Better results with EVP does not mean more results. Instead, what are they telling us? What can we learn from them? What is being revealed – primarily about the spirit we’re fortunate enough to be recording? Truth is, we share our space with the other side - we are equals, so how we talk to them is just as important as if they were alive and visible. We should try to walk a mile in the spirit’s shoes for a change. Be less concerned with our own desired results from the session and more focused on how to bring out the messages they want to offer. Easier said than done, but dealing with spirit superficially is not an okay approach. We need to find the right way to actually connect - honestly.