今集提要 In this episode, we talked about... (01:15) Spotify Wrap-Up (03:30) Thank you Anne 💖 (06:00) 維納斯野外定向 Venus’s team building (09:45) 東京地道香港菜 Delicious Hong Kong cuisine in Tokyo (14:00) 餐廳用膳小費討論 How to tip in Toronto (24:30) 本集介紹 Intro to episode (26:00) 你的伴侶能否讓你成為更好的人嗎？而你又能否讓他變得更好？ Does your partner make you a better person, and do you do the same for them? (30:15) 你和伴侶能暢所欲言地表達內心感受、依賴對方、親近而從不怕對方會離開你嗎？ Are you and your partner both comfortable with sharing feelings, relying on each other, being close, and able to avoid worrying about the other person leaving? (39:00) 你和伴侶能否接納對方最真實的自己，並不會試圖改變你？ Do you and your partner accept each other for who you are, without trying to change each other? (49:00) 當大家有爭執，你和伴侶能否在尊重對方的情況下好好溝通，而不是攻擊和傷害對方嗎？ When disagreements arise, do you and your partner communicate respectfully and without contempt or negativity? (53:45) 你和伴侶能分享做決定的權力嗎？ Do you and your partner share decision-making, power and influence in the relationship? (56:45) 你的伴侶是你最好的朋友嗎？ Is your partner your best friend, and are you theirs? (56:50) 你和伴侶是否常以「我們」出發，而非分「你」和「我」？ Do you and your partner think more in terms of “we” and “us,” rather than “you” and “I”? (58:45) 你和伴侶能分享社交平台和銀行密碼嗎？ Would you and your partner trust each other with the passwords to social media and bank accounts? (64:30) 你和伴侶能否給予對方實用、不會過份樂觀的意見？ Do you and your partner have good opinions of each other – without having an overinflated positive view? (68:15) 你們的關係得到好友認同嗎？ Do your close friends, as well as your partner’s, think you have a great relationship that will stand the test of time? (70:00) 你們的關係是不受欺騙，嫉妒和控制行為等約會警號的影響？ Is your relationship free of red flags like cheating, jealousy and controlling behavior? (71:45) 你和伴侶是否擁有相同價值觀，例如是政見、宗教、婚姻、生小孩，甚至是育兒的看法？ Do you and your partner share the same values when it comes to politics, religion, the importance of marriage, the desire to have kids (or not) and how to parent? (77:00) 伴侶飲食習慣 Your partner’s diet (79:40) 你和伴侶是否願意為對方犧牲自己的需要、慾望和目標？ Are you and your partner willing to sacrifice your own needs, desires and goals for each other (without being a doormat)? (80:55) 你和伴侶是否擁有穩定的情緒和讓人愉快的個性？ Do you and your partner both have agreeable and emotionally stable personalities? (85:30) 你們在性生活上能滿足對方嗎？ Are you and your partner sexually compatible? (88:35) 本集總結 Conclusion (90:30) 親愛的多多 Dear Toronto (92:15) 親愛的東東 Dear Tokyo ------ 資料來源 Source 英文原版 https://www.garylewandowski.com/post/15-easy-questions-to-see-your-relationship-more-clearly 中文翻譯 https://pretty.presslogic.com/article/422053/%E6%84%9B%E6%83%85%E5%BF%83%E7%90%86%E6%B8%AC%E9%A9%97-mr-right-%E7%B5%90%E5%A9%9A 關注我們 Follow us Instagram @tokongnui Facebook @tokongnui MeWe - https://mewe.com/p/to%E6%B8%AF%E5%A5%B3podcast 聯絡我們 Contact us Email - [email protected]