Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com Do you ever just need to take a breath and pause?   In this check-in with Benjamin and Kirsten they share that they’ll be taking some time away to evaluate 2023 and press into the New Year as a family. They remind us that it’s important to always live out what we’re teaching, and the power of making sure that our “yes” is our BEST “yes”.  They’ll be back soon, so be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode!  See you soon! 

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com Can you find a ripple effect of obedience in your life?  In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how you can find pieces of the Christmas story all throughout the Bible, even in Genesis! They walk us through scripture to show us the power of an act of obedience, reminding us that Christmas is actually in the entirety of the scripture if we look at it through the lens of God’s love and mercy...

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com How often do you reflect on past memories to see just how far you’ve come?  In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten share some never before heard memories from their college days! They tell us some fun stories from early on in their relationship, and how Kirsten’s relationship with Benjamin’s parents developed, reminding us how important it is to look back and smile over past moments in our lives.  New...

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com How do you manage the chaos that is sometimes associated with this time of year?  In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin kick off the Christmas season by talking about how to navigate the pressure that comes with the holidays. They give practical tips on how to set the tone in your home, their approach to buying presents, and the value of getting your family involved in serving others, encouraging us to...

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com How often do we let the conflict in our life produce growth? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten finish up their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they talk about how to navigate conflict. Through talking about a recent moment of conflict in their own life, they help us see how we should approach conflict as a believer, knowing that it can be used as an opportunity for growth and shows us...

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com How often do we take the focus off of ourselves, and put it on the needs of other people? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin continue their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they talk about giving and the importance of laying the groundwork of generosity with your kids. Through being generous with not just your money, but also your time, they remind us that giving keeps the heart in...

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com Is prayer a part of your foundation in marriage?  In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten continue their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they break down the power of prayer in marriage. They discuss the importance of building a firm foundation and taking time to remember your love story, encouraging us to always make prayer our default response in every situation.  New episodes drop every...

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com How do you respond to change in your life?  In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin begin their new series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they focus on what it looks like to be grateful for the change. They share how they’ve handled new seasons in their own lives, reminding us to shift our perspective to remember that God is our firm foundation, steady throughout every moment.  New episodes drop...

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com How often do Christians think about spiritual warfare? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten discuss Ephesians 6:12 and show us how to look beyond the surface of our situations to see what we’re actually fighting in the spirit. They also share how they navigate Halloween with their children and the importance of always being on guard, encouraging us to put on the full armor of God to fight our...

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com How often are you encouraging your kids to talk to God? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten & Benjamin talk about how your kids' prayer life may be a direct reflection of yours. They discuss what to do when praying feels uncomfortable, and the power of always pointing your kids back to God, encouraging you to be a living example of “praying without ceasing” alongside your kids. New episodes drop every...

Do you view friendship as a priority in your life?  In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin & Kirsten talk about why good friends are hard to find and keep. They start by walking through the various types of friends, sharing the reality of knowing that any good relationship is worth fighting for, encouraging us to pray for our friends and find the people who will uplift and enhance our lives.  New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss...

How often do you respond to the Lord’s calling?  In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten & Benjamin read through Isaiah 1 and discuss how God used Isaiah to speak to the people of Judah. Through the scriptures we see the importance of making sure our lives are pleasing to God, but that also through repentance the Lord is faithful to forgive our sins and redeem our stories…however it’s up to us to respond to His calling.  New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to...

What advice would you give yourself in your current season? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin & Kirsten finish out their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they give advice from the perspective of their future selves, and discuss how that wisdom impacts their lives today. They talk about prioritizing their own marriage, enjoying the parenting journey, the importance of practicing rest, encouraging us to continue to draw closer to the Lord and know...

What wisdom would you go back and tell your 30-year-old self? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin continue their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they share experiences from their 30’s! They discuss topics like embracing change, how to find purpose exactly where you are, the importance of surrendering your plans to the Lord and trusting that He does not waste anything! New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss...

What would you say to your 20 year old self if you could go back? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten continue their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they talk all about their 20’s!  They discuss the power of knowing your worth, their first few years of marriage, and talk about the struggle with perfectionism, reminding us that no one is perfect, that’s why we all need God’s grace. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so...

What are some things you would go back and tell your younger self?      In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin begin their new series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they talk about themselves when they were younger. From relationships with their parents, purity culture, and the importance of memorizing bible verses as kids, they remind us that God does not waste any of our experiences.   New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you...

Are you team Why or team Why Not in your thinking?  In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten review some of their legendary arguments over their 17 year marriage that reveal their own unique thought process. From disagreements over laundry baskets, closing cabinets, unread emails and more, they remind us to look back over our experiences, smile and see how far you have come.  New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why...

Are you prepared to stand apart in a culture that is going the other way? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin read through 2 Chronicles and discuss Hezekiah’s obedience in preparing his people for war. They talk about the importance of knowing that it’s the Lord who prepares us for battles, explaining that recognizing what God has already done in our lives motivates us to be different. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never...

How much do you really know about the Watsons? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin answer your submitted questions. They discuss topics like how to carve out quality time with your children, their friendship with the Brees family, how to discern what popular tv shows to watch, and much more.   New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! 

How much do you know about the game of football? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the logistics of the game of football. As the NFL season opens, Kirsten shares that knowing the basics of the game makes the season feel a lot more fun even if football is not your passion. Whether you love the game or have someone in your household that loves the game, this episode is packed with information that will help to understand what is happening on...

What season or experience has grown you in ways you never thought were possible? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the 16 seasons of NFL Training Camp that they experienced. They both reflect on their memories of this season in their lives, talking about how much they grew individually and as a family through the blessings and curses each year brought.  New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Do you feel pressure to give your kids the “perfect summer”? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how they are feeling as summer comes to an end with their kids. Kirsten gets real about her emotions as Benjamin provides encouragement to her and other moms out there who feel the same.  New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not sponsored in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at...

How do you talk to your kids about tough issues? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how to approach the difficult topic of abortion with your kids, considering how to share the right information for their age. They discuss some of the barriers to this conversation as well why it is so important to communicate with them on the issue of life.  New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Here is a link for the...

Have you ever been to Family Camp? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons’, Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the amazing benefits of going to family camp for children as well as parents. They share memories of their time at camp as well as some ways they slowed down to focus on their individual spiritual growth and their relationship with one another, leaving the week refreshed and ready to re-engage with their daily lives.  New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe...