If you're all too familiar with the disappearing act, this is the episode for you. The sooner you understand it you can avoid getting into these situations, and find some lovely kinky matches who are in it for the long haul. Relevant Episode Mentioned: Episode 8: "4 Ways to Meet Kinksters IRL" ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

Some reasons why kink events might be right for you, a simple way to gauge whether or not you should go to an event, and why I haven't been attending kink events lately as a mentor in the community 😲 Relevant Episode Mentioned: Ep 22 "Finding Community in Kink: Overcoming Fears & Embracing the Kink Community" ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

Let's talk about what happens when serving and sacrificing within a BDSM dynamic can tip-toe into sabotage. How to identify it, what to do about it, and how to find these boundaries for yourself to be the best hecking sub you can be (by taking care of yourself first and foremost). 🔮 Grab your limited time kinky oracle reading Free resources mentioned: 💖 Kink Shame Healing oracle reading 🧰 Tech Toolbox for Kinky Entrepreneurs

SOOO let's talk about the less obvious ways that kink-shaming is 100% affecting your life as a kinkster and what we can actually do about it. I'll also share with you how to flip the script to own and accept your desires + an AMAZING free resource I've made for you to continue your healing journey. ✨ Free Kink Shame Healing Oracle Reading Work with Emma: Private Kinky Oracle Reading 1:1 Kink Mentorship Kinky Dating Course Connect on Instagram @kinkybestie

From the practicality of protecting your identity to the powerful manifestation tool they can become, I share my personal journey of choosing my scene name and how it has impacted my kink journey and beyond. Whether you're considering adopting a scene name or curious about their significance within the community, my insights and tips will leave you inspired and empowered to explore your own kinky identity

Time to dive into the world of dating through the lens of neurodivergence kink mentor. As someone with ADHD and a unique perspective on social interactions, I share my personal experiences and insights on navigating the dating scene when processing things takes a little longer. Whether you're neurodivergent yourself or simply curious about different approaches to dating, join me as I offer tips, anecdotes, and mindset shifts to help you feel more confident in your connections.

Dive into the energetics of manifesting your ideal dominant partner with Emma, your kinky bestie and seasoned kink mentor. In this episode, Emma shares her personal manifestation journey, offering insights, mindset shifts, and practical steps to help you attract your dream dominant. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, Emma's stories and strategies will inspire and empower you on your own path to finding confidence and fulfillment in your kinky relationships.

Ready for some quick and easy hacks to make your deepest desires a normal, everyday part of your life? In this bite-sized episode, I tackle the self-sabotage and resistance that may be keeping your kinkiest goals at arm's length. I spill my two favorite tricks: first, surround yourself with people living your dream; second, adopt my go-to affirmation – "This is my life now!" 🎙️✨ Normalizing and neutralizing those desires is the key to manifesting them effortlessly. So, if you're ready to make...

Lets talk about turning those desires into tangible goals. Ever wondered why verbalizing your desires is such a game-changer? In this episode, I unravel the power of clarity that comes with putting your intentions into words. Whether it's journaling, updating your dating profile, or casually sharing with friends, the act of verbalizing is like casting a spell of clarity into your world. But wait, there's more! We also tackle the crucial next step – how to go beyond the talk and start walking...

In this episode, we're delving into the fascinating world of kinky desires and why it's crucial to not only acknowledge them but also take bold steps towards making them a reality. From the origin of desires as divine guidance to the ripple effect they can have on your life and the larger kink community, we're uncovering the layers of importance. Using my own journey in starting a kink mentorship business as an example, we explore the resistance, confusion, and ultimate empowerment that comes...

Welcome back to the second part of the Kinky Dating Q+A series! In this one I respond to 5 reasons kinksters gave about feeling stuck in their kinky dating journey. These q’s were a bit more loaded so I could only fit in half the amount of answers here, but each answer is still under 3 minutes so still super practical/simple shifts. So whether you’re navigating the challenges of dating apps, managing chronic illness while seeking connection, dating when you're still living with your parents…...

10 brave kinksters (over on Instagram) shared the reasons they’re feeling stuck with kinky dating: “What if my kinks are too strange?” “It’s hard to find kinky partners where I live” “I can’t find a safe space to talk to others about my kinks.” Even plain old FEAR! I hope this episode alone helps you to get un-stuck and make some simple mindset shifts, tweak your approach, or even just inspires you to know that 10 other kinksters exist and are struggling through this, too. If this helps...

In this spicy episode, we're diving into the wild world of being a kink mentor with ADHD in the entrepreneurial game. We will be talking about rejection sensitivity, adapting to kink taboos, and the wild ride of running a business as an ADHD person. We spill the tea on setting up systems, handling rejection like a boss, and the unexpected challenges of bringing kink to the business forefront. Whether you're kinky, ADHD, or just curious about entrepreneurship, you're in for a treat! Get...

In this intimate episode of "Calls with Your Kinky Bestie," meet my Dom and listen in on our candid conversation about our journey into kink and love. From discussing how we met on a vanilla dating app to exploring the dynamics of dominance and submission, this episode dives deep into the complexities of building a kinky relationship from scratch. Get ready for laughs, insights, and some major love 💖 gushy stuff! Kinkybestie.com/mentorship --- Send in a voice message:...

Diving into a topic close to my heart: collars, ADHD, and sensory sensitivities. As someone navigating the kink community with ADHD, I'm here to share my experiences and insights on how sensory sensitivities have shaped my relationship with collars and other kink accessories. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just starting out, this episode offers a relatable perspective on finding your place in the BDSM world while embracing your unique needs and preferences!...

🚨 Win 1 month of FREE Kink Mentorship! Contest ends 1/31/24, apply here: ⁠Kinkybestie.com/links Let's talk about shame ONTOP of your self-discovery as a neurodivergent kinkster. How to navigate existing in the "in-between" of 2 communities, and setting boundaries around kink-shaming comments when part of your circle just doesn't get it. Further listening for this episode:...

🚨 Win 1 month of FREE Kink Mentorship! Contest ends 1/31/24, apply here: Kinkybestie.com/links It's about time we talked about "Fake Doms", so here's what to expect in this episode: 💖 The good intentions of this term, why it's used and what it means. 💖 How using this term can be problematic, and even harmful/confusing. (Especially for those in the neurodivergent sector of the kink community, like me!) 💖 What language we can use instead to address poor behavior in the kink community!...

Bestie, this is your year. Your year to be the kinkiest you that you want, to feel comfortable in your desires and your needs, and to be loved and accepted for ALL that means. Signup for the bestie buzz newsletter to join me in this outrageous endeavor: https://kinkybestie.ck.page/7491672830 Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me: Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorship Submit a question for me to answer in a future episode:...

Happy holidays, besties! 🎄🎁 This Christmas, I've got a special gift for you - the second part of our dive into the reasons you don't feel kinky enough. Ever wondered why those desires seem distant? Well, today, I'm your kinky Santa Claus, revealing my ENTIRE personal process to create my dream kinky life. In this episode, we'll unpack the philosophy of "use a bridge, not boots," exploring why trudging through the mud isn't always necessary.Sign up for the upcoming course before December 31...

OMG Bestie, HI! Here's what you can expect from today's episode:✨ The 2 most common reasons you don't feel "kinky enough". If you're like me you may even relate to both at different parts of your kink journey.✨ Validation that you ARE kinky enough, DUH!✨ How the f**k to stop feeling like this, and live your dream kinky life instead.Signup for the course before December 31 kinkybestie.com/links Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me: Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with...

The tea has been SPLIT! I share about my personal kink journey, from the innocent days of literotica exploration to fetlife, internalized religious shame, and where I stand now as a kinkster. This episode is a rollercoaster of self-discovery rollercoaster 🎢, offering insights, cautionary tales, and a whole lot of encouragement for those on their own kink journey. Get ready for a candid chat that explores the highs, lows, and unexpected turns on the winding road of kinky livin'. Show...

Today we're chatting about sleep and how the f**k to sleep with ADHD when your favorite kinky activities take place in the same room. From separating your sleep sanctuary to managing sex toys and creating a plush bedtime haven (fit with smart devices to boot), we're unraveling the secrets to blissful sleep with ADHD in the mix. Discover why a dedicated sleep space is your ticket to dreamland and how to keep those sexy toys tucked away when it's time for some serious Zzzs. Plus, get pro tips...

As a mentor for submissives with ADHD, this is a question I get asked a lot. Today I'm answering this once and for all! I'm also celebrating Spotify wrapped season with a special limited time giveaway of my not-even-out-yet upcoming course (which includes private 1:1 mentorship with me!) Get in touch on Instagram @kinkybestie, or email me your listenership or review screenshot [email protected] Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me: Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with...

Hey there, my kinky besties! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of service submission, with a twist for those who might be dealing with ADHD or consistency challenges. I'm here to help you eliminate, automate, systemize, batch, and delegate tasks, both in your personal life and your service submission journey. Whether you're taking off your Dom's shoes or exploring the wonders of robot vacuums, we're going to make more time and space for your kink desires. Let's get efficient,...