Episodes
This is a recording of a live workshop I did called Inner Badass. It was a Fear Workshop to transform anxiety, harness self-doubt, and cultivate resilience to live unapologetically and chase your wildest dreams. And it was pretty popular, so I thought I would share it with you here. In this episode, I share: Powerful techniques to regulate your nervous system and keep fear in check, so it doesn't rule your life.How to build a resilient mindset that turns fear into fuel for growth and helps...
Published 05/09/23
Published 05/09/23
Our brains are so damn clever - and they're really good at hiding our anxiety and overthinking... One of the best things I’ve ever done for my mental health was identifying when my anxiety brain is doing the talking. You see, our anxiety is generally built upon thought patterns that run on autoplay and aren’t our true thoughts. The more you can recognize it, the easier it is to shift the pattern. Similarly, our behaviors can shift in subtle, sneaky ways when anxiety is creeping back into...
Published 05/03/23
Lacking discipline and willpower? Join the club! Perhaps the reason you're not going after what you want has little to do with discipline and a lot more to do with how you're taking care of yourself. And more specifically, how you're taking care of your nervous system.  This is what I'm sharing today, the importance of taking care of your nervous system, followed by the steps to go after what you want: Get clear on what you desire and make sure it's aligned on a soul level.Sit with your...
Published 04/04/23
Doubting myself used to be the daily ritual that blocked me from going after so many things I desired - through procrastination, overthinking, or just straight-up ignoring what I wanted (because it felt easier). Today, I'm sharing how I shifted from insecurity to being an advocate for self-belief. As we dive into the topic of self-doubt, I share: Ways self-doubt might be showing up for you (sometimes, it's sneaky)Releasing the judgment around personal fearsWhat to do when self-doubt comes...
Published 03/14/23
Is it possible to stay friends with your ex? What about running a business with your ex? Whelp, that's what Connor and I have been doing for the last few years, and don't plan on changing that any time soon. In this episode, we share how we transformed our relationship from romantic to the loving friendship and supportive partnership we have now. We are still committed to our relationship - it just looks really different now. Some of the topics we discuss: Starting a business together and...
Published 03/07/23
We all want to feel more joy and happiness in our lives, but it seems to be fleeting or intangible. My guest today is sharing exactly how we can enjoy greater levels of joy on a daily basis! Laura Isabella Machny is a Spiritual Life Coach, Tantra Teacher, Reiki Energy Healer, and Joy Goddess helping spiritually awakening women step into their own innate power, self-love, and pleasure so that they can gain momentum and achieve what they want in love and life.  Her bigger mission is to help...
Published 02/21/23
In honor of Valentine's Day, I'm sharing some of the big lessons I've learned in the last decade of dating, including all the ways I used to get it wrong. As an anxious attachment type, I would do crazy things while dating - putting on lots of masks, over-giving with serious mom energy, and clinging to those I slept with. It wasn't pretty, but the worst part was my lack of communication and awareness of my own needs and desires while dating. Now, after years of working on my anxiety and...
Published 02/14/23
We all want loving relationships, but it turns out, few of us learned healthy relationship tools as we grew up. My guest today, Eri Kardos, is the founder and lead coach of Relearn Love, LLC. Eri's specialty is helping people elevate their relationships for deeper, more intimate, and fulfilling connections. Her science and somatic-based methods spark old and new passion, take you to new places of intimacy, and melt away the patterns of conflict. She helps you learn new ways to communicate...
Published 02/07/23
What if you didn’t feel you needed a vacation from your life? But you could wake up each day and love the world you’ve created for yourself. That’s a fully lived life! My guest today is Jaymin J Patel, a Growth Coach & Soul Mentor for High-Achievers. Jaymin's mission is to help soul-aligned leaders unlock their Greatest Achievement Potential, experience the highest levels of freedom & truth, and easefully expand into even more abundance in health, wealth, & love... ...without...
Published 01/31/23
January is all about setting new intentions and a bunch of epic goals for you to dominate throughout the year! Are you with me?! Or... maybe not? The obsession with big goals and crushing them can feel motivating, but what we forget about is the burnout, inner judgment, and pressure we can feel to complete our goals simply because we "should." It's not always very healthy. So I have a secret for setting goals in a way that not only honors the fact that you're a multi-dimensional being who...
Published 01/24/23
2022 was a heavy year for me, which deeper layers of work with my badass therapist. In this episode, I wanted to share some of the big lessons I learned with my therapist last year in the hopes that you hear that you also find helpful or connect with. I love having transparent conversations about therapy with friends – and you’re my friend – so welcome to the fun. The major lessons I share today relate to: The connection of my daily anxiety to the church trauma I experienced as a childMy...
Published 01/17/23
Do you ever feel like the mindset work you're doing to change your beliefs, especially around money, doesn't seem to be doing anything? Our guest today shares about the importance of supporting the body with nervous system care in order to create internal safety. Hadley Hagen is a nervous system educator and money coach. She cares profoundly about the connection between money and the nervous system and believes that without an understanding of how the nervous system works, you can’t make...
Published 01/10/23
My guest today dives right into the usually stigmatized conversation around porn and other digital addictions. More importantly, he shares how to change our behavior towards a happier, more fulfilling life. Jeremy Lipkowitz is an executive life coach, a mindfulness trainer, and a former Buddhist monk. Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgment, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation and Buddhist philosophy. This helped him let go of destructive...
Published 01/03/23
Hey human, today's episode is an easy reminder that it's sometimes better to take things really easy and coast through life. I looked at the start of December and realized I had two options: I could fight to the "finish line" and hustle my way to big goals closing out 2022. Or I could listen to the gentle nudging of my soul to slow TF down, recalibrate, and do the bare minimum the rest of the year. I'm coasting, baby. Tune in to learn why. I'd LOVE to connect with you! Message me on...
Published 12/07/22
There is nothing more powerful than a woman awakened in her sexuality. Today's guest knows all about that! Arja Hendrikx is a Tantric Sexuality Teacher and Speaker who teaches you how to move from ordinary sex into extraordinary lovemaking. She educates women on how to unleash their sexuality and have a deeper connection to themselves in the process. Arja shares her story of overcoming her own shame in the bedroom and the common themes that keep us from enjoying intimacy. More importantly,...
Published 11/29/22
The number one thing that will jet-set your career or business? Personal leadership. Personal leadership is about taking charge of your own life, awareness of your faults, and expanding on your strengths. Kate Walker is a human resources expert and renowned thought leader on leadership, business results, team dynamics, and mindset. Through her work, she empowers business professionals to design businesses, teams, and people processes that positively impact their professional success in a way...
Published 11/16/22
Being single can be a lonely and sad experience... but also one filled with so much joy and freedom. Sometimes, having both extreme emotions about it within a single day (or five minutes). In this episode, I reflect on some of the things I learned in different experiences of loneliness, both in and out of relationships. I find it so important to recognize that you aren't alone in whatever feelings you might be having. Here are some of the ways I cope with loneliness: I allow myself to fully...
Published 11/07/22
As beings with a deep desire to control everything, ultimate surrender can be a big challenge. Today’s guest, Kute Blackson, shares his personal story about letting go and offers a new outlook on how we can surrender to allow for more freedom, purpose, and  Kute is a beloved inspirational speaker and transformational teacher. He speaks at countless events he organizes around the world as well as at outside events including A-Fest, YPO (Young Presidents’ Organization), and EO (Entrepreneurs’...
Published 11/02/22
Enneagram is a powerful personality tool to help you better understand yourself and your patterns. Our guest today has a unique take on how we can best use this tool for your personal healing. Sarajane Case is a trained Enneagram teacher, author of the popular self-help book The Honest Enneagram, and Host of the Enneagram & Coffee Podcast.  She helps people to find their perfect balance between self-care and growth so they can release shame on their path to doing less harm. In this...
Published 10/25/22
How much time I spend on my phone is generally a big indicator of my mental health. When I'm not feeling calm and centered in my nervous system, I tend to sway back and forth between my overdoing, overworking, and overthinking mode... and doing nothing but checking my phone and numbing out. This amped up again this year, so I've been working to reduce my phone addiction over the last six months. I'm sharing some of what's helped me, including: App blockers and deleting apps from my phone...
Published 10/18/22
The pathway to your dream job (and life) is one built on trust.  Amanda Pointer shares her fascinating story of becoming a full-time digital nomad. After a couple of years of "getting by," she landed her dream job: the Director of Content for a travel blog called Two Wandering Souls. She continues to travel full-time while learning to balance self-care, friendships, and the mental health challenges that continue to surface along the way. In this episode, we discuss: Life as a digital...
Published 10/11/22
You want your life to look different... but somehow, you end up on the same path, day after day. What gives?! Our guest today has some ideas about how to step out of this loop, find purpose in your life, and experience true freedom. Laurel Van Woerkom is one of my dear coven sisters, a fellow digital nomad, and a badass Life Liberator. She is a life and well-being coach who specializes in helping clients overcome burnout to build a life of balance and purpose. In today's world so many of us...
Published 10/04/22
I'm baaaaack. After a very human couple (or four) months off, we're back with Season 5 - and some shiny new artwork to go along with it. In today's episode, I'm giving you an update on my story and what's shifted over the nearly four years that have passed since I recorded episode one. A lot has changed, but one thing is certainly the same - I'm still Human AF. And proud. I'm reminding you that we can be badass, amazing people who are growing and evolving... and still trip and fumble. We...
Published 09/28/22
I openly joke about my tendency to "lay things down at God/Universe's feet... only to pick it back up again." Do you relate to this? Over the last five years, I've focused so much energy on building faith in myself and trusting my own mind, abilities, and humanness. In the process, I pulled further away from believing in anything else. Trust the Universe? Nope, I'll just work harder and do more, thank you. And that's no longer working for me. So this year, I'm focusing my word of the year...
Published 04/19/22