Episodes
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Life after being cut from dance squadTalking to some a guy of a guy you previously datedTelling a friend you aren't going to their wedding in HawaiiParents being upset over something seemingly smallDon't Blame Them: Returning to working in an office Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 08/15/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Returning to working in an officeFriend not supporting your moveMental health and hybrid workingSupporting your boyfriend who hasn't finished high schoolDon't Blame Them: Compulsory Heterosexuality Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 08/08/22
Published 08/08/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Write-In Update: Boyfriend was rude because I forgot that I was going to help him moveIf you're being love bombedBoyfriend won't claim his independence from his parentsWondering if you're in love with your partnerTelling a friend they're too touchyDon't Blame Them: My Best Friend's Dad Wants to Sleep With Me Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show:...
Published 08/01/22
After discussing weddings, Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Boyfriend was rude because I forgot that I was going to help him moveGirlfriend broke up with me while she was in ItalyFriend didn’t show up to bridal showerDBT: Working with an assistant who acts like your superiorDBT: Not having your ideal job after graduating college Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show:...
Published 07/25/22
After discussing Love Island, Meghan and Melisa give advice on: They give advice on: Update: Peeing Bride - Part IIWorking with an assistant who acts like your superiorNot having your ideal job after graduating collegeFriend dramatizing their painOffered $200 for sex with your friend's dadDon't Blame Them: Boyfriend feels entitled to your body Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show:...
Published 07/18/22
After discussing Wikifeet and their net worths, Meghan and Melisa then read a write-in update from the person whose boyfriend's friends wrote a slur on his birthday cake. They give advice on: Being good houseguestsHaving a new relationship with your exSetting boundariesBoyfriend not driving you to the airportDon't Blame Them: Independence of moving to a new city without a relationship  Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show:...
Published 07/11/22
Meghan and Melisa are back together, in person, celebrating their 10th season of Don't Blame Me! The give advice on: Update: Crushing on your grad school cohortMoving in with your boyfriend but feeling behind your other friends that are in relationshipsHaving a strained relationship with your motherFriend keeps dating creepsBoyfriend's touch is overwhelmingDon't Blame Them: Wanting your partner to uproot their life because of a work opportunity Subscribe to our new show:...
Published 07/04/22
Meghan and Melisa have a rousing conversation about Dora The Explorer, Gracie's Corner, Blippi and Freaky Friday before giving advice on Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Being more invested in a friendship than your friend isBoyfriend making excuses for his friends that use homophobic slursA f*****y claiming you gave him chlamydiaYour 21 year old friend hanging out with a 35 years manDon't Blame Them: Traveling to Hawaii and being frustrated with your boyfriend who has a fear of flying,...
Published 06/27/22
Update: Sparks in a relationship Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Working on yourself while keeping 2 guys on holdUnblocking and re-following an ex on social mediaWaiting to get in a fight with your partnerCatching your boyfriend googling sex workersDon't Blame Them: FOMOBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 06/20/22
Update: Breaking while still on a lease Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Boyfriend refuses to move out of the countryNeeding a terrible job for graduate schoolTraveling with a boyfriend that doesn't like flyingBreaking up after a long distance relationshipDon't Blame Them: Wedding tips Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 06/13/22
We’ve been gone for two weeks, but we’re back and very chatty, so this is a long one.  Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Moving on from a long term relationshipHow to be an actorFamily not dealing with familial issuesDon't Blame Them: Dealing with an overbearing “mentor”Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 06/06/22
Original Air Date 11/2/2022 This week we're sharing advice on:    Work woesChoosing between two guysChoosing a therapistUpdate: Boyfriend cheating in many ways  Call Transcriptions   Follow Us! @meghanrienks  www.instagram.com/meghanrienks  https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa  www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa     Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of...
Published 05/30/22
Original Air Date: July 8, 2019 This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to hang out with you family, negotiating your sugar baby status, returning to normalcy after a break up, and having compassion for your sociopath brother. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on being scared that you’re going to get pregnant. Check out our Patreon Community - https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us! @meghanrienks...
Published 05/23/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Crushing on a coworkerFOMOBoyfriend's mother being judgmental Accusations from a former friendDon't Blame Them: Spark in a relationshipBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 05/16/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Overstepping mentorInconsiderate roommateChemistry in relationshipsHelping a friend in a terrible relationshipDon't Blame Them: Dealing with nosey parents Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 05/09/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Racist/House Stealing/Succubus CheaterFriend constantly canceling plansWarning a client about MLMsGoing to a music festival with someone who hates music festivalsShopping AddictionDon't Blame Them: Converting religions for a partnerBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 05/02/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: The Bride Peed on MeBrother-In-Laws's girlfriend doesn't like meNot wanting to work anymoreTexts from former Fellowship of Christian Athletes leaderNot going to friend's weddingDon't Blame Them: Possible misgendering Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 04/25/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Making a mistake in a relationshipConverting to your partner's religionFear and anxiety from medical traumaNot living up to the bride's expectationsDon't Blame Them: Advice for the insecure bottomBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 04/18/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Dealing with your controlling parentsDeveloping feeling for someone who just wants a physical relationshipCommunicating with a friend that has been unresponsiveResearching your sister-in-law's counselorDon't Blame Them: Getting over being dumpedBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 04/11/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Finding a Only Fans statementGetting over someone that love bombed youSpending time with your partnerTalking about sex with your friendsDon't Blame Them: Not dating in collegeBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 04/04/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Balancing school and social lifeNot speaking to your aunt againLonging for you exBreaking up with a partner you live withDon’t Blame Them: Meeting immigrant parents Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 03/28/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Friend lied about getting tested for CovidSharing drunk videos with boyfriend that does drinkUsing dating apps as a parentLong distant boyfriend has a friend that's too friendlyPartner keeping secretsDon’t Blame Them: Queer people meeting friends on dating appsBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 03/21/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Getting over a terrible breakIncompetent co-workerUnprepared for dating in the real worldHusband and his mother saying the wrong nameNot swallowingDon’t Blame Them: Age gap relationshipsBuy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 03/14/22
Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Parting ways with childhood best friendBamboozled by internet friendUsing dating apps to find friendsKicking roommates outTrusting a friend with different political beliefsDon’t Blame Them: Socializing while sober  Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow...
Published 03/07/22