Episodes
October's general conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints was full of eternal truths AND eternal warrior principles (because eternal warrior principles are grounded in eternal truth). Rob and Lloyd take time to discuss a few of the favorite and most meaningful things they learned from conference and how applying them will help us be more of the father we want to be. Rob also takes a moment to say a few parting words as he has to step away from podcast responsibilities...
Published 11/11/21
Published 11/11/21
Prayer is one of the most fundamental things we do in the gospel and in life, but many of us still struggle with it in some shape or form. Rob and Lloyd take some time to share things they have used and ideas they have to make our prayers more powerful, with the ultimate goal of being able to connect with our Father in Heaven so He can direct us to become the fathers we desire to be. One idea they discuss is the concept of a "warrior's prayer." A lot of good information and suggestions can...
Published 10/06/21
We all have at least one thing we need to work on to improve ourselves, but sometimes we don't know where to begin. Rob and Lloyd share some things they learned when they recently attended a fireside given by Maurice Harker, founder of Life Changing Services, where Maurice teaches us as parents how we can use the "Discover, Plan, Act, Reflect" tool (or DPAR) to work on that "one thing." This is a great tool shared with us from our prophet and leaders found in the Children and Youth program in...
Published 09/15/21
Summer vacations and having your children out of school may have messed with your routine. Your goals may have taken a hit. Rob and Lloyd experienced it. They discuss their challenges they've had in staying focused in the recent past and discuss what can be done to help each of us as fathers get back on track. For more detailed information on MAN PWR goals and other principles of self-mastery they discuss, you can get a free copy of the book "Like Dragons Did They Fight" here. You can also...
Published 08/25/21
Everyone needs a good support system but because we are strong, or at least try to appear that way when we are not feeling it, sometimes we--especially men--don't admit that help is exactly what we need in the moment. Rob and Lloyd have a great conversation with Ben Smith, clinician at Life Changing Services, discussing the importance of having a good team of supportive, helpful people in your life. Ben tells how he decided on his "Board of Directors" when he needed help overcoming his own...
Published 08/11/21
There is one attribute all fathers--indeed, all people--should develop that doesn't get talked about much and when it does it's often misunderstood. Rob and Lloyd discuss why becoming more meek is so important in our relationship with our family especially, but in all of our relationships generally. They do so with the help of talks from Elders Neal A. Maxwell and David A. Bednar. Rob shares a story about Brigham Young and Joseph Smith that can be found in this address. Rob and Lloyd were...
Published 07/07/21
Rob and Lloyd discuss the importance of determining Heavenly Father's will when it comes to being the type of father He wants and needs you to be. They do so with a little help from this talk by Elder Neal A. Maxwell. You can also get help in your parenting by visiting lifechangingservices.org and discovering the many programs we have to offer. Let us know what you think of the podcast by leaving a review and rating, or by clicking the link below. --- Send in a voice message:...
Published 06/23/21
Rob and Lloyd have the good fortune of talking with Wes and Spenny, hosts of The Eternal Warrior Podcast, and all-around great guys. With Father's Day approaching they take the opportunity to talk about what great men their fathers are, what role their fathers played in their recovery from pornography addiction, and what they themselves plan to do as future fathers to help their children succeed. All along the way it's great advice for any father and a fun--and touching--episode. If you...
Published 06/09/21
You are powerful, you just may not know it yet. One thing that can help you claim your power is setting and accomplishing personal goals, especially those that can help you connect to your Ultimate Source of Power--God. Rob and Lloyd discuss MAN PWR--what it is and how to set goals to help you win your challenging personal battles. Click here for a free copy of the MAN PWR calendar to help get you started. If you would like more help, feel free to contact Rob and Lloyd at...
Published 05/26/21
Sometimes, in the righteous desire to help our children, we wrongly think we are the only ones who can. Using messages from then-Pres. Dieter F. Uchtdorf and Pres. Henry B. Eyring, Rob and Lloyd talk about the importance of trusting Heavenly Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ, to be able to do Their work, and that faith in Jesus Christ is the first principle of the gospel for a reason. Life Changing Services is now offering a Spiritual Psychology Masterclass to go more in-depth into...
Published 05/12/21
Rob and Lloyd take the opportunity to review a few talks from the April 2021 general conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, specifically parts that applied to fathers and things we can do to become better fathers. There were definitely some Eternal Warrior principles we heard over the pulpit! The talks they review are from Elder Thierry K. Mutombo, Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, Pres. Russell M. Nelson, and Sis. Joy D. Jones. If you would like more information on how...
Published 04/28/21
For men, feelings are not always fun to discuss, so Rob and Lloyd teach about a tool we fathers--and anyone--can use to help us recognize and deal with our feelings in an appropriate, healthy way. They also talk about how using this tool can help in recognizing Satan's lies and defeating them. The quote they use from Elder Bednar in this episode can be found in the talk "Quick to Observe." If you feel you and/or your family could use some personalized help in perfecting how to apply...
Published 04/15/21
Rob and Lloyd talk with Kellie Webster, mentor and author of the children's books "Rebecca's Trick" and "Alexander's Trick". She talks about how the books came to be and the importance of teaching our children and grandchildren which voices we can and cannot trust. She testifies that some of the voices we can trust come in the form of ancestors who act as guardian angels for us. You can pick up Kellie's books and other valuable materials from Life Changing Services here. Contact us at...
Published 03/31/21
Rob is solo for this episode and shares an experience he and his wife recently had with his son that made him rethink where the focus should be when teaching his children. Using teachings of leaders and members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Rob talks about how we can become better teachers of our children and hopefully influence them to change behaviors that may need changing. He uses quotes from the following talks/articles: Little Children The Home: The School of...
Published 03/24/21
Rob and Lloyd interview Jeremy, a courageous father who took the steps to rid his life of pornography. He has been free of it for over a year now and he talks about how he has done it, what he has learned in the process, and how his life has improved thanks to his success and efforts--and Heavenly Father's help. If you are a father enmeshed in the vicious web of pornography addiction, or know someone who is, please consider the Men of Moroni program, which has helped many men learn Eternal...
Published 03/11/21
Maurice Harker, founder of Life Changing Services joins Rob and Lloyd this week for the second part of their discussion on self-mastery and how to apply gospel principles to life and parenting so you can become an eternal warrior fighting for the good of your family. In this episode Maurice talks a lot about specific things fathers can do to be a good example to their sons, and later specifically addresses fathers who have sons recovering from addiction and how they can best support...
Published 03/04/21
Maurice Harker, founder of Life Changing Services joins Rob and Lloyd this week for the first part of their discussion on self-mastery and how to apply gospel principles to life and parenting so you can become an eternal warrior fighting for the good of your family. Maurice gives some good parenting "hacks," including the Positive Assumption Technique. Maurice is the author of "Like Dragons Did They Fight," a veritable handbook for spiritual and scientific principles to help with...
Published 02/25/21
The highest form of love is charity, and Rob and Lloyd explain what charity means to them, share experiences with charity, and talk about how important it is to develop it as a husband and father. To strengthen their points they use a few talks from general authorities past and present from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, including this one from Elder Jeffrey R. Holland and this one from Elder Hartman Rector Jr. If you could use some help strengthening or repairing your...
Published 02/18/21
Love is always important to give, not just around Valentine's Day. Rob and Lloyd talk about the importance of showing love to the women who make us fathers--our wives. They are our most essential teammates. If you currently happen to be in a marriage that is less than ideal, Life Changing Services can help. You can work together through the Lazarus Lectures, or individually in marriage repair workshops for men and women. Email us at [email protected] for questions...
Published 02/11/21
Rob and Lloyd discuss some things a father can do--and things he shouldn't do--to earn the respect of those most important to him: his wife and children. We rely heavily on this talk from Bishop H. Burke Peterson, former counselor in the Presiding Bishopric of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We also bring up this talk from Elder Jeffrey R. Holland about the quest for perfection. And here is the full quote we used toward the beginning of the episode. For more on the...
Published 02/04/21
Often when you do something with the intent to help others you end up benefiting just as much as, if not more than, those you set out to help. Such is the case with Justin, who talks with Rob and Lloyd about how he found the Eternal Warriors program, how he was hoping it would help him in his work with the youth in his ward (he currently serves as a bishop), and some of the ways it ended up helping him more than he expected. Click here to learn more about the Eternal Warriors...
Published 01/28/21
Do you find yourself being a little too passive sometimes when it comes to being a father? Or when you do fight, are you fighting the wrong enemy? Rob and Lloyd discuss what Warrior Chemistry is, how to access it, and how vital it is to direct it toward the correct enemy. (Hint: his name rhymes with "Payton.") For more information on Warrior Chemistry, get a free e-copy of "Like Dragons Did They Fight" by Maurice Harker. Or visit lifechangingservices.org for information on other...
Published 01/20/21
Fathers Who Fight is back, and to begin the new year Rob and Lloyd discuss the importance of recognizing why you are in the fight. Knowing why you are fighting can and should motivate what you do as a father. They also discuss why they are fighting, a question we should ask of ourselves often. Another good resource is this talk from then-Pres. Dieter F. Uchtdorf. Get a free e-copy of the book, "Like Dragons Did They Fight" here or purchase a paperback copy here. Visit...
Published 01/14/21
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Published 01/13/21