
Published 12/12/17
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE DISTANCE & LOVE FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP189 Recorded on – Dec 3, 2017 on a FB Live Relationship advice in the men’s development world is not enough. Dating, sex and long term relationships need advice. We often talk a lot about infidelity, affairs in LDR s aren’t all that is there. We need men’s groups. Camaraderie is such a huge component of making things work. Men coming together and supporting each other is the one thing that will...
Published 12/07/17
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP188 Seduction is the teacher of the masculine and feminine. Sex and Masculinity and Manhood go hand in hand. In fact Sex and Femininity do as well…sadly the more tension we build between the masculine and feminine the less those 2 hold hands. The more we lose our way on the path to seduction and the more we separate into divided social groups. Here Steve Mayeda talks about his journey to the sexual life and seduction. How he changed, how he learned and...
Published 12/01/17