In this episode host Rachel Oakes (who is currently breaking up with her husband) talks to Thomas about being left by his partner after 18 years and three children together.   With great humour and honesty he talks through the demise of the relationship, the emotions he experienced, reinventing himself after the break up, going from "stay at home Dad" to "weekend only Dad", how to keep things civil with your ex, the importance of prioritising the kids and his tips for co-parenting amicably.    Credits: A Mother of Invention Production (2021) Executive Producer & Host: Rachel Oakes With Special Guest: Thomas With huge thanks to: Crystaline Kline Randazzo - Podcast guru Felix Middleton - Graphic Design guru Music by Podington Bear available at http://soundofpicture.com Contact: To contact the show to suggest an episode theme, give Rachel feedback or if you'd like to share your own story please email [email protected], or find us on instagram and Facebook under AGoodDivorce.  We would love to hear from you!  #trollfreezone!