In this episode, my guest, Marisa, of @littlebent_notbroken and I unpack the lyrics to “The Way I Loved You” from Taylor Swift’s album, Fearless (throwback!). We discuss our interpretations of the song through the lens of what it’s like to be in a new relationship after a toxic or abusive relationship. Some topics we cover in the episode are: missing someone even though they were toxic or harmful in your life. when dating after abuse feeling boring or lackluster compared to the high highs and low lows of a past relationships. why you’re attracted to the chase of someone inconsistent. what you learn from relationships that pair love with pain. and so much more!