My best phone sex friend Miss June and I have been talking a lot lately about erotic hypnosis. We each do it very differently, but the end result is the same: a very enjoyable time for our callers and for us. Doing erotic hypnosis is fun, but I treat it as a serious skill. That is why I often ask… (more...)

What happens when a mature phone sex Goddess tries to come up with a story that will fit the disparate fetishes of her many callers? I gave this a lot of thought. Some of you are submissive; others rather dominant and still others resolutely part of the vanilla world. You are adult babies and humiliation addicts; guys who just like… (more...)

Talking About Cuckolds and Phone Sex I use “Cuckold Whisperer” a bit tongue-in-cheek and in fun. It took me a while to figure out how I could fulfill cuckolding phone sex calls in a way that is genuine but sexy. I have cheated and been cheated on and nobody felt good–the unbearable pain broke up relationships and hurt a lot of… (more...)

I don’t blog nearly as often as I should, so it was with firm intention that I sat down close to Halloween to write a post about mature phone sex while waiting for my phone to ring. The advantages of a mature woman. It seemed so write, I mean right, with leaves falling, to ponder May-October relationships and the virility… (more...)

Happy Independence Day! Phone sex is, for me, a lot about my own independence. I can remember my mother exclaiming in a fit of pique, using language she NEVER used: “Emma, do you HAVE to be so damned INDEPENDENT?” Ayep. I don’t know how to be any other way, at least not with any grace or success. But independence is… (more...)

My dear boys, you need a therapist. Well, you WANT a therapist. You may want a stern, humiliating, mind-f*****g therapist, or a sexy, seductive therapist who makes hot use of that couch. You may even want someone you can really, seriously just talk with: the confidentiality, brains, and empathy of a therapist without a formal therapy relationship. The good news… (more...)

I’ve mentioned my dear friend June, as I’m sure you’ve noticed, several times here. Have you seen her latest evolution at ExplicitJune.com? I think it’s brilliant. You’re really missing something if you haven’t read her views on radical happiness. Audio Porn and Erotic MP3s In one of our daily talks, we discussed challenging ourselves and one another to be more… (more...)

There are days when I think I’m going to scream if I see one more photo of a pretty girl sneering and flipping off the camera on Niteflirt. I get that the whole bratty, hateful attitude thing is a turnon for a lot of guys. And I’m really happy for you if you’re one of them, because there is no… (more...)

I was a late bloomer sexually, and it took me a little while to understand that a whole lot of sex is about power. Not just in the hard, cold way that many people use it, or even in the power exchange that is at the heart of BDSM, but in even the simplest, most lovingly playful session. Once I… (more...)

This is about the lines we’re not supposed to cross–too naughty, too nasty to talk about. Forbidden fruit hidden away in the darkness. A surprising little thing I’ve learned about myself doing phone sex is that almost none of the no-no’s bother me in the least. It’s kind of funny because I keep my website and blog sort of PG-13–that’s… (more...)