BTL Fam, we hope you have your tissues ready because it is one of those episodes that will move your heart. We talk about the intimate threads of parenting, our discussion unveils the varying approaches to nurturing children in a world saturated with information and opinions. One mother's viral take on education and mental health strikes a chord, prompting us to reflect on the intricate dance of freedom and boundaries. We navigate through the sensitive terrains of trauma, intimacy, and the...

Have you ever burst into laughter upon seeing a colleague's overly personal profile picture pop up on your phone? We've all been there! The fun doesn't stop there; we also swap tales about our most cherished pieces of jewelry and tattoos that celebrate family pride, diving into the emotional depth behind these tokens and the cultural expectations they defy. Imagine your partner consistently pursuing self-improvement and inspiring you along the way – that's the story Ashlee shares about her...

BTL Fam! We have yet, another debate. If you could eat something all day, do you prefer breakfast, lunch, or dinner? LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS! Before we jump in to what this episode is about. We have a newbie at the table! Help us welcome Alyssa Cano, she is the Kids Director at Abundant Living Family Church, a wife, a new mother and a woman of many talents! Now, let's jump in to what this episode is about! Sure, you've seen the viral dances, but have you considered TikTok as a serious...

What matters more when choosing a partner: someone you can build a life with or someone you are in love with? Have you ever questioned the recipe for a lasting marriage? Is it a pinch of love or a hefty scoop of practicality? We tackle this heart-centered debate head-on, challenging the conventional wisdom that suggests foundations of practicality might outweigh those of romance. We dissect this layered issue by reflecting on a provocative video that ignited our thoughts, and we weave in...

When Tye Tribbett stepped into the studio with The Breakfast Club, he didn't just bring his music; he brought a storm of introspection and bold challenges to the status quo of faith and fellowship. Our latest episode peels back the layers of this impactful conversation, exploring the nuances of personal pride, the complex dance between hip-hop and gospel, and the striking dichotomy between God and institutionalized religion. Discover how Tye Tribbet's shift from traditional church to online...

Have you ever felt your heart skip a beat when your partner's gaze lingered a little too long on someone else? It's that uncomfortable cocktail of emotions we unpack in our latest heart-to-heart, where we tackle the gritty realities of marriage, trust, and the dreaded wandering eye. Your stories have touched us deeply, stirring a frank discussion on managing the tightrope walk of finances, trust, and personal boundaries within relationships. We're here to offer a shoulder, an ear, and our own...

Hey BTL Fam! For the first time joining us at the table, the man behind the scenes, help us welcome, Phil Cota!! Phil is one of Adam's closest friends and he sits with us as he shares the landscapes of past identities, near-death experiences, and the embrace of a higher purpose. We weave through stories of personal evolution where the unruly threads of previous lives entangle with the golden strands of redemption and faith. Witness the metamorphosis of individuals from gang affiliates to...

Embarking on the quest for love can often feel like navigating a maze without a map, but fear not, for we've got some light to help guide the way! Adam and Ashlee open their hearts, discussing the intricate dance of Christian dating—a journey where 'game' takes on a new, more genuine form. They tackle the myths and truths about confidence and courtship, all while reflecting on the thoughtful strategies and faith-led boundaries Adam embraced in the pursuit of his now-wife, Ashlee. It's a...

Have you ever read something in the bible that did not make sense at all?? If your answer was yes, don't worry, you're not alone. We have Pastor Will, Pastor Aaron and Pastor Adam who dive into an invaluable conversation about engaging with the Bible in ways that transform routine reading into a life-altering practice. In this episode discover how simple strategies and innovative tools like the Street Lights Bible app can change your scriptural experience, regardless of where you are on your...

Ever found yourself reaching for the check at dinner, only to be met with a mix of gratitude and awkwardness?Adam and Ashlee open up about the delicate dance of generosity in our latest episode, where we tackle everything from dating faux pas to the intricate balance of giving without overstepping. Our conversation is a blend of humor and insight that takes you through the giving game, with stories of secret birthday meal payments and the silent 'dance' of bill-paying among friends that will...

Ever wonder how the first rays of morning sunlight influence your outfit choice or why stepping out with confidence can change your whole day? We've got you covered in today's spirited discussion with Adam, Jermaine, Gabe and Nancy, where we unwrap the charm and challenges of daily grooming, the impact of light quality on dressing, and the importance of feeling self-assured. Together, we navigate the nuances of color analysis, delve into the evolution of personal style, and share amusing...

Money matters in marriage. The conversation of finances in marriage can be thorny, but we're here to guide you and your partner to financial harmony, sharing the wisdom of real-life couple Nathan and Sanaz along with the insights from Adam and Ashlee. They open up about strategies that have strengthened their financial unity, tackling everything from joint and separate accounts to the nuances of prenuptial agreements. Get ready to enrich your relationship with the kind of fiscal clarity that...

This week Adam is joined by women in leadership! Have you ever found yourself mulling over the intricate dance between tradition and modernity in church leadership, especially when it comes to women's roles? We've convened a remarkable panel, including Ashlee Mesa, Sanaz Mesa, Kimberly Henderson and Erica Levy, to shed light on this nuanced topic. From the pulpit to the pews, we grapple with scriptural interpretations and the complexities of maintaining the core truths of Christianity...

Can our hearts truly be split between two loves, or is it a battle against our own desires? This episode wades into the deep waters of romantic love, tackling the question of whether it's feasible to harbor feelings for multiple partners simultaneously. We dissect the Greek philosophies of love, reflect on the ethical and moral implications, and consider the Christian stance on commitment and covenant. These discussions bring to light the intricate dance between love, emotion, and the...

BTL Fam, we have ANOTHER debate. MAY THE BEST ONE WIN! WHAT IS THE BEST FAST FOOD SPOT? In n Out or Chick fil A? Now it's time to strap on your tech goggles and step into the future with us! We're not just talking about the kind of AR that turns your living room into a dinosaur park; we're envisioning a world where augmented reality blends seamlessly into our spiritual lives and daily chats. Adam shares his personal escapades with AR glasses and muse on how they might one day make us...

GET YOUR TISSUES READY!! Adam does something so sweet for Ashlee that brings tears to our eyes! Join us as Adam and Ashlee extend a heartfelt thank you to all our supporters who have embraced our journey in portraying the often uncelebrated aspects of a healthy marriage. We kick off with a touching listener message that applauds our depiction of a strong, functional union, which leads us to reflect on the significance of mutual respect and its influence on leadership within the home and...

BTL Fam, we need to settle a very serious matter and we need YOUR help. Please cast your votes in the comments. WHAT IS THE BEST ICE CREAM? rainbow sherbet ice cream OR pistachio-nut ice cream? MAY THE BEST ICE CREAM WIN! Besides this fun little debate, we delve into the intriguing world of entrepreneurship and the challenges of balancing multiple endeavors. We have our wonderful guests Gage Henderson and Alize Robinson join Aaron levy and Adam at the table! They each share their...

When love, academia, and faith intertwine, the journey can be as unpredictable as it is enriching. Join us as we sit down with Will Chung and his wife, Andrea Chung —she's a PhD and he's the 'doctorate dropout' with a sharp wit. Together, they navigate the complex dance of entrepreneurship, family life, and ministry. Their candid tales reach from the halls of higher education to the heartwarming chaos of parenting toddlers. They let us in on their secret sauce for a thriving...

Join us in this soul-stirring episode where we delve into the significance of Lent and its transformative power on personal spirituality and church vitality. Our discussion begins with reflections on the Lenten period, sharing insights into various fasting practices and the successful implementation of a Bible reading plan initiative. Witness the excitement as we prepare for Holy Week and the invigorating effect it has on our congregation. Listen to personal stories that showcase the...

We have the dynamic duo back on the pod! Grab your tea or coffee and strap in because this episode was a GOOD one... Pastor Adam and Ashlee were joined by Pastor Aaron and his wife Erica Levy for a RIVETING conversation on the unique dynamics in blended families and navigating the territory between biological and non-biological kids, and the real talk about transparency as relationships evolve. They didn't hold back with personal stories about blended families and the reality of bringing a...

What was the Christian Club REALLY like? Nancy shares her reflections on a recent Christian club night that, igniting conversations and bringing a fresh perspective on Christian nightlife. As we navigate through the conversation, we probe the scarcity of 'third places' in America, the financial hurdles young adults face, like student loan debts, and the comedy and complexity of Christian mixers. Whether it's DJ versus MC banter or exploring how unconventional spaces like pickleball courts...

Can selfies on social media impact your marriage? On this episode, Pastor Adam and Ashlee explore the delicate balance between our digital and personal interactions. We tackle the pressing issues of privacy, oversharing, and the pursuit of external approval. Further discussion leads to how cultural conditioning can drive women to seek validation through their appearance and the implications this has on their behavior online. Whether you're looking to foster healthier relationships, seek a...

Embark with us as we traverse the realms where faith and entrepreneurship richly converge. Lee and Harrison Domingue, our cherished guests, impart wisdom on the transformative power of risk-taking, the nurturing of a growth mindset, and the profound lessons learned through failure. We delve into the essence of legacy and the choices that sculpt it, as Pastor Lee shares his insights on the fine line between personal gain and a life lived for the betterment of others. Fatherhood is a dance of...

BEYOND I DO, EPISODE 17! Does 'the one' exist? How does a first date actually affect the projection of your relationship? As a believer, finding the balance between the heart's desires and the guiding principles of the Bible can be a delicate dance, and we're here to help you find your rhythm. Pastor Adam and Ashlee also confront the often difficult subject of compromise within relationships, which sparked from a message by a faithful listener who wrote in about a partner who shies away...

Discovering that our podcast reaches the hearts of baby boomers through the digital waves left us awestruck; their stories of connection through our episodes remind us of the unifying power of shared experiences. We never anticipated such a rich tapestry of listeners – spanning generations – would find resonance with our discussions on the importance of kindness and the role of judgment within our communities. This episode offers a rare glimpse into the diverse audience we serve, and the...