In this episode host Rachel Oakes (who is currently breaking up with her husband) talks to Denise Cullington Psychoanalyst and Author of 'Breaking up blues' a practical self-help guide to help people navigate divorce and break-ups based on her own personal experiences, interviews with divorced couples and a long term research study into the affects of divorce.  The second part of this interview focuses on how children are affected by divorce.  Practical ideas for how we can help them in the immediate aftermath of divorce and break-up, behaviours which were shown to have a detrimental impact on children, the long term affects of divorce on young adults, ways we can limit the negative affects and some positive life lessons we can teach our children if divorce is handled in a positive way.  She also talks about the continued importance of Fathers after divorce and how they can become separated from their children and the emotional impact on men of divorce. A challenging and fascinating conversation.  Credits: A Mother of Invention Production (2021) Executive Producer & Host: Rachel Oakes With Special Guest: Denise Cullington With huge thanks to: Crystaline Kline Randazzo - Podcast guru Felix Middleton - Graphic Design guru Music by Podington Bear available at http://soundofpicture.com Contact: To contact the show to suggest an episode theme, give Rachel feedback or if you'd like to share your own story please email [email protected], or find us on instagram and Facebook under AGoodDivorce.  We would love to hear from you!  #trollfreezone! Please subscribe on your favourite podcast platform to get alerts about future episodes and review and rate the show to help it gain greater visibility.