Do you want to bridge the gap and find a way to create harmony in your relationship, even if you have different sexual preferences? Are you searching for a solution that will help you achieve a deeper understanding and connection with your partner, despite your varying kinks? Oliver is a returning guest on The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast, known for his insightful perspectives on relationships and sexuality. With a passion for exploring kink and sexual lifestyles, Oliver offers valuable advice for couples facing differences in their desires and preferences. Drawing from personal experiences and a commitment to open communication, he shares practical tips on how to navigate the complexities of being kinky when your partner is not. Oliver's genuine and relatable approach provides a fresh perspective on maintaining a fulfilling and harmonious relationship, even when sexual tastes may differ. His expertise and understanding make him a trusted source of guidance for those seeking to improve their connection and understanding with their partner. The thread that started it all: "A short thread of what to do when your gf is very "vanilla" and seemingly uninterested in exploring kink and even less in exploring sexual lifestyle such as cuckolding" - https://x.com/NordicCuck/status/1696502422745559103?s=20 The key moments in this episode are: 00:07:26 - Oliver's Thread, 00:11:28 - Kink Test, 00:12:45 - Working on Alignment, 00:13:23 - Vanilla vs. Kinky, 00:17:40 - The Importance of Communication and Acceptance, 00:19:04 - Seeking Help and Resources, 00:20:06 - Supporting Your Partner, 00:27:13 - Patience and Timing, 00:30:29 - Openness and Willingness, 00:35:04 - Understanding the Importance of Vibe in Sexual Relationships, 00:36:29 - Exploring Mild Fantasies and Sexual Preferences, 00:39:16 - The Benefits and Misconceptions of Using Sex Toys, 00:41:58 - Considering Compatibility and Plan B in Relationships, 00:44:50 - The Importance of Patience and Open-Mindedness in Relationships, 00:52:15 - How the List Helped Others, 00:53:11 - Common Challenges in Kinky Relationships, 00:54:10 - The Value of Kink and Cuckolding, 00:55:17 - Where to Find Oliver Dan Savage, The 3 things we get wrong about love - https://youtu.be/brZIb4MG8oA?si=wCJZOZqUx6KnyR0b The Savage LoveCast - https://savage.love/lovecast/ Sex & Psychology - https://www.sexandpsychology.com/ Splash Blanket - https://splashblanket.com/ use code VENUS for discount Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices