Episodes
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Published 02/21/22
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Published 02/18/22
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Published 02/13/22
Since you're here you might as well earn CEs. Find out how to earn CEs for this course here. Watch this video to find out more about how Heartrate Variability impacts your health.  You can pick up Dr. Leah Lagos' book here.    
Published 02/04/22
Since you're here you might as well earn CEs. Find out how to earn CEs for this course here. Find the about Tend and Befriend Theory Here. If you want an overview of Polyvagal Theory check out this video. It's short and very clear.  PS. If you enjoyed this episode check episode one of our series here.     
Published 01/21/22
Since you're here you might as well earn CEs. Find out how to earn CEs for this course here. Find the Polyvagal Theory whitepaper here. PS. If you enjoyed this episode check out my previous interview with Julia here.   
Published 01/07/22
Find our more about Bonnie here: Find out more about The Better Brain here: Contact me at Jordanthecounselor.com PS. If you enjoyed this episode check out my previous interview with Bonnie here.  Winn a copy of the book! Contest details.  1) Go to iTunes. 2) Leave a review. 3) Take a picture of the review. 4) Send me an email at [email protected] with the picture and your address.  5) I'll pick a random winner by 6/11/2021 who will then be mailed a copy of the...
Published 06/04/21
Find our more about Shari here: Contact me at Jordanthecounselor.com PS. If you enjoyed this episode check out this interview with Linda Weiner. She talks about the power of presence in sex therapy. 
Published 04/04/21
  Contact me at [email protected] Listen on YouTube P.S. If you enjoyed this check out my interview with Deb Dana. She's the therapist popularizing Polyvagal Theory.
Published 03/26/21
Follow Jesse here: https://www.multiculturalorientation.com/ Check out his book here: https://www.apa.org/pubs/books/4317453 Learn more about his friend Scott Miller here:   https://www.scottdmiller.com/ Listen on YouTube Listen on iTunes  Contact me at [email protected] or on Twitter @jordanharrisphd P.S. If you enjoyed this episode check out my interview with Tony Rousimanerrie. He also talks about the micromoves of therapy. 
Published 03/05/21
https://hminnovations.org/meditation-app Follow Simon here: https://centerhealthyminds.org/about/people/simon-goldberg Check out the App here: https://hminnovations.org/meditation-app Listen on YouTube Listen on iTunes  Contact me at [email protected] or on Twitter @jordanharrisphd P.S. If you enjoyed this episode check out my interview with Tony Rousimanerrie. She's the clinician taking Polyvagal Theory to the masses. 
Published 02/05/21
Listen on YouTube Listen on iTunes : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-simplicity-project/id1427537186 Learn more about Deliberate Practice here : https://www.dpfortherapists.com/tonyrousmaniere Contact me at [email protected] P.S. If you enjoyed this episode check out my lecture on how to become a master therapist. 
Published 10/30/20
Get the book here. Find Linda Weiner here.  Contact me at [email protected] Listen on YouTube P.S. If you enjoyed this check out my interview with Peggy Kleinplatz She's another amazing sex therapist.
Published 10/09/20
It's only when we feel free to give up hypervigilance that we can give someone our full attention. That requires us to feel safe. Contact me at [email protected] Listen on YouTube P.S. If you enjoyed this check out my interview with Deb Dana. She's the therapist popularizing Polyvagal Theory.
Published 09/16/20
"I think it's the listening. You listen you here. You do not actually let one detail go. You're completely there. And this is why as therapist we need to be accountable. We need... to look after our own physical and mental health. We need to be alert  all the time. We can not actually bring outside issues into our work. We have to be there 150 percent." -Eri Vlass Listen on YouTube Contact me at [email protected] P.S. If you enjoyed this episode check out my interview with Deb Dana. 
Published 08/28/20
"Sex is always contextual. It's about about the relationship. It's always about the hopes, and dreams, and fears of each of the people involved in those sexual relations. It's always complex and that's where the media gets it wrong. ...it's never what it seems to be." Peggy Kleinplatz.       Listen on YouTube   Learn more about Peggy and get trained here optimalsexualexperiences.com   Contact me at [email protected]   P.S. If you enjoyed this mini-episode check out this episode...
Published 07/30/20
"Thank you for what you do...The fact that you listen is a huge deal." Jennifer Allen.     Contact me at [email protected] Listen on YouTube P.S. If you enjoyed this check out this interview with Katheryn Sneed. She also talks about her experience as a client.
Published 07/06/20
As therapists we have to always be mindful of how safe our clients feel in our presence. This is not always easy to determine. But now we know. There are innate cues and Polyvagal Theory tells us what they are.   Contact me at [email protected] Listen on YouTube P.S. If you enjoyed this check out my interview with Deb Dana. She's the therapist popularizing Polyvagal Theory.
Published 05/23/20
 "Connection is always, always, always a long term solution...Empathy and connection techniques are just the more powerful techniques." Contact me here: [email protected] Watch here on YouTube P.S. If you enjoyed this, make sure to check out this episode on How to Become a Supershrink. The two are thematically linked.   
Published 04/29/20
 "A lot of learning comes through failure. That's been a good teacher for me." Contact me here: [email protected] Watch here on YouTube Learn a more about Ryan Rana here. If you want more from Ryan check out his podcast on EFT here, on Leadership here, or his video chat with former ISP guest Anabelle Bugatti Here.  P.S. If you enjoyed this, make sure to check out this episode on How to Become a Supershrink. The two are thematically linked.  Additional Notes and Resources for Ryan...
Published 03/31/20
"One can imagine how revulsion at the physical signs of suffering, of disease, might have had a benefit in reducing contagion, but it comes at the cost of reducing our capacity for empathy and compassion, which can be very useful in building community." -Paul Ekman "Emotions Revealed"   Contact me at [email protected] Listen on YouTube P.S. If you enjoyed this check out my other short on John Gottman. He talks about sex and healthy relationships.
Published 03/18/20
 Not only is it okay to make mistakes or to fail at something, but it's good in a way. If your not, if your not making mistakes and you're not failing your not growing." Contact me here: [email protected] Watch here on YouTube  Learn a more about Josh here Check out Josh's book here Also, check out https://theartoflearningproject.org/ P.S. If you enjoyed this, make sure to check out this episode on How to Become a Supershrink. The two are thematically linked. 
Published 02/27/20
My research findings were not unique. The late sex therapist Bernie Zilbergeld studied 100 couples...to [his] surprise, his overwhelming finding was the unimportance of technique. What [mattered?] The sexually active partners had a closer friendship and were committed to making sex a priority.   -John Gottman "What Makes Love Last"   Contact me at [email protected] Check out more about Gottman's Affair Recovery Model here.  Watch on YouTube here.  P.S. If you enjoyed this check out my...
Published 01/30/20
 The Charismatic {Speakers}: This is the kind of person who spends all their time talking. Lecturing. Weaving shimmering webs of ideas into the air. They’re often quite eloquent and charismatic; listening to them can be great fun. Which is precisely the problem — because in the end, passively listening to someone talk is a really inefficient way to learn. We learn by doing, exploring, discovering for ourselves. By asking questions, interacting, engaging with ideas. (Another reason why...
Published 01/22/20
"Attunement and responsiveness are hot topics, and the subject of a fair bit of research, in psychotherapy. The former refers to a therapist’s ability to pick up on the nuances of interactions with clients...The latter concept, responsiveness, refers to doing the right thing at the right time, adjusting interventions on the fly to fit the unique and evolving circumstances of the client and therapeutic interactions" -Scott Miller and Brooke Mathewes Contact me at [email protected] Read the...
Published 01/14/20