Ali & Erica welcome an OG of dating advice to the pod this week - Damona Hoffman, author of the new book “F The Fairytale” and host of the Dates & Mates podcast. We get into topics such as Damona’s best tips for dating mindset, how the online dating landscape has changed in her 15 years of coaching, and how race has played a role in her own dating life (and Ali weighs in too!). In Updates, Erica has a date that was set up by a listener - but will the long distance be too much? Meanwhile, Ali has a few giddy moments after her second date with Dr. Laundry (previously Pie Guy). Where to find Damona: On Instagram @damonahoffman, at www.damonahoffman.com Timestamps: Damona joins us at around minute 35. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Have a scam to report? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 about your potential scam and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off. Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com. Stitch Fix: Try today at StitchFix.com/FMH, and you’ll get 25% off when you keep everything in your Fix. Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with Lume Deodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code FMH at LumeDeodorant.com! Our Sponsors: * Check out Recess and use my code FMH for a great deal: http://www.takearecess.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy