In a rare solo episode, I reflect on a few key themes that have emerged during the course of my work consulting with with parents who are worried about losing their kids to the gender craze. Join me as I share insights on how to help families facing this challenge. When is it actually a bad idea to tell your kids about the harms of sex trait modification? How can parents express concerns to headstrong adolescents without pushing them away? What strategies can you employ to understand their perspectives while maintaining your own boundaries? Tune in to discover the power of strategic apologizing and the importance of listening without necessarily agreeing. We'll also explore the impact of porn and social media on youth's perceptions of gender and sexuality. How does exposure to certain media influence their beliefs and behaviors? And what part do male and female role models play in shaping their identities? Plus, we'll touch on the dynamics of splitting and triangulation within families facing the gender crisis. How can parents navigate these complex relationships to support children effectively? And what common pitfalls must be avoided in order to prevent the rift from deepening? Books mentioned in this episode: Never Split the Difference by Chris VossLost in Trans Nation by Miriam GrossmanBooks mentioned on this podcast can also be found in my bookshop. My recommended reading list for ROGD parents is the second section down on that page. If I can help, book a discovery call.  00:00 Start [00:02:25] Gender craze in family dynamics. [00:05:27] Origins of gender dysphoria. [00:10:04] Importance of being strategic. [00:11:31] A tightrope marathon. [00:15:47] Avoid sharing too much information. [00:20:48] Navigating teenage pride and knowledge. [00:24:11] Hormonal effects on reproductive system. [00:27:14] Hostage negotiation techniques. [00:33:40] Apologizing for giving access to technology. [00:36:21] Internalizing female oppression. [00:39:44] Boys and porn addiction. [00:43:35] ROGD parent role models. [00:47:21] Cry for help in parenting. TALK TO ME: book a discovery call. LOCALS: Ask questions of me & guests; get early access to new episodes + exclusive content. Join my community. SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate. DO NO HARM: join our community of concerned professionals. EIGHTSLEEP: Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST. ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi with code SOMETHERAPIST. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.  SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI. MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.  To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend! Learn more about Do No Harm. Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com. Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi. Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products. Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI. Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration. Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks