Discover how cuckolding has shaped human sexuality through the ages as we unravel its historical threads with Dr. David Lay. His expertise in the field, especially reflected in his groundbreaking book "Insatiable Wives," illuminates the evolution of female sexual empowerment and its manifestations in modern relationships. This episode is a tapestry weaving the rich past of 'wittols' and infamous figures like Victoria Woodhull into today's narrative, where sexual freedom and female-led dynamics are increasingly celebrated. Embark on a psychological odyssey where we confront the shame spiral that haunts many men with cuckolding fantasies and you'll be surprised to learn about the strong undercurrent of such fantasies among those who publicly uphold traditional values. We also dissect the social stigma surrounding infidelity and how cultural attitudes towards it vary surprisingly across the globe, offering a rare glimpse into the intricate dance between public personas and private desires. As Cuck Week 2024 approaches, join us in championing a future of self-acceptance and the destigmatization of cuckolding. We recognize the profound impact of "Insatiable Wives" on couples exploring this lifestyle, emphasizing that desires do not compromise masculinity but rather celebrate the sexual flourishing of women. This episode isn't just a reflection on history and psychology; it's a call to embrace sexual diversity with open hearts and minds, inviting you to participate in a world that honors every individual's erotic blueprint. David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He's the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives, Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon. With Dr. Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy Magazines. Links This episode is brought to you by Joymode - GREAT SEX SOLVED, NATURALLY 🚀 Support your erection quality 💪 Perform with confidence Use code VENUS to get 20% off your first order at www.usejoymode.com 2 Week Locked-In Love Challenge with Venus and Key Barrett, MSC Register for free and get access to the Queens Quarters Community - https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/offers/FTNWndiv Dr. David Ley - https://www.davidleyphd.com/ Cuck Week Events - https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/events Vote for The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast each day until January 27th! https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast#the-venus-cuckoldress-podcast Insatiable Wives Book - https://a.co/d/66WMcux  All the other links - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress