Being an honorary "aunty" is a very prestigious role. But is it also essential for your kid to have adults outside of their blood family that they can trust? Also, we talk to a mum who's just become an empty nester about the particular pain of your kid no longer listing you as their "next of kin". And - just how much sleep does your kid need? And how the hell do you make them get it? CONTACT US Your hosts are Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo With thanks to our lovely listener Cherise.  Share your nail or fail by leaving us a message on 02 8999 9386. Fling us an e-mail: [email protected] Or join our Mamamia Parents Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1047713658714395/ This podcast was produced by Rachael Hart This Glorious Mess is a podcast by Mamamia. Explore more Mamamia podcasts: https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts  This episode was brought to you by Little Tikes.