In this installment, I lie down with Wry, nonmonogamy consultant,  clear-talking, thoughtful advocate for alternative relationships and kinky stuff, entertainer, Dominant, consent activist, public speaker, social justice warrior, and the host of many, many a panel. In this part of our conversation, we talk about playing 90210, internalized slut-shaming, choosing heartbreak, relationship anarchy, PREP, and how herpes is really not that big of a deal. Sign up for everything on: horizontalwithlila.com