In this episode titled "Money is Time," Joli discusses the often-overlooked truth behind the exchange of labor for money, emphasizing how money essentially represents hours of one's life. Joli challenges the common perception of money as merely a transactional tool, urging listeners to reevaluate how they spend their earnings. She illustrates the idea that spending money on trivial items equates to spending precious life hours on them. She further explains that money, as an intermediary,...

On today’s episode, Joli​⁠ proposes a direct and profound connection between ADHD minds and the universe’s structure, suggesting a deeper, intrinsic alignment. What if the ADHD mind reflects an intuitive understanding of the universe? We will explore the intriguing concepts of algorithms in our reality, synchronicity, and how these ideas might relate to the ADHD brain. This discussion was inspired by an excerpt from "Dimensions" by Jacques Vallée that discusses how modern information...

Imagine your mine as an app and your brain as the hardware/computer. Can you use your mind as one would use an app: engaging and disengaging it at will, and exiting out of it when done? Think of the mind’s internal monologue to an app running in the background of your cellphone that drains the device’s battery. The continuous, often uncontrollable internal dialogue can lead to mental strain and exhaustion. Just as background apps consume power even when you’re not actively using them, the...

In this episode, Joli Artist, nka JoJo the Storyteller, 😏 examines the intersection of storytelling and our perception of reality. She advocates for the importance of questions over answers and the importance of fostering a society that encourages and values free and exploratory thinking. The episode begins with a reflection on a surprisingly profound Twitter post by Elmo, which led to an existential conversation about the public’s general dissatisfaction with life. Joli offers listeners a...

Exploring The Dystopian vision in acclaimed TV show "See," starring Jason Momoa, and how its portrayal of a sightless society opens dialogues on perception and human capability. - Defining Reality: Venture beyond the scientific into a conversation about the essence of "real." Inspired by a discussion with an astrophysicist friend, this segment explores the limits of scientific understanding and the mysteries that lie beyond empirical evidence. - Hallucinations and UFOs: Navigate the...

Is Your Life a Favorite Song to Higher Dimensional Beings? | Cosmic Philosophy & The Music of Existence Join Joli and her special guest, The Kosmic Jedi, in this thought-provoking episode of "Your One Black Friend." Dive into discussions on collective consciousness, the role of nature as a teacher, and the concept of being "watchers" in society. Explore the idea of life as a grand symphony, and how we contribute to the harmony or discord of the collective melody. In this episode, Joli...

Join us in this intriguing midweek mini-cast of "Your One Black Friend," where we delve into thought-provoking topics ranging from the Gregorian calendar's impact on our perception of the new year to the fascinating Apple TV show "Silo." Dive into a world of dystopian futures, the possibility of Earth being a silo for another civilization, and the implications of advanced technologies that may lie beyond our current understanding. This episode explores the intriguing question of whether Earth...

In a largely deterministic universe where factors beyond our control influence our lives, Is anything truly anyone’s fault? Similarly, can we genuinely claim credit for our personal achievements or even our traits, beauty, or talents? Consider our existence as semi-sentient beings who have found ourselves in a universe where the causes of what we experience as life are beyond our control. These include the circumstances of our birth, our genetic makeup, the era and culture into which we...

In this episode, we address how changing/battling against harmful ideas is a more effective strategy than condemning people, who are simply acting under the influence of bad ideas. #philosophy #selfhelp #technophilosophy #thematrixisreal #simulationtheory #metaphysics Youroneblackfriend.com

The Power of Ignoring Sh*t. Stop giving attention to sh*t you don’t like. Have you ever heard the expression ignorance is bliss? Well, I’m going to take that expression modify it and say ignoring shit is bliss. A discussion on the power and value of focused attention and intention. Youroneblackfriend.com Book: So You’re Living In A Simulation https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0CCCMZXQH/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0

To someone in the future, you are a #fiction. Your entire life story could be told as a narrative work of art. Think about that. Now, consider this question: What if the very stories of our lives, the narratives that our lives often take, were actually conscious lifeforms—sentient entities with their own desires? Think about a personal experience that unfolded over a period of time. Consider its beginning—how that story or event was “born,” how it developed and, “grew,” and how it evolves...

A slightly personal episode and a slight deviation from our normal discussions but I figured this topic warranted a discussion based on conversations I’ve had with a lot of female friends. Dating is not a level playing field. I know people want to believe that in 2023/2024 things between men and women are equal. They absolutely are not. Let’s deal in the reality that we are actually in, not in the world we want this to be. The cards are stacked against women and thus women need to move in...

There are many “failures” on our path to success. You have to pay your dues so to speak. As it were, we ourselves cause our own failures when we allow temporary setbacks to crystallize into permanence by forgetting that “L’s” are necessary steps on the road to success. If at first you don’t succeed, fail, fail again. Youroneblackfriend.com

As a wo/man thinketh, so goes your consciousness towards the path you imagine. On this episode we explore the futility of negative imagination and how we can cut the habit and consciously redirect our reality experience. youroneblackfriend.com

How quickly we give up our peace in exchange for bullsh*t. In a world of drama and constant power struggle, could seemingly “submissive” acts be a true demonstration of dominance? YoureOneBlackFriend.com

In The Simulation, Life begins the moment you begin to own your godhood. Everything in this world seeks to bring you lower, wanting you to lower yourself. And when you try to rise, everyone around you seems programmed to pull you down like-like crabs in a bucket-to make you less than what you know yourself to be. What if the gods walk amongst us? Euhemerism is an approach to interpreting mythology that suggests that myths and legends are based on historical events and real individuals who...

Do we contribute to our own subjugation/enslavement by being complacent, simply because freedom may not be a strong enough motivator to change our ways? Are there stronger motivations than freedom? Do we actually value freedom? youroneblackfriend.com [Disclaimer: I am not Candace Owens. Nor am I conservative. Im saying chattel slavery is intentionally magnified and repeatedly drilled into the minds of our children like that is the entirety of African history, while our accomplishments...

We all have 'red flags' largely stemming from the traumas of life itself. White it is important to identify red flags in potential partners, are we self-aware enough to identify and own our own red flags? In this episode, we will also delve into the concept of pain in relationships. Can you consciously “choose your pain?” Often, we attempt to shield ourselves from early-stage relationship pain by remaining in situations that might not be the right fit. However, by doing so, we may...

On the symbolism behind a Mandala, and its possible representation of our many lives, many selves, and many incarnations. On this episode, Joli shares some of her backstory, and how her life experiences drove and inspired the creation of her content, and podcast, and led to the writing of her book So You’re Living In A Simulation. How many variations of “you” are out there in the multiverse? Is there an original blueprint of your present avatar? Is your present physical body a “variant” of...

In a deterministic universe, is Karma a choice ? Youroneblackfriend.com #consciousness #philosophy #technophilosophy #thematrix #thematrixisreal #karma #ndes #archons #ets #timetravel

If we are destined to reincarnate, how do we leave messages, reminders or guides for our future selves to remember the lessons we are learning and have learned in our current lives? In this episode we also tackle how to deal with periods where we are plagued by intrusive thoughts. Youroneblackfriend.com

MiniCast! Thoughts on the various forms intelligence takes, Accepting things we can’t change, and how the fact that we regret certain actions, suggests we are 4-dimensional beings. Attributes of a 4-D being: A 4D being possesses the ability to move through time as a fourth dimension, potentially perceiving past, present, and future simultaneously. Now in our physical bodies, we humans are bound to 3 dimensions, a linear flow of time, and the experience of one timeline at a time. But we are...

The power of infinity: you give an anomaly enough time, and eventually, the anomaly will repeat. It’s only a MATTER of TIME. Get it? You get it. Right. In an infinite universe, death is an illusion. As "matter cannot be created or destroyed, only modified" according to the law of conservation of mass. Which means that even from a #materialist approach, no one really dies. Or perhaps more precisely: no one stays dead🧟‍♀️. While your body will degrade, IN TIME it will regenerate into the...

If you had a chance to choose how quickly you will achieve success in an endeavour, what time frame would you choose: 1 month? 1 years? 5 years? 10? While it may be tempting to go with the fastest option, this episode explains why it may be best to embrace the longer path with more adversity. •• #success #motivation #timetravel #paralleluniverses #consciousness #thematrix youroneblackfriend.com