Feel like giving up on your spouse? Let's face it... Marriage is tough, but that does not mean you throw in the towel when things get tough. The enemy's job is to divide and conquer your godly union. More than ever, you have to "step up" and fight for your marriage! Shift perspectives and take a look through God's lens rather than playing the blame game or running away from your marriage problems. Find out 6 ways to fight for your marriage! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching...

Another strong prophetic warning from God! The Lord will come back to being justice to nations so we better armor up! Secret agendas and false leaders will be exposed for our future generations to see the truth of God's Word. For years the Lord has been showing me about destruction coming from the north. It's been confirmed in Scripture. I've had dreams of tsunamis, tornadoes, hurricanes, floods, and fires in buildings, cities, and on streets, even dreams about bombs and missiles in our...

Did you know a Spirit of Rejection can fester within your soul, affecting your self-worth? Rejection can cause fear, self-pity, abandonment, and isolation issues. It's time to address these hidden roots and overcome the spirit of rejection. Don't let rejection hold you back or hinder your spiritual growth. Strive to be more like Jesus, heal, and address these painful strongholds in your life so the enemy can't torment you any longer! Chapters: [00:00] Melia discusses the importance of finding...

Are you putting God first in your life? Or do you run to people first for important decision- making? Melia discusses the importance of having a vertical relationship with Jesus and prioritizing God above all other relationships. She emphasizes the need to listen to God's guidance and obey His commands, even if it means making difficult decisions that others will not like. Grab the key element to have thriving relationships with others, yourself, and of course, Jesus! Chapters: [00:10] Melia...

The spiritual gift of prophecy is not to be confused with the call or office of a prophet. Just because someone has the gift of prophecy does not mean they are called to become God's mouthpiece. They are not the same thing. In this episode of the Vertical Relationship Show, Melia explains that the gift of prophecy is a gift from the Holy Spirit that all believers can tap into, while the calling of a prophet is an official position recognized by God. She highlights the responsibilities and...

No, not everyone is called into ministry. The Lord chooses who He wants according to your gifting. We can't choose ourselves. Nor do we allow the influence of others to overturn the direction the Lord is leading us, even if they mean well. Unfortunately healing and deliverance is not a call for everyone. Gods says, "And no one can become a high priest simply because he wants such an honor. He must be called by God for this work" (Hebrews 5:4). Find out the prophet words uttered to help you...

Are you a people pleaser? Do you find it hard to say, "NO" to people? In a relentless age of instant gratification, we must recognize that we cannot please everyone. Set realistic expectations for yourself and know that it's okay to make decisions that are healthy for your mental and emotional health. Learn how to communicate your boundaries without feeling guilty in your relationships. Blessings xo- Free Faith E-Book->...

Ask yourself, do you really want to engage with a new age tool of occult origins? Probably not. Let's take a deep dive and learn about the deceptive teachings of the Enneagram! Many popular tools, like the Enneagram, are used in Christian counseling, ministries, devotionals, books, churches, team building, and even for financial advice. You think you safe, but God is not a part of mad-made devices that don't honor Him. Learn the truth behind the Enneagram and protect yourself from falling...

In this timely episode, we delve into the deeper spiritual significance of the ongoing conflict and destruction in Israel. As we navigate these challenging times concerning Israel and north its surrounding nations, aim to uncover the Scripture messages, and calls to action that may be hidden within this crisis. Brace yourself for thought-provoking prophetic warnings that aims to shed light on God's divine purposes behind war and destruction in Israel. These prophetic words were given to be...

Often, unhealed trauma can lead to strongholds, unresolved emotions, and unrealistic expectations... which causes more struggles in your relationships and health. Without healing, trauma can cause lingering problems for self and leaky afflictions on others in many adverse ways, showing up in your personal and professional life. Find out 10 ways unhealed trauma can destroy your relationship and health. Blessings xo- Free Faith E-Book->...

Did you know false prophets exist? Everywhere we turn, online and offline, the truth is being twisted. Innocent people are being duped by glowing words and smooth talk. Many are teaching a counterfeit Gospel just for personal gain as opposed to a pure heart. The Bible says, "Watch out for people who cause divisions and upset people’s faith by teaching things contrary to what you have been taught. Stay away from them. Such people are not serving Christ our Lord; they are serving their own...

Why are people throwing Christian brothers and sisters "under the bus" to prove a point? Sorry, but that's not God's character. Among the many denominations and divisions of the Christian faith, theological debates arise! Teachings are being overemphasized or underemphasized. We have one extreme or the other, with no balance in the teachings of Scripture. Healthy doctrine is getting lost with theology debates, which makes a complete mockery of the Gospel.  Blessings xo- Free Faith E-Book->...

Dating apps not working? Tired of the bar scenes? I get it. I know you're fed-up of always attracting the same kind of men in your life. Honestly, there are many valid reasons why single women have a hard time finding quality men. Yet, without addressing past trauma, many will not. Soul wounds need to be cleansed and healed with Jesus to understand the kind of man God wants you to marry. Discover the three reasons why single Christian women "don't" attract a godly man! Blessings xo- Free...

Did you know people can be easily hoodwinked from the enemy? Without realizing it, we can follow deception of the evil one, which binds us with the devil. Witchcraft is cleverly disguised to make people think: New Age practices, divination, sorcery, occult, and religion is perfectly fine. Therefore, hurting innocent people to believe they're following Chrisitan values but can be rooted in a spirit of witchcraft. And to make matter worse, its coming from Christian leadership! Remember: "Even...

Often times, soul ties are tossed aside due to fleshy desires. However, this particular bond is more than releasing hormones; it's a spiritual connection, not seen to the naked eye. When two people are intimate, their souls become closely intertwined, and become one flesh. God says, "And the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh" (Mark 10:8).  The most common ungodly soul ties are formed through sexual sin. Unhealthy relationships can develop; leading to...

Having the "right mindset" takes times and consistency. Wrong mindsets are established when you embrace certain beliefs and attitudes towards others and self. We are to have the mind of Christ... not the mind of the world. So, why is it such a hard process? Don't allow stinking thinking to take "root" in your mind or heart. Find out: the secret of right mindset and being content in difficult seasons of your life! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching ->...

Shame, fear, or poverty mindsets will NOT help you heal old trauma. Did you know: Studies have shown that Christian Counselors help 92% of the people they counsel? WOW! Leaning on the power of the Holy Spirit as opposed to man's way is the best route to victory over your life. Christian Counseling allows people to get to the "ROOT" of bondage and avoid temporary Band-aids of secular ways. Find out over 15 reasons why people reject Christian Counseling and don't abide in my ARC...

The enemy can make anything demonic look divine! Aligning yourself with unfruitful relationships will cause strongholds in your life. Ungodly connections cause delay and can taint your anointing, ministry, and business. EKKK! During this time of testing... God clearly spoke to me for direction, as a huge mac truck pulled out slowly in front of me. You won't believe what it said! Our alignment with Him is utterly important, not only for you, but the direction of your life. Will you...

Do you tend to point your finger at others? Play the blame game? Truth... we must take responsibility for our own happiness. Yikes! The choices we make have consequences, good or bad, but they are indeed our own. Many times, we need to embrace the harsh reality that we may have wounds (trauma) buried deep in our soul. If you're not willing to look "inwardly" this can hinder your healing with Jesus. Jesus wants to restore you. Will you let Him? Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching...

Are you putting up healthy boundaries in your relationships? Avoiding worldly distractions takes effort on your part to become whole and set free. Many times, it’s necessary to step back from the chaos of the world and spend time with Jesus. Without it, you inhibit healing with Jesus. Today more than ever, we have got to get our priorities in order. Can you step away from the clamor of the world and allow Jesus a quiet space in your heart? Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching...

Why should you “forgive” when someone double-crossed you, cheated on you, left you, abused you, or turned their back on you? When we grieve a spirit of unforgiveness, we lose the ability to hear God’s voice, think clearly, and hold onto feelings that don't serve us. Worst off, unresolved emotions turn into ugly strongholds when not healed appropriately. Fact is, it keeps us in bondage of the devil. Unforgiveness is a stronghold, not a feeling or emotion! A decision to "let go" and release...

Chosen ones, you must be ready to go head-to-head against the enemy's hierarchy attacks. Fight for cursed nations and learn how to equip the saints with proper alignment. Why, you ask? Water and territorial spirits are after God's chosen ones! Evil is affecting our land, society, children, and families.  Blind eyes and deaf ears must be open to receive prophetic words from the Lord. The enemy is on a mission to destroy God's anointed vessels, especially with those on fire for the King of...

Did you know that Florida has the highest drowning rate in our nation for children under four? It doesn’t surprise me that "The Sunshine State" attracts young spring breakers to beautiful beaches and families to refreshing pools... BUT the enemy has a sneaky agenda!  Many talk about evil spirits affecting our land, but not water... Well, God revealed a strategic water spirit to me that is affecting our innocent children. "Therefore, rejoice, O heavens! And you who live in the heavens,...

Have you been affecting by a territorial spirit? The Lord revealed three states in my dreams that carry a specific hierarchy of sexual immorality, lust, prevention, greed, pride, and witchcraft. These evil agents attempt to hinder God’s Word, bring a veil over your eyes, and block your ears from hearing God's truth.  Why? So, you stay stuck in bondage, live in oppression, and continue being influenced by people living in geographical areas. Remember: We life in spiritual realm, not just a...

Our identity does not lie upon people, circumstances, money, or a job status. If this defines who you are… you will continue to feel lost, unworthy, undervalued, and unloved. Many have a natural tendency to search for their value in the unfulfilling, external things. To be able to understand your identity as a follower of Christ, you need to understand how God sees you. Stay closely knitted with our Creator. Let Him build you up, not the other way around. Your identity in Christ “means that...