In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example. Notes00:00 - Intro01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.Check out my comprehensive online dating course: https://toddoda.com/ Connect with Todd: Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook Email questions to [email protected] Ask questions...

00:00 - What is Bootcamp?01:40 - Student's experience prior to studying game03:55 - His massive game improvement09:05 - Most challenging bootcamp moment11:50 - His post-bootcamp experience15:30 - How he met his girlfriend19:00 - His advice to others on their journey in game21:20 - Being INTENTIONAL about gameIf you'd like to join me in person, my coaching schedule is at: https://toddvdating.com/coaching/ Connect with Todd: Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook Email questions to...

00:00 - State transference04:45 - How to kiss her (at the right time)06:30 - Bootcamp story16:30 - How to transfer sexuality to the girl20:00 - AMOG situationsCheck out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy, and highly effective: https://verbalgameacademy.com/ Connect with Todd: Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook Email questions to [email protected] Ask questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V...

Notes00:00 - How are hot girls different from others?02:50 - The biggest mistake guys make around hot girls04:20 - Irreverent.08:45 - Don't do this...13:30 - How hot girls live their lives16:40 - Show social proof20:40 - What type of dates should you bring hot girls on?26:30 - Don't put yourself in this frame... Check out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy and highly...

In this episode, Todd discusses the challenges faced by Asian men in the Western dating scene. He touches on how to leverage stereotypes and overcome cultural biases to get the results you want in game. Notes02:15 - Do Asian men have a harder time in the dating world?08:00 - What about results in game?13:50 - What about guys of other backgrounds?16:00 - Assimilation.We have a PACKED bootcamp schedule coming up in cities around the world. Click the link below to grow your game exponentially...

In this episode, I discuss a shift in approach for non-sexual dates, emphasizing the importance of creating a dynamic where the woman is chasing the man.  I also address challenges such as avoiding over-validation, managing physical escalation, and navigating logistics to increase the likelihood of securing a second date.  Finally, I emphasize the need for a strategic mindset, particularly when dealing with more conservative or inexperienced women. Notes02:30 - Balancing validation with...

In my 20+ years as a dating coach, I've seen a TON of mistakes made in online dating.  In this episode, I examine the 3 most common mistakes and how to fix them. Apply these chnages so you can get matches with girls you ACTUALLY want to date.  Notes00:00 - What are the 3 most common online dating mistakes?00:50 - Do looks matter?04:15 - Stop doing this in your bio.06:05 - Showing vs. Telling 08:00 - Messaging10:45 - Focus on THIS13:10 - Getting her from app to date18:10 - The most efficient...

How did I, as an overweight 41-year-old, see more success in learning jiu-jitsu than I did as a super fit 21-year-old? The answers will surprise you, while also revealing powerful insights about improving your game. Notes00:00 - My path back to jiu-jitsu12:30 - My "why" (you NEED this!)20:00 - Trials and tribulations...29:20 - Massive improvement?35:00 - Your ego is not your amigo!42:00 - Mind, attitude, and coaching.48:00 - You might just get hooked...One of the biggest secrets of game is a...

Highlights James' journey in game will inspire youThe best way to see results, FASTLearn what to AVOID DOING in gameNotes00:00 - Intro00:48 - How James discovered game and how it changed his life012:50 - When James REALLY started seeing PROGRESSION26:30 - How James became advanced35:00 - Major lessons James has learned in gameOne of the biggest secrets of game is a simple one: Learn game from someone massively better than you. https://toddvmentoring.com/ Connect with Todd: Join Todd V...

VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com. HighlightsGaming girls who speak another languageHow to master your non-verbalsClosing despite the language barrierNotes00:00 - Intro00:18 - How should you alter your verbal game when the girl doesn’t speak your language fluently?01:00 - Think strategically02:00 - “The shoe is on the other foot”04:25 - Todd in Japan06:00 - A winning vibe07:20 - Non-verbal...

VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com. HighlightsStorytelling: A crucial game skillDisplaying value subtlyBelieving your own storyNotes00:00 - Intro00:25 - DHV without being tryhard?01:26 - What specific values?02:15 - Stop bragging.04:50 - You need to believe07:30 - Setting, interruption, change10:33 - Weave these inConnect with Todd: Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook Email questions to...

HighlightsDo insults work in game?How to use push-pullsHow to use negsHow to use disqualifiersNotes00:00 - Intro01:15 - Question: Compare and contrast negs, push-pulls, and insults03:00 - Push-pull 10105:15 - How to show interest the RIGHT WAY06:40 - Disqualifiers: BREAKING rapport?08:50 - The Art of the Neg Check out my program on EVERYTHING verbal game. What to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Verbalgameacademy.com Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook, email questions to...

HighlightsDo you REALLY have to HIDE your agenda?How women view sexBeing directNotes00:00 - Intro00:14 - Question: Why do guys hide their agenda? Isn't sex a win for her?01:10 - Women like sex MORE than men, but...03:55 - You need to be INTERESTED6:20 - Todd's thoughts on direct approach8:30 - Direct approach frames Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook, email questions to [email protected], ask questions on the Ask Todd V Youtube channel

HighlightsHow to succeed in a CORRUPT SYSTEMTurn CRISIS to OPPORTUNITYManaging time in a world of DISTRACTIONSNotes00:00 - Intro01:10 - Question: “How do I improve in a society with a corrupt system, nepotism, and bigotry?”01:34 - How to make the BEST...

HighlightsHow to establish REAL value in your profileThe RIGHT WAY to have a sexual profile What NOT to send as a first messageNotes0:00 - Intro00:49 - Bio #1 breakdown10:56 - Bio #2 breakdown18:56 - Messaging sequence breakdown

FREE Text GuideHighlightsOnline game vs. cold approachOnline game vs. social circle gameQuality, quantity, & passive results onlineNotes00:00 - Intro00:27 - Question: Which is better: online game or cold approach?01:28 - How Todd got into game04:15...

Online Dating Bootcamp: www.toddvonline.com/HighlightsThe single most important game skillProfiles that lead to datesOnline game cheat codesNotes0:00 - Intro01:08 - Todd's personal INNER GAME philosophy09:48 - The PROCESS of creating a winning...

Here's the audio version of a recent YouTube live Ask Me Anything (AMA) I recorded on online dating. Enjoy!

FREE Text GuideHighlightsHow to be FUNNY on online gameWIN online game with blueprintsGoofy Game VS Funny GameNotes00:00 - Intro01:06 - Question: Can you convey high status in your bio while being goofy or does goofy equal low status?02:03 - Goofy Game...

Read show notesHighlightsTexting girls during QUARANTINETurnings messages into DATESHow to NOT get catfished Notes00:00 - Intro01:03 - Question: How do I keep text conversations going for an extended period of time?02:03 - Issues with long-term...

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Read Show NotesHighlightsSexting: High-risk, high-rewardRECOVER from bad textsCreating a HIGH-VALUE PROFILE Notes00:00 - Intro01:05 - Question: How do I convey sexuality over text without seeming creepy? I wanted to start sexting a girl but she refused....

Read Show NotesHighlightsWhat you need to STOP saying ASAPWhy smart girls are the EASIEST to gameGo-to openers that HIT HOMENotes00:00 - Intro01:38 - Question: What words can bring my game to the next level?05:58 - Words to AVOID13:28 - Todd's game...

Black Friday Sale Linkssystembytodd.comtoddvmasterclass.comHighlightsHow to MASTER the art of shit-testingLearn FUNNY teasingSTAND OUT in front of the hottest girlsNotes00:00 - Intro01:32 - Question: In The System, you talk about giving girls shit...