This week, the girls continue their chat about all things ORAL. (Listen to 069: Part 1: Techniques, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics here.) What to stop doing in oral sex. (2:38) Tips for helping with gag reflex. (4:56) Imbalance of giving head vs eating pussy. (10:14) Challenges and hangups with oral. (12:45) Best oral positions in group sex. (17:03) Grooming and hygiene. (21:03) Cum: spit or swallow? (27:17) Cum: where to finish, and how to communicate about it....

It's the oral extravaganza! Vee and Elle chat about all things oral: blow jobs, eating out and all the good and bad along with it.  Why do you deep throat? (1:53) Enthusiasm - our number one tip! The importance of moaning to show enthusiasm when receiving. (6:37) Techniques for giving head: the corkscrew method; communication; ball sucking and licking. (9:49) Getting comfortable! The best positions to give head and go down on someone. (15:08) Techniques for licking pussy...

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a session, to safety considerations (especially when using electroplay), and so much more. Sarah Eve is an educator and facilitated a mini workshop on sensation play at Daytime Playtime: a Sober Play Party, which Vee recapped in Episode 063. What is sensation play? How can we stimulate different senses to heighten a sexual experience? It’s not...

In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success.  Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it's so...

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game. First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ : from Episode 057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life! Then, The Builder: from  Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle and mentioned in multiple other...

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat before and after Vee goes to Hedonism Swing Breakers: an under-45 swinger event at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica.  It's a weeklong takeover of the resort, full of nudity, orgies, theme parties and debauchery!  Vee articulates her intentions, and later they recap the week and their experiences of it - both there and from afar - and what their takeaways were! This conversation includes: Lingerie vs rave costumes at lifestyle theme parties. PLUS packing...

In this week's episode, Elle and Vee chat about all things SNCTM, the private members club that the girls have always wanted a peek inside.  They cover the club, but also go super deep with their guest on the deeper meaning behind impact play, his love and adoration of his burlesque champion wife, and their artistic partnership. Daniel D’Ottavio: his role in SNCTM, and his origin story with his wife, Lou Lou D’vil, the creative director or SNCTM. (1:03) Monogamy and SNCTM: The choice to...

Horny for Knowledge: Daytime Playtime Sober Play Party with Mini Workshops. (00:54) What is a daytime sober play party like? Analyzing the space and vibe: lighting, highlighting hit me up, attire, number of people. (4:54) What sobriety brings to a sex party. (7:21) Lola Jean: Spicing up the typical consent speech, including an interactive exercise. (9:31) Making eye contact at a sex party: it;s not necesssarily an invitation! (11:02)  Embodiment, setting intentions, and setting...

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game! Leia (@vibrantbyleia) from Episode 41: Transformational Experiences in ENM and Episode 42: Sexual Somatic Healing and Sasha Silver (@Sashasilverxo) from Episode 54: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix. With Leia, the way we played the game was by answering “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank you” and with Sasha, we had to guess if the person who drew the card had done it or not. Plan B use in college and IUDs....

Listen in as Elle and Vee chat with Amy and Byron about Noetic, an exclusive elite VIP sex  party which  hosts  unique, kinky, themed events in NYC, Miami, and Dubai. They cover everything from strap-ons to consent double standards and hot girls privilege. What does Noetic mean? (0:44) What is the orientation of the attendees of these events?  (4:04) How does allowing women to have complimentary membership impact the dynamic and ambiance of the parties? (5:46) What can one expect at...

In this episode Vee and Elle had special guest Daniel Saynt on the show: founder and Chief Conspirator of NSFW, AKA New Society for Wellness,  which is an NYC-based sex club and community.  They get into what makes NSFW different from other sex spaces, how they host workshops around sex education and communication, how they create safe space for all genders and sexual orientations, including bisexual and gay men, to feel welcomed and safe to explore their sexy sides… and way...

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with sensuality mentor and sensual shibari practitioner Jaqueline Michelle about ways to heal trauma and connect with yourself.  They touch on everything from solo kink to conscious sex work and strip clubs, the stigma around stripping and finding what makes you feel sexy, relearning to tune into your body when you disassociate to healing trauma through movement and self love practices, and surrendering to your inner domme or sub. Jaqueline Michelle's...

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back guest Jess from Episode 37: Edging, to play the game WHOREible Life together!  This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!  When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you.  1 Done it —with story sharing 2 Fantasy —-with desire share 3 No thank you --and why not Ass swallowing butt plug experience. (1:00)  Toy...

In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Zachary Zane on everything from coming out as bisexual to overcoming shame, the importance of community and the nerdiness of polyamorous people.  Being “closeted” as a sex positive swinger. (3:42) Pansexual vs bisexual. (7:12) From sexually confused to "The Bisexual Mega Influencer." (13:13) Bisexual visibility/audibility. (18:46) Untangling anal stigmas - can you be seen as masculine AND enjoy anal play? (23:44) Common myths or...

In this episode, Elle and Vee reflect on their sexual highlights from 2023, and look forward to what they want to focus on in 2024, sexually and personally.  But first, they recap and share takeaways from their 16-person NYC weekend. Slutcracker weekend recap. (3:05) Takeaway: Finding quiet moments to recharge batteries. (6:27) Hot takes on the NSFW soft opening. (11:40)  Hoes in Hoboken: Joy Edition. (17:26) Highlight: Vee gives head from start to finish! (21:50) Takeaway: The bonus of...

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up after their separate slutty adventures.  Elle gives all the naughty details of her trip to Nicaragua with a group of ENM friends, and Vee shares her sexy stories and takeaways from the Naughty Snowball, an annual sexy party thrown by Brandi and the DJ.   Through detailing their experiences, you get an inside look at all the ways in which Elle, Vee and their friends get intimate and playful one-on-one with their primary partners, and in group sex...

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Femdom Sasha Silver. The girls talk about her journey from webcamming to dominatrix to self discovery to the psychology behind many kinks and fetishes. This conversation has so many good nuggets! We're excited for you take a deep dive with us! Who is Sasha Silver and how she got into webcamming on Chaturbate, and online Sex Work. (1:38) What is a cam girl?  (4:30) Sasha shares web cam tips that helped her success. (5:38) What was on Sasha’s cam girl...

In the episode you've all been waiting for ;), Elle and Vee dive deep into all things BUTT STUFF, including (drumroll please)... Vee's play by play of her first DP!  New Years Eve: Vee does DP (double pentration)! (2:23) Butt plugs: tails and inflatable butt plugs - the pros and cons and what to watch out for! Douching, and butt plugs falling out. (12:45) Lubes: types of lube (silicone vs water based), coconut oil and lube shooters. What Elle learned from the Reddit thread Ask Gay Bros....

Happy New Year! Elle and Vee usher in 2024 by reflecting on some of the  never-before-released clips from some of the most popular episodes of 2023.    Nipples through shirts: Free the nipple?  What are the ethics of letting your nipples show through your shirt in public?  What about wearing a shirt with fake nipples built in?  (2:34)   (Hear the full conversation in Episode 041)    DVAAP: What's the best position to make triple penetration (DVP and anal) work? The importance of set and...

Wrapping up 2023! Podcast stats revealed! THANK YOU to our listeners! We appreciate you spending time with us each week and for sharing this podcast with others!  In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Julia Lange, the brains behind a sexy vacation week called Hedonism Swing Breakers (HSB) that happens every year in March at resort Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica! Then, they answer all your questions submitted on social media about Hedo.   How did Hedonism II and Hedonism Swing Breakers come...

The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including: Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or turn someone down in the moment at a sex party? How circumstances, headspace and how well you know the person comes into play: private play parties, organized play parties, lifestyle resorts, etc. (10:45) The do's and don'ts of rejection.  Rejecting over text, ghosting, and being clear and respectful. (16:24) Vee gets rejected over text, and...

In this episode, Elle and Vee have one of their most important conversations to date: all things vaginal health.  Elle is a medical professional - a nutritional therapist and holistic  medical professional with a Doctor of Pharmacy degree, so Vee uses this opportunity to pick her brain about how to prevent the most common of vaginal issues, including:    Chronic yeast infections and BV (bacterial vaginosis): natural solutions, vaginal PH balance and probiotics. What specific probiotic strains...

Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend.  After the 2022 edition, the girls debriefed their weekend, including: How to throw a great sex party! Valuing comfort: what’s on the checklist when setting up as a host? (2:42 ) The girls share their intentions, and what they learned from implementing them, including communicating your desires in the moment, and acting on your sexual feelings....

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able to explore all types of fantasies, from orgies to sub/dom power dynamics to pet play, and the joy and empowerment they can bring. Fantasies: exploring and fulfilling fantasies through ENM (ethical non monogamy). (2:18) How can you make it work when you’re both submissive? (9:25) Being dommed with your partner. (14:19) Hiring a pro dominatrix....