EPISODE SUMMARY Ladies… take a good look at your love life.  Are you holding back?  Less satisfied in the bedroom? Worried your sex drive will never come back? Trust me, I know these topics can be hard to talk about.  But opening up about sex with your partner can be a complete game-changer for your relationship.  Married couple Vanessa and Xander Marin join me today to help YOU uncover what’s holding you back in your relationship.  You’ll learn exactly how to feel a deeper connection to your partner. PLUS you’ll get tons of tips for feeling more confident and pleasured in– and out– of the bedroom.  Don’t miss this podcast– especially before Valentine’s Day! It’s the perfect time to strengthen your relationship and amp up your love life for the long term.  Vanessa and Xander Marin Vanessa & Xander Marin are New York Times best-selling authors who wrote Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. Vanessa is a sex therapist with 20 years of experience. And with Xander– the hilarious couple makes a dream team. They’re shockingly open and slightly nerdy, and they’ll feel like your new besties in no time. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving step-by-step techniques for improving yours. IN THIS EPISODE How Vanessa got started as a sex therapist  Common reasons couples don’t have the sex life they want Declining sex drive in long-term relationships Communication and connection with your partner  The 2 different types of sex drive and what they mean  Dealing with mismatched sex drives in a relationship  Different needs for male vs. female orgasms  All about Vanessa & Xander’s resources for YOUR sex life!  RESOURCES MENTIONED Vanessa & Xander’s Website Get 40% off The Sweet or Spicy Challenge HERE Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life Online Courses & Guides  Get Freebies from Vanessa & Xander Here!  Vanessa & Xander’s Instagram Pillow Talks Podcast RELATED EPISODES  #540: WHY SOCIAL CONNECTION IS CRITICAL TO LONGEVITY AND HOW TO INFUSION MORE JOY INTO YOUR DAILY HEALTH PRACTICES WITH COLLEEN AND JASON WACHOB #45: REGENERATING YOUR SEXUAL HEALTH WITH THE SEXUAL SOULMATE PACT WITH SUSAN BRATTON #37: 5 WAYS TO REV UP YOUR SEX DRIVE WITH ESSENTIAL OILS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices