Bela Gandhi, dating coach and founder of Smart Dating Academy, joins us this week to answer your questions! Tune in to find out why she insists her clients do video dates before IRL dates, one of the steps in her tried and true method to help her clients find partnership, particularly later in life or after divorce. In Updates, Ali may have discovered a Bumble hack and a listener may have discovered a Hinge hack! Plus, tickets for our upcoming live shows on 1/20 in NYC and 3/21 in DC are on sale at findingmrheight.com/live. Where to find Bela: Website https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/ IG https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/ YT https://www.youtube.com/user/smartdatingacademy FB https://www.facebook.com/smartdatingacademy Timestamps: Bela joins us at around minute 20. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Have a scam to report? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 about your potential scam and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off. Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com.  Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Babbel: Get 55% off your Babbel subscription - only for our listeners - at Babbel.com/FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy