Are you spending more time alone than usual, lately? Do you find yourself lonely without other people to provide you with love, peace and comfort? This season of isolation is the perfect opportunity to learn to love yourself completely and wholly, to enjoy your own company, without the need of approval from anyone else. The more you love yourself, the more you love your Twin Flame and thus draw them to you like a magnet.    Too many people are afraid to be alone. They forget that they are...

Have you found yourself isolated with more time to think and less time to spend with people? As a result, are your thoughts becoming more obsessive? If you are looking to stop those thoughts, then think again, Elle says. What you want to change is the energy behind the thoughts and the stories that your fear-based energy attaches to them. Thoughts themselves are neutral, and can mean something different to you from one day to the next depending on the meaning you assign to it.    This is...

Do you find yourself having an abundance of fearful thoughts lately? Are you dwelling on the negative more than usual? In today’s world, it’s almost impossible not to be bombarded by stressful imagery and messaging. Since they know it’s all very addictive, the media makes sure to keep it in steady rotation.    Elle is here to help, guiding you with simple exercises and suggestions to keep you centered and present, so that the fear-based energy in your mind doesn’t stand between you and your...

Are you using the Law of Attraction to manifest what you want? Is it working the way you want it to?   In this episode, Elle explains why manifesting techniques can hinder you, and will never be as powerful, as letting everything you desire come to you freely by aligning with your soul. Your mind is fear-based and limited to your physical experience, she says. It cannot even conceive of what your soul can bring to you.   Popular manifesting techniques require that you stay in your head,...

Do you know what you truly want in life? Are you on a journey toward what you’ve been conditioned to believe is success? Be prepared to be thrown right off course, Elle warns. As you move closer into alignment with your soul–your true self–you move closer to your true life’s purpose and your true desires. These are often different from those that you form in your mind, where your ego–and fear based energy–are stored. And it’s not just your career that will change–you’ll find yourself...

Has your entire life been disrupted and overturned? After years of near-perfect success and smooth sailing, are your health, finances, career or other major areas of life suddenly falling apart? This is not only common, but, as Elle explains, quite a necessary part of the Twin Flame journey.    It’s an awakening, an alarm. Your soul is trying to get your attention. Physical pain and exhaustion are often signs of fear being alchemized into love. The more you align with your true self, the...

Are you at the mercy of your limiting beliefs? Do you place people and things into boxes, therefore limiting their possibilities? To live in the 3D world is to be surrounded by limitations. Our fear-based minds, desiring a false sense of control tend to name, label, and categorize things and people, declaring what they are and are not, and therefore boxing them in. Your soul, however, is limitless. In the soul realm everything is possible and there are no opposites of good or bad, right or...

Do you feel the need to do something to accelerate your Twin Flame journey? Do you feel anxious when you compare your journey to other people’s? This need to “do” is fear-based “push” energy, and has the opposite effect–it will actually impede your progress toward your Twin Flame. It is when you let go and stay present and put complete trust in your soul that you allow it to deliver you in perfect time to exactly where you need to be.    Despite what the mind will try to tell you, there is no...

Are you trying to get the attention of your Twin Flame by looking them up or orchestrating a run-in with them? Or, by contrast, are you actively trying to avoid or ignore them? If you answered yes to either, you are in your “push” energy. And when you “push”, your Twin Flame inevitably “pulls”. This is a mutually manipulative dance in which you both vie for control.    Of course, any sense of control is false and fear-based. The mind, which is only part of your earth-based experience, is...

Do you practice a traditional religion? Are you trying to maintain ties to this religion while continuing on your Twin Flame journey? If so, chances are you are finding it quite difficult, much like trying to move forward while still being tethered to the ground. This is because the two pursuits are inherently contradictory: religion is trusting and believing something outside of yourself that is dictated by other people, while the Twin Flame journey’s mission is to teach you to trust and...

Are you experiencing earth shattering heartbreak, a dire financial state or unprecedented health problems? If so, you are not alone These are just a few of the very common pitfalls experienced by those on the Twin Flame journey, all of which can be attributed to feelings of fear or lack. These feelings are exclusive to the 3D physical world and all stem from the illusion of separateness.    In the 5D world, the spirit realm, everything is connected and we are whole. As Rumi tells us,...

As you continue along your Twin Flame journey, dating may be the furthest thing from your mind. Then suddenly–bam!--someone comes along who sweeps you off of your feet and reminds you what it’s like to be in a normal relationship, reminds you that you absolutely can be physically attracted to another person and brings more balance to your life by taking the focus off of your Twin Flame for a while.    Of course, if you are consciously and intentionally hoping that a new relationship will aid...

Do you know the biggest mistake almost everyone makes on their Twin Flame journey? According to host Elle Hari it’s discussing your journey with others, even your Twin Flame. And while it may be tempting to want to share your feelings about it, you are doing yourself and your Twin Flame a disservice.    Whether it be venting, gossiping, or just talking about your Twin Flame journey is disrespectful to your journey. Because when you do this, you are allowing your fear-based energy to control...

Throughout the episodes, you have probably heard host Elle Hari talk a lot about ascension and its role in your Twin Flame journey. Not only does it impact your relationship with your Twin Flame, but with everyone around you, including yourself. In today’s episode, Elle explains what ascension is and what it looks like in your life.    According to Elle, ascension is a three-step process and the Twin Flame journey is the first step of that process. It is the whole purpose of our existence...

Are you starting to realize that the presence of your Twin Flame comes with a shadow of anxiety or doubt? According to host Elle Hari, this is the tipping point of your journey. In today’s episode, she explains what the tipping point is and how it shifts your relationship with your Twin Flame.   It’s important to remember that your fear-based energy was activated at the moment of soul recognition. And ever since, this fear-based energy has been behind all of your thoughts and feelings...

When it comes to the Twin Flame journey, it is not possible to have a physical relationship with them until you learn unconditional love. And while many people mistakenly believe that unconditional love has more to do with their feelings for others, host Elle Hari explains that it actually has everything to do with yourself. In today’s episode, Elle explains the true meaning of unconditional love.    To experience unconditional love, you must love without conditions. So anytime you are...

Do you attribute your feelings good or bad to the behaviors of your Twin Flame? According to host Elle Hari, this is a common response to engaging with your Twin Flame. However, by doing this, you are allowing your fear-based energy to keep you apart from your Twin Flame in the long run. In today’s episode, Elle expresses the importance of owning your own sh!t.    The entire purpose of the Twin Flame journey is to learn how to unconditionally love yourself. And since the Twin Flame is you,...

Do you feel desperate at times to make sense of your Twin Flame journey? According to host Elle Hari, this is the mindset that everyone first comes into their journey with. And while it is a common phenomenon, it is one that needs to change before the real journey even begins. In today’s episode, Elle explains how to shift  in the right direction.    When you first embark on your Twin Flame journey, you probably want to spend time making sense of everything. It is natural to allow your focus...

“Your fear-based energy doesn't allow you to have integrity. When you have integrity, you are your truth,” explains host Elle Hari, Founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®. Fear can manipulate much about how we view ourselves and our Twin Flame. Today, Elle explains that we must work past our fears to live authentically from the perception of our souls.   If we listen to our fear-based energy, we are tricked into believing that we must always be physically near our twin flames. The truth is we...

Do you ever feel stuck wondering how long your Twin Flame journey will take? In today’s episode, Host Elle Hari explains the paradox of time and how to move past your fixation on it.   As you move through your Twin Flame journey, it is completely normal to wonder how much time it is going to take for you to feel better and magnetize your Twin Flame because our fear-based energy tends to focus on these things. However, it is important to know that time only exists in the physical world. And...

Have you been feeling disconnected from your Twin Flame? Even though you might be working through your journey by aligning your soul and balancing your fear-based energy, it can be hard to not crave the physical form of your Twin Flame. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses the phenomenon of demystifying your Twin Flame.   It is important to remember that it is your fear-based energy that drives the addiction to the physical form of your Twin Flame. And at times, this addiction can...

When anyone sets out on their Twin Flame journey, they are eager to know everything they can about their Twin Flame. And while this is a normal way to begin, Elle reminds listeners that it is actually our fear-based energy driving our motives to control everything. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari answers the question, what does it mean when someone says, “your soul knows everything?”   It is almost human instinct to believe that your mind can control every aspect of your life. And while...

As we know from previous episodes, it’s important to align closer to your soul and be out of your mind. But to be with your Twin Flame physically, you must do one more thing. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari explains why it is necessary to balance your energy.    As Elle explains, fear-based energy controls our minds to determine whatever our Twin Flames are thinking, feeling, or doing as good or bad. And when we do this, we judge our thoughts as good or bad and it will ultimately determine...

“That's what I mean by shifting into alignment with our soul. We do it on an energetic level by transmuting the fear based energy that inhabits our physical bodies of our soul into the love based energy of our soul from other dimensions. Taking that fear based component, polarized component, duality component out of it,” explains host Elle Hari, founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®, international bestselling author, ascension alchemist, teacher, and coach. In the season four opener, Elle...