I adore wearing high heels, so the topic of high heel fetish is extraordinarily fun to me. Are you a high heel fetishist? Are you excited by the thought of a sexy pair of stilettos? Does the sight of high heeled thigh high boots make you want to explode? Listen as I present some thought-provoking questions to my dear high heel fetishists. To become a patron of this podcast or to book an appointment, visit my website Zahvia.com

Are you ready to get to know yourself on a deeper level? In this episode I talk about asking for what you want in your sexual life - how to do it and why. I also share two things from my personal desire list. Wonder what's on my kinky mind? Curious about how to get real with yourself and honor your own desires? Listen and take notes! To make an appointment for coaching or to become a patron of this podcast, visit my website Zahvia.com

Would you like to become a better submissive? In this episode I talk about four foundational ways you can improve in your submission, including: respect, acts of true service, obedience and gifts. I'll also talk about a few things to avoid. Help yourself stand out from the crowd and really please your Dominant. To offer your gratitude for this guidance, please give this episode a positive rating and comment. To offer your gratitude via a gift, learn about what pleases me on my website Zahvia.com

In this episode I answer some audience questions about: what is my perspective on gender play, how can someone get involved in their local BDSM community, how to introduce D/s (Dominance/submission) dynamics into a long-term relationship and a brief intro on how to be an excellent submissive (which will be thoroughly covered in my next episode). Noted websites in this episode (I am not affiliated with either site): **IMPORTANT: make sure you do your own research to find the best fit for you,...

Strap-ons are a popular topic and activity, but some people may be unfamiliar with them (and unfortunately, some people may have a stigma about using them). In this episode I introduce strap-on play and tell you 10 reasons why I love wearing a strap-on. Website: Zahvia.com

The topic of foot fetish is more popular than many people realize. I'm a foot fetish Top, which means I enjoy having my feet worshiped by my submissives and play partners. Why do I enjoy it? Listen to my top 10 reasons for why I'm a foot fetish Top. If you'd like to become a patron of this podcast and receive special rewards in return, visit: Patreon.com/Zahvia For in-person or long distance guidance, visit Zahvia.com for more details.

Chastity training is one of my favorite kinky topics. On today's episode, I talk about why I love putting my submissives into chastity. You might be surprised at some of my reasons! I also have an exciting announcement: I've just started a Patreon! Join me there for access to my kinky erotic audio stories and special rewards for my patrons. For in-person and long distance guidance, visit Zahvia.com for more details.

10 steps on how to explore feminization and discover what you truly enjoy. This episode focuses on genuine exploration (not fetish). I am welcoming and affirming of people who are crossdressers, LGBTQ+ and/or questioning their identity. For in-person or long distance guidance, visit Zahvia.com for session details. Enjoy!

How do you manage stress when it seems that everything around you is falling apart? It can be easy to shut off all your feelings and stay in your head. This episode is a reminder that you have a beautiful resource within you: your unique sensuality. Let's explore it. For in-person or long distance guidance, visit Zahvia.com for more details.

Many people have a misunderstanding about BDSM and assume it's just whips, chains and heartlessness (or worse, get their information from mainstream media). They might also mistakenly assume all Dominants work the exactly same. Let me guide you through my philosophy and practice of BDSM as a Dominatrix - from the sexy and merciless aspects, to the nurturing and practical aspects. For in-person or long distance guidance, visit Zahvia.com for details.

Not everyone with a penis wants to hear that it's big. In fact, some people love hearing just the opposite. In this episode the topic of "small penis humiliation," otherwise known as SPH, is introduced. I discuss my insights into playing with this degradation fetish with cisgender men - whether they're a submissive, sissy, cuckold or an adult little who enjoys age play. Zahvia.com

Time for some important updates! I'm in a new city with a new name and a taboo lesson coming for you soon... Zahvia.com

How can we use the practice of BDSM to learn more about ourselves and connect more deeply with others? Join me as I explore topics of self-awareness, self-exploration and creating deeper intimacy through the art of kink.

Welcome, I'm Lexi Lipstick and I'm a lifestyle and professional BDSM Dominant (aka Dominatrix), fetish artist and sexuality educator based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Join me for upcoming lessons on kink, sex ed, interviews with kinky friends and colleagues and sultry recordings I've made with submissives and fetishists in mind.