Episodes
Day 2 focuses on navigating never ending disputes in a relationship and offers a superior ideology outside the 50/50 phenomenon. This episode speaks to every relationship committed to getting to their full healthy potential in spite of the differences that may exist between the parties involved. Can't wait for Day 3, where we talk 'Loving the wrong person'. Stay tuned!!!
Published 02/08/24
Published 02/08/24
Day 1 of the #FochLoveSeries. We are talking on things we must consider when we subscribe to 'right person, wrong time' ideology. Is it valid? is it not? You tell us. Let us know your thoughts on the episode. See you @ Day 2 tomorrow where we look at 'Never ending disputes, the 50/50 phenomenon'.
Published 02/07/24
Gone are the days where friendships were characterized of sleepovers, all day conversations and shoulder-hitting laughter. It has not been eliminated, but it definitely is more controlled with the responsibilities that have come with adulthood. We do not have to kiss those good days of friendship goodbye, we only need to learn to navigate handling it in spite of the demands of adulthood. We discuss 5 points on hacking friendships in such a way that it stays full of value and quality.
Published 02/01/24
We are keeping it simple and straight to the point in 2024. If you are wanting to know just one thing to run with this year, it is in this podcast. Happy New Year from all of us at Foch Woman. We are convinced of such great things for 2024 and beyond. Stick with us, 2024 promises content that sticks, uplifts, guides and yields fruits.
Published 01/25/24
Video Episode - I hope this episode brings understanding to your heart that begins to always spur unity among discussions in the faith, rather than appear contradictory. God of my current season is not all there is to God and I must acknowledge that when I speak to other people in other seasons with God. The beauty of this body of Christ is the uniqueness with which God walks with all of us. May God help us seek unity always.
Published 10/20/23
For a God who honours His word above His name, must be tough to hear your children think or ask this question because of the events of this fallen world that we live in. But it remains a frequent question in the heart of most believers who are yet to see a manifestation of the things promised. So, does God really go back on His word? In this episode, we answer this question simply and clearly in 5 points. Hopefully, at the end of this episode, your question changes to highlight more the...
Published 10/12/23
We are living through very sensitive times, every topic is tagged 'touchy' or 'sensitive' and so we completely refrain from talking about heart matters, especially when they are sinful. This sensitivity has brought compromise on the standards of God, even among believers. This episode details 5 points on dealing with the sensitivity of this generation to ensure we are upholding the standard of God and staying accountable.
Published 09/04/23
In this episode, we discuss 5 points on training ourselves to expect miracles. We must grow from a place where we sound and live like people who believe more in God's reluctance than in His willingness to show up for us. This episode will help us evaluate how much our minds and hearts have been trained to stay on God in spite of the circumstances around us. N.B. Sincere apologies for the poor audio at one point, the microphone will be changed before the next episode.
Published 07/25/23
Often hard to tell when we have elevated someone to saviour status in our heads and heart, this episode will give you guides to know if you have. In this episode, we discuss ways to identify if you may have created a saviour complex around your partner and how to deal with it. It is a video podcast and you are able to watch the live recording @Foch_woman Instagram page.
Published 06/16/23
After a breakup, how do we know if we are ready to progress to a new relationship? This episode explores 5 points on discerning how ready we might be to move on. The timeframe cannot be the same for everyone but is dependent on factors that are discussed in this episode.
Published 04/26/23
I'm sure we might be able to recall a situation or two where we thought we were helping 2 people in a relationship by our counsel, and ended up in the burnt position. I want to say such is life, but I honestly believe there is a way to navigate such situations. In this episode, we discuss 5 points on effectively advising people in relationships. These points should be at the forefront of your mind when next you feel a deep urge to be a saviour in someones deteriorating relationship.
Published 04/24/23
Our profession and career are a big part of our human existence. For the believer, even more so because God has made us kings over this realm and expects that while we are here, we are curating it to be like His kingdom above. The first and most important call is to be a witness of the gospel, and added to that, to utilise all that God has placed within us for the building of people and to the glory of God. We see in the story of the talents how the master returns and asks each servant to...
Published 03/20/23
I love that we have a day each year to celebrate our gender and all it represents. I also am fond of the themes that come with each year by the national organisation. This year, it happens to be #EmbraceEquity and so, you can rest assured that tomorrow we will be hearing and reading all about the bias and unfair treatment of the female gender in society. While I perfectly understand the standpoint it often comes from, I am careful that we don't always get carried away looking at the other...
Published 03/08/23
Have you been, or currently going through a phase of total darkness and silence, where nothing seems to be happening in or around you? There is a temptation to allow such moments to impact our mental health and relationships, but we must be intentional about navigating these seasons in a healthy way that leaves no casualties. This episode discusses 5 steps in navigating the daily ordinary while waiting for the once-in-a-while extraordinary.
Published 03/03/23
Have you found yourself questioning yourself because of the people that seem to constantly come around you? This episode guides us to answer pertinent questions that might give us clarity as to why certain people are approaching us and why certain people are not approaching us. Also, it brings light for us to know that the people attracted to us may not be a function of what we have done or not done; sometimes, people kick balls and just wait to see which enters. Just like Pharoah tried to...
Published 02/13/23
Everyone wants to feel some fondness and tenderness in their relationship and marriage. No one wants to be left guessing if their partner loves them because they show no affection. While it is important to communicate our affection to our partners, we must know that it comes easier to some people as compared to others, so in this episode, we discuss navigating how to deal with a partner who is not as affectionate. In the end, we will see that while some partners appear more affectionate,...
Published 02/10/23
This episode is for people navigating their way through convincing their parents or guardians of their partner. What is the godly way to show your convictions without dishonouring your parents? We discuss 5 points to be noted through navigating this situation in this episode. In the end, while it remains your decision to make, your parents must be honoured and respected in that process because the bible recognises them as the stewards over you before any union in marriage. No to eloping and...
Published 01/18/23
In this episode, we talk about steps to take if you are in a relationship where the other party is averse to talking about marriage. Might be excusable the first year (even though the start of a relationship must have an agreed destination, even if something happens along the line), but becomes a point of concern if by the second, third+ years there is still no word or hint of walking into marriage. I do not believe that we were made to court for long or just 'see how things go', asides the...
Published 10/18/22
In this episode, we converse about the relationship that should exist between members of the body of Christ. The response and heart that we must all have towards each other, especially when either of us is found to have erred. This episode challenges us to see the picture of a whole body; a head fitted on the body and see that each time we reverence the head and are irreverent towards any member of the body, we cause the head heartache because the head delights in seeing His body behave and...
Published 10/18/22
It can be such an unconscious thing to pick up so much from around us and not pay attention to what is within us. It has become even harder in this media-saturated world where people spend more time seeing things and people they wish they have or are.  This has created a pandemic of desiring to be and do because we have seen others be and do, and not because Gods spirit in us is urging us in same direction. In this weeks episode we discuss 5 points to consider to be your authentic self...
Published 06/20/22
After my long hiatus from the podcast, we are back talking on some points that everyone must navigate through in entering into new phases, particularly matrimony. I share a new life update as well, which may or may not be what you think it is from the topic. Either way, brace yourself for some deep, honest introspection through this episode
Published 06/16/22
Today’s world is saturated with sexual content, everywhere you turn, there’s a semblance of sex staring at you. While we must guard our hearts, we must also equip ourselves with knowledge for dealing with sexual urges because they are a natural part of us as humans. While we must not indulge ourselves when they come, we must also not pamper them but do what 2 Corinthians 10:5 says “take captive every thought and make it obedient to Christ”.
Published 02/22/22
In this weeks episode, we discuss points that could help you predict if your current relationship will work and lead to marriage. While there is no certainty and heavy risks involved in love, we must agree that the Holy Spirit leads us in the will of God for our lives and does not author confusion. We discuss the pointers we must look out for to be certain of His leading for our lives. We're saying no to vibes and 'inshallah' in our walk to marriage.
Published 02/14/22
In the spirit of all the love being thrown around this weekend, I thought it lovely to share about 'our marriage rehearsal'. How marriage is only a mirror of our relationship with God. God is doing something with marriages on the earth, this episode opens your eyes to see what He is doing, how He is doing it and how you can plug yourself into it. A gentle reminder that Abba's love remains sufficient and full, plug in and get drunk in love!
Published 02/12/22