Episodes
Lady, do you find stocks, cryptocurrency, and diversifying your financial portfolio overwhelming? Then you are not alone. For many of us, navigating the world of investments and trading, where currently only 3% of us occupy that space, can feel like learning a foreign language. Then there’s the emotional rollercoaster involved with the risks of gaining and losing. In today’s episode, Tiffany J shares with Dr. Dom and Terri why “We’re all we got!” in creating the community of Modern Blk Girl...
Published 07/30/21
You're listening to a live mini-episode that aired on Spotify Greenroom. Join us live by downloading Greenroom (spotify.com/greenroom), follow us @TerriLomax & @TheDoctorDom, and meet us every Friday at 1:30 PM PT / 4:30 PM ET. Be sure to also catch our weekly standard podcast episodes every Friday morning.
Published 07/26/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs). Grown out of the need to provide higher education to Black students when white institutions would not let us in. Today, these institutions are the center of Black academic culture. Some of our favorite celebrities attended HBCUs (hey Meg Thee Stallion!). In today’s episode, Dr. Dom and Terri...
Published 07/23/21
You're listening to a live mini-episode that aired on Spotify Greenroom. Join us live by downloading Greenroom (spotify.com/greenroom), follow us @TerriLomax & @TheDoctorDom, and meet us every Friday at 1:30 PM PT / 4:30 PM ET. Be sure to also catch our weekly standard podcast episodes every Friday morning.
Published 07/19/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Lady, are you mastering what you are doing in your career? Do you enjoy the work you do? Are you continuing to make an impact? Do you have a job or a career? Not sure how to answer any of those questions? No matter your stage in your career, today’s episode is for you! Kimberly Cummings joins Dr. Dom and Terri to share her own career journey and...
Published 07/16/21
You're listening to a live mini-episode that aired on Spotify Greenroom. Join us live by downloading Greenroom (spotify.com/greenroom), follow us @TerriLomax & @TheDoctorDom, and meet us every Friday at 1:30 PM PT / 4:30 PM ET. Be sure to also catch our weekly standard podcast episodes every Friday morning.
Published 07/12/21
Do people describe you as kind or nice? Perhaps you use the terms interchangeably. Terri and Dr. Dom are here to encourage you to move towards kindness. In today’s episode, Dr. Dom and Terri provide us with the differentiation between being kind vs nice. The ladies also share why it is necessary to know the difference and the implications for choosing kindness over niceness. Quote of the Day: "Kindness is spreading sunshine into other people's lives regardless of the weather."...
Published 07/09/21
You're listening to a live mini-episode that aired on Spotify Greenroom. Join us live by downloading Greenroom (spotify.com/greenroom), follow us @TerriLomax & @TheDoctorDom, and meet us every Friday at 1:30 PM PT / 4:30 PM ET. Be sure to also catch our weekly standard podcast episodes every Friday morning.
Published 07/06/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Is your last relationship in the rearview mirror and you’re ready to start dating again? Are you getting over one person by getting under another? Perhaps you’re unsure and the whole thing seems overwhelming and exhausting. Have you taken time to learn the lessons and get to know yourself?  No matter where you are in the process, in today’s...
Published 07/02/21
You're listening to a live mini-episode that aired on Spotify Greenroom. Join us live by downloading Greenroom (spotify.com/greenroom), follow us @TerriLomax & @TheDoctorDom, and meet us every Friday at 1:30 PM PT / 4:30 PM ET. Be sure to also catch our weekly standard podcast episodes every Friday morning.
Published 06/28/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Lady, let this song lyric marinate, do some research on the meaning, and then etch this song in your spirit: “This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine.” Not sure what it means to shine your light? In today’s episode, Dr. Dom and Terri help us understand how we may be dimming our light through real-life examples. Now is the time for us...
Published 06/25/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe “Something just ain’t right” and “I got a funny feeling” are more than lyrics in a song. It’s that feeling we get when there has been a shift in our relationship. How do you respond? Will it be your petty, passive, or vulnerable self showing up to the situation? In today’s episode, Terri and Dr. Dom share common scenarios to help us determine...
Published 06/18/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Think about the Black girls in your life. Really think about them. What are the words you would use to describe them?  Are any of those words ones you use to describe adults? Lady, if you are like most of us then at least one word is probably more appropriate to describe an adult.  In today’s episode, Terri and Dr. Dom help us understand the...
Published 06/11/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Lady, when was the last time you gave yourself the same energy and love you give everyone else in your life? If you find yourself constantly giving everyone your all and carrying the weight of the world without breaking, then you may be experiencing Black Superwoman Syndrome. Not sure how to be anything other than Black Superwoman? Well, today,...
Published 06/04/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Mean Girls. We all know them. Perhaps, the mean girl is you. Not sure if it’s you? In this episode, Dr. Dom and Terri provide us with real-life examples of mean girls. Listening to their authentic conversation we learn to distinguish between awkward situations, normal conflict, and mean girl energy. Terri and Dr. Dom also give us strategies...
Published 05/28/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Friendships are a necessity for our survival. The longer the relationship the more likely the friendship will have experienced a variety of life transitions- weddings, children, death, etc. In today’s episode, Terri and Dr. Dom explore friendship changes for new moms. Whether you are a new mom or the supportive friend, this is a conversation...
Published 05/21/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe Lady, do you subscribe to our Patreon page to get our Ask Dr. Dom segments? If not, you might be missing out on tips that you or someone you know can benefit from. Precarious situation with your partner? Difficult relationship with your in-laws? Then you may benefit from subscribing and submitting your questions to the Ask Dr. Dom Talkback...
Published 05/14/21
Lady, if you enjoyed the episode then you will really enjoy this peek behind the scenes. It will feel like you're right there in conversation with Terri and Dr. Dom. To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and please share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe
Published 05/09/21
To get more behind-the-scenes content, become a subscriber. Click the link and share with your friends: https://anchor.fm/her-space/subscribe We have been living through the COVID-19 pandemic for well over a year now. Everyone has had different experiences through this pandemic dependent upon your positionality and identities. As the country eases restrictions and tries to return to pre-pandemic life, how do you feel about engaging with people again? A lot of us are experiencing anxiety...
Published 05/07/21
Who are the people we can work with? Who are the ones we need to workaround? When we identify what is within our control, we can expend our energy in ways that will capitalize on our efforts to make a change. Today Dr. Dom and Terri talk about the origins of cancel culture, the difference between calling out or calling in, and when to use which strategy. Quote of the Day: "Some people you can work with and some people you can workaround. " Loretta Ross Tips for determining whether to...
Published 04/30/21
Ever wonder how your therapist became a therapist? Or perhaps, you are considering becoming a therapist. Imagine being able to peek “behind the scenes” or “get the inside scoop” to learn about your therapist’s career journey or how your therapist approaches working with clients. You know, the information beyond what is on their website. Why did they become a therapist? What are their thoughts about certain client experiences? In today’s episode, Terri interviews Dr. Dom about her personal...
Published 04/23/21
In last week’s episode, Terri and Dr. Dom explored the quiz from Dr. Ramani Durvasula about narcissistic partners. Today, Dr. Ramani joins the ladies for a more in-depth conversation to understand the key characteristics of a narcissistic partner like gaslighting, breadcrumbing, manipulating, and hoovering. If you wonder if you are in a narcissistic relationship, listen to the stages and traits to see if they resonate. Dr. Ramani will also share her strategies for ending and healing from the...
Published 04/16/21
Does your partner often think that people are out to get them or take advantage of them? On one hand this a valid experience of being Black but when combined with certain other traits this could be a sign of narcissism. In today’s episode, Terri and Dr. Dom take a look at some of the questions from Dr. Ramani’s quiz in her book, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist. Listen in to see if you or someone you know fits this description and tune in next week to...
Published 04/09/21
Lady, are you ready to stop hustling for your worthiness and become the victor in your story? It is time for us to stop dimming our light and focus on shining and soaring! We are not defined by where we come from and as Bryan Stevenson notes, “ Each of us is much more than the worst thing we’ve ever done.” In today’s episode, listen in as Dr. Dom and Terri discuss how shame shows up in our lives. They also provide us with the internal and external compasses we can create to put shame in its...
Published 04/02/21
The mother-daughter relationship is a complex one. Some of us have beautiful relationships with our mothers in which they are one of the most trusted people in our inner circle. However, what happens if you have a complicated, distant, or estranged relationship with your mother? What are the feelings that come up for you? How can you support a friend who does not have a close relationship with their mother? In this episode, Dr. Dom and Terri discuss Terri’s relationship with her mother and...
Published 03/26/21