The Be Her Now concept just clicked so hard
So, I'm currently finding myself in a transition phase. This happens to me 2 to 3 times a year lol.I cannot fully find the words to explain what I mean, but basically one day things just don't feel aligned anymore and it turns into a bit of resistence and me just going through the motions because I feel like something's changing. What it exactly is, I don't know, but something's changing, almost out of my control, but I feel deep down inside it's also need. Like the Universe is giving me the push and answering the prayer or ask I put out to it. Buuutttttt anytime this phase hits, I start feeling super lost and question if everything I've been doing over the last several months has been "right". Imposter syndrome wants to set in...you know, the works. Anyway, I started feeling it over the weekend, it hit a little harder on Monday. On Tuesday I was in a full self-doubt downward spiral. At the end of that day I had a big long "talk" with my husband about it. "Talk" used lightly because it wasn't even a true conversation. It was more of me just full on brain dumping on him while he listened lol. But something that came out of that was this realization, dare I say epiphany, that this "change" isn't necessarily a full 180 pivot that needs to happen. It's more of just tiny micro shifts. But micro shifts to what? I know what I want out of life, I know where I want to go, I know the direction I want to go in, but HOW. Well, by figuring out what it actually means to be "her". Her, the person who I need to be to acheive all these things. But how do you figure out who that is? How do you figure out what that entails? Because if I had never figured that out before, how am I supposed to figure that out now? So who is "her"? Kim, I've binged this show so hard that in only a couple months time I was able to fully catch up and it's given me a chance to get to really know both of you on such a personal level. I see so much of myself in you already, there's so much I can relate to, but it hit me this week that you are my example of "her" to me. The way you live out your life personally, financially, mentally, spiritually, as a mom, as a wife, as a friend and mentor, you are the example I never realized until now that I'm working towards. Just you being you gives me guidance. I'm in my 30s, you're in your 40s, and I'm constantly finding myself saying "that's what I want for us" (as a couple) or "that's what I hope I can be for my kids" (we have our first on the way). I told my husband yesterday that you are the "her" I can start truly learning from and leaning into until I can create and bring to fruition the version of "her" for me that fits for me. Because I know at the end of the day we're still both different people and I'm not trying to be identical to you lol. But I just want you to know that you've become an even bigger role model and inspiration for me. I've always looked up to you, but it's in a more profound way now. And I can't thank you enough for that. All I can say is, complete clarity. The conversation I had with my husband allowed me to wake up on Wednesday feeling completely clear headed again and with a sense of direction of what this transition phase means and where I need to go with it. And right now, I'm leaning on you as my north star. Thank you for being you. Thank you for what you pour into this podcast (both of you). Thank you for everything that you do. Love you guys so much!!!!!! Also, I hope this all made sense lol.Read full review »
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